Even if he worries very much! 哪怕他心里很着急！ But also can only such manage! 可是也只能这么办! Naturally, this cannot say that he is no matter completely, he must check! 当然,这也不能说他是完全不管,他得把关！ Must become his Li Laoer brother-in-law, passes through him to agree first! 要成为他李老二的妹夫,也得先经过他同意！ Not only wants the fourth child to favor is good, if his Li Laoer did not agree, this wedding affirms yellow! 不但要老四看好才行,他李老二要是不同意,这婚事肯定得黄！ „Is this good? Can't by her?” Li Mei serious does not agree with the view of Li He, if continues to tow, took 30 years old shortly! “这怎么行？不能由着她自己吧？”李梅严重不同意李和的说法,要是继续拖下去,眼看就要30岁了! True old girl! 真正的老姑娘了！ „Elder sister, I do not fear not to marry, what are you worried about daily blindly? Hurries to put on your family child the thoughts, my here is good, does not need you to worry.” The fourth child is really has no way to understand regarding the Big Sister enthusiasm. “姐,我都不怕嫁不出去,你天天瞎担心什么？赶紧把心思放你家孩子身上,我这边好着呢,不需要你操心。”老四对于大姐的热情实在是没法理解。 „You did not fear that is because you do not live in the native place.” segment Mei says with a smile, „ you did not know, now many people see me to ask, hasn't your family buddhist nun gotten married? You said, I do return? “你不怕是因为你不住老家。”段梅笑着道,“你都不晓得,现在好多人见着我都问呢,你家姑子还没嫁人啊？你说说,我怎么回？ I can only say that you work busily, does not have the time. ” 我就只能说你工作忙,没时间。” Although their family/home condition is good, is also out of control others spittle! 虽然她们家条件好,可是也禁不住人家的唾沫星子啊！ 30 years old have not married, that nitpicking! 30岁还不结婚,那得有多挑剔！ A radish pit, a pot association/will found the pot cover. If really could not find, that asks itself, why could not find! 一个萝卜一个坑,一口锅总会找到锅盖的。如果实在找不到,那问问自己,为什么找不到! „These idle talk, how are leave alone happy, how oneself live, if anything cares about others' opinion, live insipid.” Li He is to always be disinclined to pay attention to these Eight Trigrams (gossip), „she was not a child, something she will process, we blindly let us not plan for her. Good that if plans to her, that is also good, if plans is not good, that is more of a hindrance than a help, later we are also one not.” “别管这些闲言碎语,怎么开心,自己就怎么活,要是什么都在乎别人的意见,活的多没劲。”李和对这些八卦向来是懒得理会,“她不是小孩子了,有些事情她自己会处理好的,咱们还是别替她瞎打算。要是给她算计的好,那是还行,要是算计的不好,那就是帮倒忙,以后咱们还都是一身不是呢。” Looks for the partner, processes the sentiment, can only depend upon itself. 找对象,处理感情,只能依靠自己。 Life three big principles: 人生三大原则: Closes your trifling thing. 关你屁事。 Closes my trifling thing. 关我屁事。 Sooner or later must die. 早晚都得死。 Life is short, why cares about others' view, dozens years later is one handful of ashes. 人生苦短,何必在意别人的看法,几十年后都是一捧灰。 The person of feeling inferior admits himself to have the condition, the self-confident person admits himself is unconditionally 自卑的人接纳自己是有条件的,自信的人接纳自己是无条件的 Drinks several glasses of liquor, such one thinks again, many issues are easily solved. 喝上几杯酒,再这样一想,许多问题迎刃而解。 Explains to close my fart to be related to your trifling thing best a few words is: „Your wife had been rested by me...” 破解关我屁事关你屁事最好的一句话就是:“你老婆被我睡了...” „You little spoke some wind discouraging talk.” Li Mei has not had hope to Li He, can only advise to say to the fourth child skillfully, „ the fourth child, you told, cannot come by the temper, almost on line. “你少说一些风凉话。”李梅对李和已经不抱希望,只能对老四循循善诱的劝导道,“老四,跟你说啊,不能由着自己性子来,差不多就行。 Like me and your brother-in-law, in the beginning, I from the start could not have taken a liking to him, but you looked, locates is locating, now two children, the sentiment is very in the same old way good, sometimes, this person cannot look at the first impression, must try many everywhere, gives others an opportunity. ” 就像俺和你姐夫,开始的时候,我压根就没瞧得上他,可是你看,处着处着吧,现在都俩孩子了,感情照样很好,有时候吧,这人不能看第一印象,得试着多处处,给人家一点机会。” „ Yes, like your little elder brother, starts looks, high ringing is conspicuous, but black results in coal briquette, may really not pleasing, Sister-in-law Dong Mei every other day comes to urge, said that does not permit me to request a performance with your elder brother has, not to mention had the child. “是啊,像你小哥,开始看的时候,高高朗朗是显眼,可黑的跟煤球似得,可真没中意,要不是冬梅嫂子三天两头过来劝,说不准我跟你哥一点戏都么有,更甭提有孩子了。 Only then looks to be used to it now, is careless, getting down that looks. ” segment Mei narrow green vegetables, while talked. 只有现在看习惯了,也就马马虎虎,看的下去。”段梅一边窄青菜,一边跟着搭话。 Li He has not spoken with a smile, has lit a cigarette in low spirits, only then the fourth child eyes do not wink sees this sisters-in-law: I did not speak, say your stories, started your performances! 李和笑着没说话,闷头点了一根烟,只有老四眼睛不眨的看着这姑嫂俩:我不说话,说出你们的故事,开始你们的表演！ „Man starts is is a little unavoidably rash, must correct slowly, otherwise does not start off, like your brother-in-law, starts, silly squish, works without reason, you look, these years a little are with great difficulty progressive.” Although in the words is dirty Yang Xuewen, but how the pride on Li Mei face has no way to conceal. “男人开始是不免有点毛躁,得给慢慢纠正,要不然就不上路,像你姐夫,开始吧,傻愣吧唧的,做事都没头没脑,你看,好不容易,这些年才有点进步。”虽然话里是埋汰杨学文,可是李梅脸上的骄傲是怎么都没法掩饰的。 „Your younger brother is also, starts us in the same place, that sleeps does not know washing foot, that foot is smelly!” segment Mei very natural has joined the words. “你弟也是,开始咱俩在一起的时候,那睡觉都不晓得洗脚,那个脚臭啊！”段梅很自然的接上了话。 „Your brother-in-law is the foot is also smelly, man few non- feet are smelly, I want to complain that is that day in day out under the heavy labor, has how much perspiration, normal. Only can also think the means tightening are making him eat much, otherwise he wanted the paralysis, in exactly painful.” Although Li Mei approves of segment Mei the words, but said own opposing opinion. “你姐夫也是脚臭,男人没有几个不脚臭的,俺原本想埋怨的,可是那一天到晚下地重活,出多少汗啊,正常。只能还想着办法给紧着让他多吃,不然他真要瘫了,地里活熬人啊。”李梅虽然赞同段梅的话,但是还是说出来了自己的反对意见。 „That is ....” “那是....” „.....” “.....” Two people your my, before long becomes the meeting how to have trained the man, but the exchange of Li Mei has the limit, silly how she may not have to teaching oneself sister-in-law copes with oneself younger brother! 两个人你一句我一句,不一会儿就成了如何调教男人的交流会,只是李梅的交流是有限度的,她可没有傻到教会自己的弟媳如何对付自己的弟弟！ That is a blood younger brother! 那是亲弟弟！ Otherwise the sister-in-law thinks really man is a dog, who likes who can pull! 不然弟媳真的会以为男人是条狗,谁喜欢谁就能牵走！ But the fourth child and Li He instead have become the bystander, did not have their anything matter. 而老四和李和反而成了外人,没了她俩什么事。 Li He left the kitchen, the fourth child, is very curious asking, „don't you worry for me really?” 李和出了厨房,老四跟着,很是好奇的问道,“你真不替我着急？” „Naturally worries.” Li He says with a smile, „is only I knows this matter anxiously, therefore does not urge you, depends entirely on you. Bernard Shaw said: Must marry marries, wants single goes single, you will regret in any case finally.” “当然着急。”李和笑着道,“只是我知道这种事情急不来,所以不催你,全靠你自己。萧伯纳说:要结婚的就去结婚吧,要单身的就去单身吧,反正最后你们都会后悔的。” The fourth child ridicules saying that „how this saying you didn't go to say to the sister-in-law?” 老四揶揄道,“这话你怎么不去对嫂子说？” „Told properly you.” After Li He has given her a head, the ill-humored say/way, „a little, the marriage partner must I look had kept a promise.” “跟你说正经的呢。”李和给了她一个脑瓜子后,没好气的道,“只是有一点,结婚对象必须我看过了才算数。” „No wonder Xiaoqin always said that you rule as a dictatorship.” To the fourth child, something do not need to bicker, the superficial obedience revolts secretly. “难怪小琴老说你独裁。”对老四来说,有些事情无须抬杠,表面服从偷偷反抗。 She is not quite same to the fifth child, what she is more to Li Laoer is the respect, the Elder Brother suffers great hardships, holds the broken heart for younger brother younger sister, she will give the understanding. 她同老五不太一样,她对李老二更多的是尊重,哥哥含辛茹苦,为弟弟妹妹操碎心,她会给予理解。 She only pays great attention to the superficial phenomenon regarding Li Laoer awe, but is not the essence of awe. 她对于李老二的敬畏只注重表面现象,而不是敬畏的本质。 „Dictatorship?” Li He white her eyes said, „that is many that too she ponders, feeling few of too.” “独裁？”李和白了她一眼道,“那是她思考的太多,感受的太少。” He for they worried. 他为了她们是操碎了心。 „Was good, my brother was greatest.” The fourth child blocks the shoulder of Li He saying that „believes I amn't good?” “行了,我哥哥最伟大了。”老四拦着李和的肩膀道,“相信我还不好？” She admires the Elder Brother, and loves dearly. 她敬佩哥哥,而又心疼。 Lizhuang shoulders the target. 李庄扛把子。 A Funan elder brother. 阜南一哥。 Fuyang big shot. 阜阳大佬。 Chinese pursuing a goal with determination model. 中国励志典型。 Asian well-known character. 亚洲知名人物。 World's richest. 世界首富。 Actually oneself live is so pitiful! 却把自己活的这么可怜！ Never true has lived for oneself! Thought oneself are! 从来就没有真正的为自己活过！觉得自己是都余的！ She thought that Elder Brother this lives like this is very being actually tired is very tired, even if this, nobody understands him. Her really wishes that the Elder Brother has an impulsion of disregarding, own life, like oneself never, in this world has come up. 她觉得哥哥这样这样活着其实很累很累,但是即使这样,也没有人来理解他。她真心希望哥哥有一种不管不顾的冲动,过自己一个人的生活,就像自己从来没有在这世上来过一样。 This is she hopes earnestly! 这是她最殷切的希望！ Although the lunch has lending a hand of Wang Yulan, is still very sumptuous, because of three children, no matter Li Zhaokun lies down in the hospital, no matter again painstakingly again difficult, segment Mei and Li Mei this sisters-in-law for own child, must result in the food entire to be agile, will treat unjustly anyone not to treat unjustly own child. 午饭虽然不是没有王玉兰的帮衬,可是依然非常的丰盛,因为有三个孩子呢,不管是李兆坤是不是躺在医院,不管是再苦再难,段梅和李梅这姑嫂俩为了自己的孩子,也必须得饭给整利索了,亏待谁都不会亏待自己的孩子。 They only then going all out effort, displays open before child, indifferent, will make the child live in the joy, thinks the life effortlessly. 她们只有拼命努力,在孩子面前表现出开朗,无所谓,才会让孩子生活在快乐中,觉得人生毫不费力。 This is stems from a mother most instinct the idea. 这是出自一个母亲最本能的想法。 This is the motherhood. 这是母性。