Has a songto singlike this: PerhapsIhit the south wallto turn head, possiblyIsaw the Yellow Riverto lose heart......
有首歌是这样唱的:可能我撞了南墙才会回头吧,可能我见了黄河才会死心吧……Yang Yanthought that daughter'sconditionisthis, shealsolimitsto the cognition of the world in very smallrangenow, stilldid not know the changes in temperature, does not know the thickness of clothes, ifshehas the clearunderstandinglike the Sir, naturallycannotentanglewithPapamustwear the down clothing!杨言觉得女儿的状况就是这样,她现在对世界的认知还局限在很小的范围,尚不知冷暖,也不知道衣服的厚薄,如果她像大人一样有着清楚的了解,自然不会跟爸爸缠着要穿羽绒服!Naturally, Yang Yannowalsochoices of severaldealing!
当然,杨言现在也有几种应对的选择!Likemostguardians, theywill favor the rejection, moreoverdoes not have the patientstiffrejection, thiswill often bring very bignegative impact on the child, the consequence that thencausesis the childmakes a tearful scene, guardianto beat and scold......
像大多数家长,他们会倾向于拒绝,而且是没有耐心的生硬拒绝,这往往会给孩子带来很大的负面冲击,然后导致的后果就是孩子哭闹、家长打骂……Someguardiansare not good atrejecting, the childwantedanything, braced oneself must satisfyhim!
还有部分家长不擅长拒绝,孩子想要什么了,硬着头皮也要满足他!
The little frienddid not understandcontrolsown**, moretolerates, theyearnestly seekwill be more, will makewith the guardianintenselymust the thing that oneselfwant.
小朋友可是不懂得控制自己的**的,越是纵容,他们渴求的就会越多,也会变本加厉地跟家长闹着要得到自己想要的东西。Being the guardianis not easy, makesone to trainchild'sguardian is not easier, Yang Yanknows, whenfacingthisissue, whatoneselfneedsto achieveis the sufficientpatientandappropriateguidance!
做家长不容易,做一个能培养出好孩子的家长更不容易,杨言知道,在面对这个问题的时候,自己需要做到的是充足的耐心和恰当的引导!Lookhe„bang bang bang”is patting the garlic, whilesaidwithLuoluowith very gentletone: „Do youwantto put onAuntie Wufor the down clothing that youbuy?”
这不,他一边“砰砰砰”地拍着大蒜,一边用很平和的语气跟落落说道:“你想要穿吴阿姨给你买的羽绒服是吧?”Hearstone that Paparelaxes, the mood that Luoluois irritable was also eased, shehonk the smallmouth, is respondingwithPapawith the nasal sound: „Un......”
听到爸爸缓和下来的语气,落落急躁的心情也得到了缓解,她嘟着小嘴巴,用鼻音跟爸爸回应道:“嗯……”„Can youwait? Papamustprepare food, youlooked,so manyvegetables/dishesmustdo, not quicklywords, LuoluoandMamado not have the foodto eattonight!”Yang Yanhas turned the head, the gentle voicesaidwithLuoluo,„waitsagain, Papamade the meal, againtoyouwithclothes?”
“那你可不可以等一等?爸爸要做饭,你看,这么多菜要做,不赶快的话,落落和妈妈今晚就没有饭吃了!”杨言转过头,柔声跟落落说道,“就再等一等,爸爸把饭菜做好了,再给你拿衣服,好吗?”But, otherswantnow......
可是,人家现在就要……„......”Luoluofirstis notby the temper, sends out a longresistance the hum/snort.
“唔……”落落先是由着性子,发出一长串抗拒的哼声。Fortunately, thislittle girl is actually very sensible, hersmallheadtransferred the revolutions, thinksfragrantmeal, „pitiful”Mama, shedoes not haveagainsnort/hum, pesterswithPapanon-stop.
还好,这小姑娘其实挺懂事的,她的小脑袋转了转,想到香喷喷的饭菜,还有“可怜”的妈妈,她就没有再哼下去,跟爸爸纠缠不停。„Howling, howling...... wants, must...... shecontinuehonk the smallmouthwithLuoluo”, somedid not abandonanddid not feel relieved that saidwithPapa.
“嚎,嚎吧……要,要拿落落呢……”她继续嘟着小嘴巴,有些不舍和不放心地跟爸爸说道。„Naturally, when has Papadeceivedyou? Luoluogoes backthat side the living roomquickly, playswithsmallBagongandMiao Xiaomitogether, the Papastir-fried dishis quick!” The performance of Yang Yantodaughteris very satisfied, hesaidwith the little fellowwith a smile.
“当然,爸爸什么时候骗过你?落落快回去客厅那边,跟小八公和喵小米一起玩,爸爸炒菜很快的!”杨言对女儿的表现很是满意,他笑着跟小家伙说道。Luoluothis is very obedient, has not turned aroundloathsome, „dádá dá”smallstringsound of footsteps, sheranthat side the living room.落落这回就很听话,不拖泥带水地转过身,“哒哒哒”地一小串脚步声,她就跑回去了客厅那边。Yang Yanthenlooked atdaughter'ssmallbackhopping along, on the mouthhas been retaininghappy expressionslightly.杨言回头看了看女儿一蹦一跳的小背影,嘴上一直保留着微微的笑意。Actually, goes to the roomto take the Luoluo'sdown clothingto come out, how longcannot delay, will not causenot to have the foodto eattonight.
其实,去房间里拿落落的羽绒服出来,也耽误不了多长时间,更不会导致今晚没饭吃。But, Yang Yanwantsto delay, do not make the little fellowhaveherto wantanything, Papato giveherfeeling!
可是,杨言还是想要拖延一下,不要让小家伙有一种她要什么、爸爸就会给她的感觉!Moreover, this is also the quitegoodopportunity, exercisingLuoluo'sis patient!
而且,这也是比较好的机会,锻炼一下落落的耐心!
The book of motheringclasstoldYang Yan, has the patiencechildoftento be ableinfuturemanyaspectsto succeed! But the instinct of persondoes not endure patiently, the goodpatiencemustdepend onday after tomorrowdisciplining, ortrains!
育儿类的书告诉杨言,有耐心的孩子往往更能够在未来很多方面获得成功!但人的天性并不是忍耐,良好的耐心是要靠后天的磨练,或者说培养!Yang YanletsLuoluonowwait/etc.previousa while, so long as the little fellowcanendurethese dayspsychologyto suffer, herpatiencewill be trainedslowly!杨言现在就让落落等上一阵子,只要小家伙能熬过这段时间的心理折磨,她的耐心就会慢慢地被培养出来了!Thisfirst-grade, is about an hour......
这一等,就是将近一个小时的时间……Yang Yanhas not poked head to look at the Luoluo'sperformance, buthe can feel, the little fellowis waiting for himselfanxiously, perhaps, during this period, sheis innumerableturns head, that eagerlypitifulvigor, Yang Yanestimatedoneselflooked, meetsin the heartnot to endure!杨言没有探出头去看落落的表现,但他能够感觉得到,小家伙正在焦急地等待着自己,或许,在此期间,她还无数次回头,那眼巴巴的可怜劲儿,杨言估计自己看了,也会于心不忍的!Finally, the mealcompleted, Yang Yanplacesthemalsohasin the pot of residual heatto be hot, thenscratches, goes out of the kitchen.
终于,饭菜做好了,杨言将它们放在还有余温的锅里热着,然后擦着手,走出厨房。„Where is Luoluoat? Papamustlook for the prettyclothes that youwanttoyou!”Yang Yancalled outintentionallyloudly, positivetone, fullpositive synergy.
“落落在哪呢?爸爸要给你找你想要的漂亮衣服咯!”杨言故意高声叫道,积极的语气,满满的正能量。„Hee hee!”Really, after hearing the Papasummon, Luoluocrawlsimmediatelyfrom the sofa, a smallhead of powderDudusearchedfrom the seat back cushionplace of sofa, sheis looking at each otherwithPaparadiantly.
“嘻嘻!”果然,听到爸爸呼唤后,落落马上从沙发上爬起来,一只粉嘟嘟的小脑袋从沙发的靠背处探了出来,她跟爸爸眉开眼笑地对视着。„Walks! Papatook the clothestoyou!”Yang Yanwaves, says with a smile.
“走走走!爸爸给你拿衣服了!”杨言挥了挥手,笑道。
Before hefirstarrives at the gate of bedroom, the footstepsstopslightly, following close on, was resoundingxixisususlides the sound that from the sofa.
他先走到卧室的门前,脚步稍作停留,紧跟着,身后就响起了窸窸窣窣的从沙发上滑下来的动静。Yang Yanhears, Luoluoruns over, whilealsoworries„groaning”to make noise: „Papa, keeps off, keeps off( wait/etc.) Luoluo, wú......”杨言听到,落落一边跑过来,一边还着急地“哼哼”出声:“粑粑,挡,挡挡(等等)落落,唔……”„Runsslowly, no rush, Papainyou.”Yang Yanlooks atshort ponytail that aboutdaughterthatmoves, cannot bearput out a handto trace, the gentle voicesaid with a smile.
“慢慢跑,别急,爸爸在等你。”杨言看着女儿那左右甩动的小马尾,忍不住伸手去摸了摸,柔声笑道。In the chock fullclosethas put out the Luoluo'sdown clothingfromstops up, Yang Yandemonstratestolittle girl, said with a smile: „What kind of? Lookson the line? Canput on?”
从早已经塞得满满当当的衣柜里拿出落落的羽绒服,杨言给小姑娘展示一下,笑道:“怎么样?看一看就行?还是要穿上?”Luoluohad been jumpingjoyfullysame placejumping, bright eyes, saidwithPapaexcitedly: „Un, puts on, puts on, Luoluowants......”落落已经欣喜地在原地蹦了蹦,眼睛亮亮的,兴奋地跟爸爸说道:“嗯呢,穿,穿,落落要……”In order towear the clothes, heralsoboneturns aroundcommon, is turning away fromPapa, openstwosmall hands, exhibitedusuallyPapato put on the clothestime, sheto make the posture of coordinationtoher!
为了穿衣服,她还骨碌碌地转过身去,背对着爸爸,张开两只小手,摆出了平时爸爸给她穿衣服时候、她做出配合的姿势!Yang Yanhas not saidanythingagain, no matteralsoLuoluoalsowears a woolen sweaternow, is drawing the sleevedirectly, helpinglittle girlput on the down clothing!杨言没有再说什么,也不管落落现在还穿着一条毛衣,就直接拉着袖子,帮小姑娘将羽绒服穿上!„Hee hee!”Has not drawn in the zipper, Luoluolooksto change toPapa before body, the eyecurvedsmiled.
“嘻嘻!”都还没拉上拉链,落落就看着转到自己身前的爸爸,眼睛弯弯地笑了起来。„Haslikesthisclothesso much?”Yang Yanshakes the headfunnily, heknows that will be very hot, butgave the little fellowdrawing in the zipper of clothes.
“有这么喜欢这件衣服吗?”杨言好笑地摇了摇头,他知道会很热,但还是给小家伙把衣服的拉链给拉上了。„Then, is you feel!”Yang Yanstands up, after lookingwears the down clothing, seemsa littleclumsy, the little fellowlikesmallpenguin, musedat heart.
“接下来,就是你自己感受的时候了!”杨言站起身来,看着穿上羽绒衣之后,就显得有点笨拙,像个小企鹅一样的小家伙,心里暗想。Regarding the child, the Sirsaidagainmany, theyare not possibly ableto hear, after alltheydid not have the Sirthatrichlife experience.
对于孩子而言,大人说得再多,他们可能都无法听得进去,毕竟他们还没有大人那么丰富的生活经验。Thatinthisminor matter, makingLuoluopersonallyexperienceconsequence that causeswillfully!
那就在这种小事上,让落落亲身体会一下任性带来的后果吧!
......
……Justput onLuoluo of down clothingisveryhappy, shehas not felt the sultryfeeling that this„skirt”broughtfrom the start!
刚刚穿上羽绒服的落落还是很开心的,她压根还没感受到这个“裙子”带来的闷热感!little girlgoes into the living roomwith joy, the turning circlecircledemonstrated that looksto the little friends!小姑娘喜滋滋地跑到客厅,转着圈圈展示给小伙伴们看!SmallBagongmostsupported!
小八公最捧场了!Itgathers round the Luoluogoing aroundcircleexcitedly, but alsocannot bearcalltwogently: „woof, woof!”
它兴奋地围着落落绕圈圈,还忍不住轻轻地叫上两声:“汪,汪!”SmallCorgiwas sayingprobably: Youngmaster, youwherenaughtyskin? Kryptongold/metal? Speciallyattractive!
小柯基好像在说:小主人,你在哪里淘的这身皮?氪金了吗?特别好看呢!„Hee hee!”Luoluofeltoneselfobtainedthinking highly of little friend, thensmiledstimulated.
“嘻嘻!”落落感觉自己得到了小伙伴的恭维,也便笑得更加亢奋了。However, inthisrevolutiontwo, the little girltip of the noseemits the carefulbeads of sweatunknowingly, was onlyat this time, Luoluohad not felt that hadanything is not right!
不过,这转上两圈,不知不觉的,小姑娘的鼻尖就冒出细细的汗珠,只是这时候,落落还没有感觉到有什么不对呢!
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