M1979 :: Volume #3

#986: Child independence

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„Also is really this truth.” Listened to what Fang the words, Li He looking pensive. “还真是这个道理。”听了何芳的话,李和若有所思。 Ms. what said, „girl, does not give this is the manner issue, is not the matter of money, to a dollar, two dollars, we cannot haggle over, after all the intention arrived, this is the matter that traces the face, if the 10 cents money does not give, in my opinion, this person is not good, was too disappointing!” 何老太太道,“丫头啊,给不给这可是态度问题,不是钱的事情,给个一块钱,两块钱,咱都不能计较,毕竟心意到了,这就是摸摸面子的事,要是一毛钱都不给,依我看啊,这家人不行,太差劲了！” She asked actually embarrassed others don't agree? Didn't acknowledge? 她倒是不好意思问人家是不同意呢？还是不承认？ Has not been serious with you completely, this offends somebody! 完全没拿你当回事,这多伤人啊！ Therefore is very persuasive, can only say that the male Fang Jia li person, this moral behavior has the issue! 所以说的很婉转,只能说男方家里的人,这人品有问题！ Li Yan chou Li He, takes a look at what Fang again, the afraid say/way, „the manners and customs of each place are different, perhaps their local area outmoded this, perhaps.” 李燕瞅瞅李和,再瞅瞅何芳,心虚的道,“各个地方的风俗习惯都不一样,也许他们本地就不兴这个呢,也说不定的。” „Whom deceives, this is, I treated in this with your elder brother am not a day two days, others in this aspect, but art, even if did not give you, will not make you begin spatially, what precious point was a bracelet, almost also gave eating, kerchief anything.” what Fang say/way unrestrained/no trace of politeness, „ good, what custom did not say, our light discussed the favor, you first time passed through the gate, were you embarrassed to begin spatially? “糊弄谁呢,这是,我跟你哥在这地待了可不是一天两天了,人家在这方面可是讲究的,哪怕是不给你,也不会让你空着手回来的,贵重点的是个镯子,差点的也给个吃的、头巾什么的。”何芳毫不客气的道,“好吧,就是不说什么习俗,咱们就光谈人情,你头次进门,你都没好意思空着手去？ Does their feeling all right make you begin spatially? 他们怎么就是怎么好意思让你空着手回来的？ Which day saw, I must ask! ” 哪天见到了,我非得问问了！” Was saying was saying, she appears compared with Li Yan must be angry. 说着说着,她显得比李燕还要生气。 „This old Chen, somewhat was probably excessive.” Li He actually has not appeared the multi- vitality/angry, the loving couple is not the matters of two people, is concerning the matters of two families, the parents of opposite party did not agree, this has anything to be good to be angry! “这个老陈,好像真有点过分了。”李和倒是没有显得多生气,男欢女爱不是两个人的事情,也关乎着两个家庭的事情,对方的父母不同意,这有什么好生气的！ „Do not be angry, I thought that does not need to look is too heavy, said again, I first time visit after all, others where can such easily decide.” Although Li Yan was not happy, is same as Li He, she can also see through. “你们别生气,我觉得吧,没必要看的太重,再说,我毕竟是头次上门,人家哪里能这么就轻易定下来了。”李燕虽然不高兴,可是和李和一样,她也是看得开。 The old woman said, „ this saying is not right, your this girl has not suffered a loss, the heart was big. Since his parents start not to think that your matter, why such blindly shouted you did eat meal? 老太太道,“这话不对,你这丫头就是没吃过亏,心大了。既然他父母开始就没想好你俩的事情,为什么就这么盲目的喊你去吃饭了？ What is this? 这是什么意思？ Puts our that meetings, the male bride's sides are approximately a place, either introduced others, either on the boundary ridge between fields, must meet face to face mutually, then considered was similar, shouted that the bride's side went to the groom's family to eat meal anything. 搁我们那会,男女方都是约个地方,要么是介绍人家,要么是在田埂上,相互要打个照面的,然后考虑的差不多了,才喊女方去男家吃个饭什么的。 You said that his parents, if really thorough, has no alternative but to put in an appearance with you ahead of time, according to the present procedure, goes to a restaurant or teahouse place, under the understanding your manner, inquired that under your family status, isn't good? 你说,他父母吧,要是真周到,就不能不提前跟你照个面,按现在的做法,去个饭馆子或者茶馆这种地方,了解下你为人,打听下你家庭状况,不都行吗？ Shouted in the family/home, then suspended this spectrum? 喊家里,然后又摆这个谱？ This is not pure heart bashful person! ” 这不是纯心臊人嘛！” The old woman unravelled, says rationally. 老太太抽丝剥茧,说的头头是道。 Li Yan complexion is red, some little time said that „after me, does not cross with his family member, is casual they to be what kind.” 李燕脸色通红,好一会儿才道,“我以后又不和他家里人过,随便他们怎么样吧。” what Fang says with a smile, „can think? With parents-in-law, if the place is not good, later definitely has the contradiction, you said that he clamps in the middle age, if passes the reason, you can also feel better, if the simple-minded filial piety, your some receive for a lifetime.” 何芳笑着道,“怎么能这么想呢？和公婆要是处不好,以后肯定有矛盾,你说他夹在中年,要是通情理的,你还能好受点,要是愚孝的,你这一辈子有的受呢。” „I knew.” Li Yan lowers the head, does not know that said any was good. “我知道了。”李燕低着头,也不知道说什么好了。 She was happy, the male Fang Jia li warm careful entertaining a guest way made her happily, was this moment one hear of everybody such analyses, she detected this and she imagined was entirely different! 她本来是高高兴兴的,男方家里热情细致的待客方式令她高兴不已,可是此刻一听大家这么一分析,她发觉这和她想象中的完全不是一回事！ „All right.” what Fang also discovered a moment ago said was a little heavy, but marital matter cannot be loathsome, she must say, she comforts saying that „you are locating first, cannot such one time on denial his parents, later again have a look, I know that your present work is busy, puts in the center of gravity the work.” “没事。”何芳也发现刚才说的有点重了,不过婚姻这种事不能拖泥带水,她不能不说,她安慰道,“你们先处着,不能这么一次就否定他父母,以后再看看,我知道你现在工作忙,就把重心放到工作上。” Li He said, „anything do not say, you are busy preparing food, my present belly was hungry, I pick up the child to be on vacation from school.” 李和道,“什么都不要说了,你们忙着做饭吧,我现在肚子就饿了,我去接孩子放学。” He takes Li Lan to come back, a person starts a fishpond that is busy at work him to excavate newly, the water is the spring water that on the mountain in the stone seam gets down, the water current is not big, however takes care of your pennies and dollars will take care of themselves, pond compared with beforehand old dwelling good were too many. 他接完李览回来,一个人开始忙活他新开挖的一个鱼池,水是山上石头缝里下来的泉水,水流不大,但是细水长流,比以前老宅的池塘好的太多了。 Ms. what Fanghe mother and child also opened a small vegetable garden on nearby smooth ground, has the radish, has the tomato, started the cucumber of vine vine, in brief the vegetables of adaptation season have everything expected to find. 何芳和老太太娘俩也在附近的平坦地上开了一个小菜园子,有萝卜,有西红柿,还有已经开始蔓藤的黄瓜等,总之适应季节的蔬菜应有尽有。 After moving to here the third month, has not bought the vegetables from outside. 从搬到这里以后的第三个月,就没从外面买过蔬菜了。 Naturally, chicken duck, this mother and child has also raised, emits inside the mountain, does not fear them to run, because started to form the habit, got down to the time to main house gate looks to eat. 当然,鸡鸭,这娘俩也是养了,就散放在山里头,也不怕他们跑,因为开始就养成了习惯,到时间就下来到家门口找吃的。 One set of Xishan villa well, made these domestic animals sabotage the atmosphere, sometimes on the stair of house was the chicken excrement duck excrement. 好好的一套西山别墅,偏偏让这些家畜破坏了气氛,有时候房子的台阶上都是鸡屎鸭粪。 Although Li He is helpless, but also by them, otherwise is staying in this remote countryside, can suppress insanely, chatting could not find. 李和虽然无奈,不过也由着他们,不然在这偏僻的乡下呆着,都能给憋疯,连个唠嗑的都找不到。 He and what Fang can also be able to bear, after all the leisure time can read, studies the thing, satisfies the inner world the demand, but is extremely not easy to the old woman, she only then through can mediate lonely with the person exchange. 他和何芳还能受得了,毕竟闲暇时间可以看看书,学习一下东西,满足一下内心世界的需求,但是对老太太来说就极度不容易了,她只有通过和人交流才能排解寂寞。 On Saturday, what Fang takes Li Lan to come back from the chess institute, a while was happy, a while sighed. 星期六,何芳接完李览从棋院回来,一会儿高兴,一会儿叹气。 Li He asked, „what matter presses like this you?” 李和问,“什么事把你难为成这样子？” what Fang gives him a paper, „look.” 何芳把一张纸递给他,“自己看吧。” „Went date benzole to attend Chinese chess competition?” Li He is the same to what Fang, does not know that should cry, should smile. From, him is proud of son at heart, the small age has the ability to go abroad to attend the Chinese chess competition of such high scale, is great! “去日苯参加围棋比赛？”李和同何芳一样,也不知道是该哭,还是该笑。从心里来说,他为儿子骄傲,小小年纪就有能耐出国参加这么高档次的围棋比赛,是了不起的！ However from actual, this is not realistic! 但是从实际来说,这又是不现实的！ Couple nobody is hopes that the son takes Chinese chess path, promised the son to go to the chess institute is unprecedented, now the son more walks on this road is farther! 两口子没有一个人是希望儿子走围棋这条道路的,原先答应儿子去棋院已经是破天荒了,如今儿子在这条路上越走越远！ This is they had decided that has not thought! 这是他们决计没有想到的！ „Yes, what to do, I listen your.” what Fang deep sigh one breath. “是啊,怎么办,我听你的。”何芳长叹一口气。 „You look at the office.” Li He does not dare to take responsibility randomly, is very afraid later becomes the source of trouble that the couple quarrelled! “你看着办。”李和也不敢乱做主,深怕以后成为两口子吵架的祸源！ „ Did I say? That goes. „ what Fang really does not endure to see the son disappointed look. “我说？那就去吧。“何芳实在不忍看到儿子失望的眼神。 „Also good, no matter there is a result not to have the result, when saw the world.” Li He is hoping actually son not being able to come out result, when the time comes perhaps lost heart on the Chinese chess, „do you go together?” “也行,不管有成绩没成绩,就当见世面了。”李和倒是盼着儿子出不来成绩,到时候也许就在围棋上死了心,“你跟着一起去？” what Fang beckons with the hand saying that „ others do not have the guardian to go, I went appear the child have been pampered since childhood actually, let his teacher, the teacher I confessed that did not have the issue. 何芳摆手道,“人家都没家长跟着去,我去倒是显得孩子娇生惯养了,就让他跟着老师吧,老师我都交代好了,没问题的。 Also, is not young, making him exit to exercise for several days, oneself learned independently. ” 再说,年龄也不小了,让他出去锻炼几天,自己学会独立。” In order to let Li Lan learns independently, she makes Li Lan wash the sock now, oneself make a bed, sometimes even also makes him help working in the vegetable plot. 为了让李览学会独立,她现在让李览自己洗袜子,自己铺床,甚至有时候还让他在菜地里帮着干活。 „That such decided.” Although Li He was also worried, if not make the child learn independently, heart that this whole life definitely cannot hold! “那就这么定了。”虽然李和也很担心,但是要是不让孩子学会独立,他这辈子肯定是操不完的心！ Some matters, are not money can be solved! 有些事情,不是钱能解决的！
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