Depth consultation? 深度咨询？ Sun Wen is silent has not been saying, drank liquor. 孙文沉默着没接话,又喝了一口酒。 Although truly a little wants to try this depth deeply, but he is not in no mood now. 虽然确实有点想试试这个深度有多深,但他现在没心情。 „Stubborn.” slow Wei looked that his appearance shakes the head, at once smiles, „I was interested in you.” “死心眼。”徐薇看他样子摇了摇头,旋即又笑起来,“不过我对你更感兴趣了。” Conquers such man, will be more interesting. 征服这样的男人,会更有趣。 „Is your also stubborn?” “你这也是死心眼吧？” „Different.” “不一样。” „Where different?” Sun Wen asked. “哪里不一样？”孙文问。 „I think the means by myself comfortably, you find the way to make itself uncomfortable.” slow Wei directed adeptly selected him, referred to behind, „you more could not obtain, will be more uncomfortable, but so long as I bumped into one similarly, can for falling you.” “我想办法让自己舒坦,你想办法让自己难受。”徐薇拿手指点了点他,又指指身后,“你越得不到,就会越难受,而我只要碰到一个差不多的,就可以替掉你。” Sun Wen laughs in spite of trying not, „your not over 30 years old?” 孙文失笑,“你不会三十多岁了吧？” Woman who the women, can maintain particularly, from semblance really very ugly coming out age. 女人,尤其是会保养的女人,从外表真的很难看出来年纪。 Let alone puts on make-up. 更何况化了妆。 „This year 18.” “今年十八。” „Ok, I believed.” “行,我信了。” Two people do not have to speak again, Sun Wen places on the bar to revolve the cup gently, slow Wei with the small arm pad under the neck, by calmly visits him in the bar edge. 两人没再说话,孙文把杯子放在吧台上轻轻旋转,徐薇用小臂垫在脖子下,靠在吧台边缘静静看着他。 More looks more finds it interesting. 越看越觉得有意思。 When happy false appearance disintegration, the man of longer sentiment, collapses thoroughly. 当美好的假象崩碎时,越长情的男人,崩溃得越彻底。 „I can help you offer advice.” “我可以帮你出个主意。” After silent for a long time, she brings the happy expression opens the mouth. 沉默许久后,她带着笑意开口。 „What idea?” Sun Wen asked. “什么主意？”孙文问。 „Helps you recall the sentimental the idea.” “帮你挽回感情的主意。” „Mentioned listens?” “说来听听？” This woman changes the attitude suddenly, he somewhat touches does not permit her to think anything, on the face has the obvious suspicion. 这女人忽然改变态度,他有些摸不准她在想什么,脸上带着明显的怀疑。 slow Wei has not cared about his attitude, is still maintaining by the posture in bar, opens the mouth saying: „You know that what your issue is?” 徐薇并没在意他的态度,依然保持着靠在吧台上的姿势,开口道:“你知道你的问题是什么吗？” „What is?” “是什么？” „Where is the difference of man and woman at?” slow Wei had not replied, but also asked an issue. “男人和女人的区别在哪？”徐薇没有回答,而是又提出了一个问题。 „To say that anything said directly.” Sun Wen is disinclined to play to guess a riddle with her. “想说什么直接说吧。”孙文懒得和她玩猜谜。 „I am help you analyze you two sentiment the essential issue.” slow Wei bullet hit nail reluctantly, „just spoke of the princess dream, have you looked at the fairy tale?” “我是帮你分析你们两个感情的本质问题。”徐薇懒懒的弹着指甲,“刚刚说到公主梦,你看过童话吗？” „Naturally has looked.” “当然看过。” „What are the fairy tale princesses?” “童话里的公主都是什么样的？” „Attractive, gentle...... good...... natural, strong......” Sun Wen is thinking, speaking of finally smiled, „all happy added to finish up.” “漂亮,温柔……善良……大方,坚强……”孙文思索着,说到最后自己都笑了,“所有的美好都加上去就完事了。” „Method that they work?” “她们做事的方法呢？” „......” “呃……” „Waiting.” slow Wei brings back the corners of the mouth, shows a meaningful smile, „princess, no matter were maltreated by the queen, was seized by the Evil Dragon, or by witch, all misery they were withstood silently, then waits for the prince or the warrior saves her, she must do, only then waits.” “等待。”徐薇勾起嘴角,露出一个意味深长的笑容,“公主不管是被王后虐待,还是被恶龙抓走,又或者被巫女施法,所有的苦难她们都默默承受,然后等待王子或者勇士去救她,她要做的只有等待。” „Then?” “然后呢？” „Prince and warrior are opposite, they rise to challenges, span the long and trying journey, eliminates the numerous difficulties to save the princess.” “王子和勇士则相反,他们都是披荆斩棘,跨越千山万水,消灭重重困难去救公主。” slow Wei looks at Sun Wen expression looking pensive, the smile, „this is the difference of man and woman.” 徐薇看着孙文若有所思的表情,笑容更甚,“这就是男人和女人的区别。” „Un? Man and woman?” “嗯？男人和女人？” „Woman is passive, the man is driving. No matter the women suffer many misery, the princess dream is very difficult to wake, because princess suffering hardships is very difficultly normal, sooner or later will have the prince to rescue her, you are not good, that is because you are not her prince.” “女人是被动的,男人是主动的。女人不管遭受多少苦难,公主梦都很难醒过来,因为公主受点苦难很正常,早晚会有王子来解救她,你不行,那是因为你不是她的王子。” She, continued saying: „However the man was different, so long as had/left the society to touch several walls, will bump oneself awakes, understands oneself were only an average person, was not the prince, was not the warrior, was an ordinary mortal, got married princess's dream also on the powder.” 她顿了顿,继续道:“而男人就不一样了,只要出了社会多碰几次壁,就会把自己碰醒,明白自己只是个普通人,不是王子,也不是勇士,就是个普普通通的凡人,迎娶公主的梦也就散了。” „Therefore the standard of woman is almost alines upwardly, asks the spouse to want . Moreover the shortcoming cannot be too many, they can for a minor object, but neglects man other merits, then told him: We are inappropriate.” “所以女人的标准几乎都是向上对齐,找配偶一定要比自己强,而且缺点不能太多,她们可以为了一个小缺点,而忽略一个男人其他所有优点,然后告诉他:我们不合适。” „Man is happen to opposite, the standards of most men aline downward, does not need well, so long as can look, has such 1-2 merits, he can neglect other shortcomings, falls in love with this woman, then launches the pursue.” “男人正好相反,大多数男人的标准都是向下对齐,不需要多好,只要看得过去,有那么1-2优点,他就能忽略其他所有缺点,爱上这个女人,然后展开追求。” Sun Wen ignited the smoke to think, „somewhat absolute?” 孙文点着烟思索了一下,“有些绝对了吧？” „Naturally, what I said is only many, definitely will have the exception.” slow Wei had not denied, but visits him saying: „But you, with your former girlfriend, are not that exception.” “当然,我说的只是多数,肯定会有例外。”徐薇并没否认,只是看着他道:“但你,和你前女友,不是那个例外。” „Continue.” “继续。” „Your former girlfriend type ‚is in love does not need’ to present for the person of truth reasonable, is the dream has not obviously awaked very much, in the love acts like a spoiled brat to be unreasonable occasionally, but no matter continuously to wrong, is unconditionally was roared, was favored......” “你前女友这种把‘谈恋爱不需要讲道理’奉为真理的人,很明显就是梦没醒,恋爱中偶尔撒娇可以不讲道理,但一直不管对错,就是要无条件的被哄,被宠……” slow Wei shakes the head with a smile, „, once you cannot achieve, she thinks that you are not her prince- this is the root of your issue.” 徐薇笑着摇摇头,“一旦你做不到,她就会认为你不是她的王子-这就是你们问题的根源。” „What to do doesn't roar can?” Sun Wen asked. “不哄能怎么办？”孙文问。 „Regarding your girlfriend person, coaxes right, but you should not first try to be reasonable, says does not pass coaxes...... the human evolution billions years, evolves such perfect brain, she actually does not hate to use, even the truth is disinclined saying that only imagines the pet to be roared equally is favored, why can you with her reasonable?” “对于你女朋友这种人,哄没错,但你不该先试图讲道理,讲不通的时候才哄……人类进化了几十亿年,才进化出这么完善的大脑,她却舍不得用,连道理都懒得讲,只想像宠物一样被哄被宠,你为什么要和她讲道理呢？” „......” “……” „You two relations are not from the beginning equal, sometimes perhaps you felt oneself are very base and low in this sentiment, but in fact base and low that is not you, but is she, she turned into herself the dependency of man, you do not need to be reasonable with her, so long as coaxed is deceiving were being good, like this thinks, suddenly saw the light?” “你们两个的关系从一开始就不是平等的,也许你有时候觉得自己在这段感情里很卑微,但实际上卑微的那个不是你,而是她,她自己把自己变成了男人的附庸,你不用和她讲道理,只要哄着骗着就行了,这样想想,是不是豁然开朗？” „......” Sun Wen is smoking has not talked. “……”孙文抽着烟没有搭话。 slow Wei visits him with a smile, „what to do the present knew should?” 徐薇含笑看着他,“现在知道该怎么办了吧？” „What to do?” “怎么办？” „Just so many spoke in vain.” She shakes the head, „the reason that you bid good-bye is because your insufficient dregs.” “刚刚那么多白说了。”她摇摇头,“你们分手的原因是因为你不够渣。” „Insufficient dregs?” “不够渣？” „So long as you give the cake that she draws to be big enough, said that is sweet enough, lie enough real, is used to enough enough, she cannot leave you- you are not her prince, but must camouflage Prince to become.” “只要你给她画的饼够大,说的话够甜,谎话够真,惯得够够的,她就离不开你-你不是她的王子,但要伪装成王子。” „......” “……” „Unconditional favors to go, makes an effort to deceive related to the aspect of money, permits bounced check, do these also teach you with me?” “无条件的去宠去惯,涉及到钱的方面就使劲去骗,许空头支票,这些还用我教你吗？” „I do not want to play.” Sun Wen knits the brows. “我不想只是玩玩。”孙文皱眉。 „But you want to return to in good.” slow Wei indifferent shrugging, „you are used to fiercely her, she more cannot leave you, even if later bid good-bye, her new boyfriend will unable to bear her, then she will also come back.” “但你想重归于好。”徐薇无所谓的耸耸肩,“你把她惯得越厉害,她越离不开你,就算以后再分手了,她的新男友也会受不了她,然后她还会回来。” „Is this?” “是这样吗？” „Thinks that bids good-bye like this, making her times try wrong, then found other dregs male, do your oneself come?” “想想吧,是就这样分手,让她一次次试错,然后找到别的渣男,还是你自己来？” „...... I actually felt you said very reasonable.” Sun Wen putting out cigarette butt, filled the a large mouthful of liquor, „, therefore, all are I and her reasonable mistake?” “……我竟然觉得你说的很有道理。”孙文捻灭烟头,又灌了一大口酒,“所以,一切都是我和她讲道理的错？” „Speaking the truth is to ignite the line, you must learn to deceive.” slow Wei shakes the head, „she wants lv hold/container hold/container, you and she spoke the truth to say must save money, must for the future consider that...... this wasn't silly? How you must learn to make her not buy, but can also be very happy.” “讲道理是引火线,你得学会去骗。”徐薇摇头,“她想要个lv包包,你和她讲道理说要存钱,要为将来考虑……这不是傻吗？你要学会怎样能让她不买,还能很高兴。” „This operation?” Sun Wen is shocked. “还有这种操作？”孙文愣住。 „Naturally has, so long as you coaxed her happily, she naturally could not leave you.” “当然有,只要你把她哄开心了,她自然离不开你。” slow Wei sees the Sun Wen wine glass to bottom, lifts the hand also to call the server to him continued from above one cup. 徐薇见孙文酒杯见底,抬手又叫来服务生给他续上一杯。 „Thanks.” Sun Wen has not rejected, „, but, later?” “谢谢。”孙文没有拒绝,“可是,以后呢？” „How I only teach you to pursue, the later matter must depend on your oneself.” “我只教你怎样追回来,以后的事要靠你自己。” In slow Wei look reveals one to ponder. 徐薇眼神中露出一丝玩味。 Later? 以后？ This love is a person coaxes another person to be happy with the language essentially, another person was happy, then makes him also happy with the depth. 这种恋爱本质上就是一个人用语言哄另一个人开心,另一个人开心了,便用深度让他也开心。 However is a transaction, later of where coming? 不过是种交易而已,哪来的以后？ „How should I start?” “那我该怎么开始？” „What situation are you now?” “你们现在是什么情况？” „Now......” “现在啊……” Two people continue to drink, are talking. 两人继续喝着酒,谈着话。 Outside dim light of night was deeper. 外面的夜色更深了。