您可以在百度里搜索“我真的长生不老妙笔阁(imiaobige.com)”查找最新章节!Inhuman history the firsttimein the true senserealized the equality of the sexes the milestoneeventto happenafter1949massively, along with„woman can also holdhalf the sky”slogan, westernfrom all walks of life who itssignificanceheavyfirst yearhad the worldright to speakneglected, itsmodern woman were extremely also fewtopromoting the old person of thiseventthereforeisgrateful.
人类历史上第一次真正意义上的大规模实现男女平等的里程碑事件发生在1949年以后,伴随着“妇女也能顶半边天”的口号,其意义之重大一直被掌握世界话语权的西方各界忽视,以至于本国的现代女性也极少对推动这一事件的老人因此心怀感激。In the woman the country that the right to nameis unable to guarantee, gets marriedlater the country that wants the crownhusbandto be surnamed, regardless of the men and womenspeak the democracy and freedom, is presentingonetypesubtly, laughable, the incrediblefeeling, theyas ifdeceiveoneself.
在妇女连姓名权都无法保证的国家,出嫁以后要冠夫姓的国家,无论男女却都讲一讲民主自由,呈现着一种微妙的,可笑的,荒诞的感觉,他们似乎连自己都骗。«Marriage law» that in 1950promulgated was for several thousandyears the marital and family systempreviousgreatandprofoundrevolution, itcontainshas revised the multiplearticlesafter that the main spirits.
1950年颁布的《婚姻法》便是几千年来婚姻家庭制度上一次伟大而深刻的革命,它已经包含了此后修订多次的条文的主要精神。
The articleis not long, Shangguan Dandanlooksis not quick, butalsolookedquickly, thenput down the cell phonegently.
条文并不长,上官澹澹看的并不快,但是也很快就看完了,然后轻轻放下了手机。Su NanxiuandQin Yananhave not disturbedherto examine, butlookstwoonce for a while, in the opposite partyeyeshas the moodandmeaning that is hardto ponder over.苏南秀和秦雅南都没有打扰她查看,只是时不时对望两眼,对方眼中都有着难以琢磨的情绪和意味。„Good.”Shangguan Dandannods, thensomeslightlydoubtslook atSu Nanxiu, „whatrelations, butthisand do yourTaiwan peoplehave?”
“好。”上官澹澹点了点头,然后略微有些疑惑地看着苏南秀,“可是这和你一个台湾人有什么关系?”Qin Yanancovers the mouthchuckle, shecannot think that Shangguan Dandanknowsunexpectedly, even ifdid not discuss the realisticsituation, even iftwoplacesunifiedtruly, the lawwas suitable is still an issue. Obviously before thiswas2000emperor's grandmother, whereQin Yananknows that Liu Changanspokemanyevening'spolitics and history coursestoShangguan Dandan.秦雅南掩嘴轻笑,她想不到上官澹澹居然知道就算不谈现实局势,两地就算真正统一,法律适用也是一个问题。明明这一位是两千年前的太皇太后啊,秦雅南哪里知道刘长安给上官澹澹讲了许多个晚上的政治和历史课程。„Whatwesaidwas a reason, was not the legalsuitableissue.”SomeSu Nanxiudoubts, whatcharacterthis is Shangguan Dandan? oneselforiginstatusQin Yanannaturallyknew, butQin Yananalsojustsaw the Shangguan Dandanappearanceobviously, without the opportunity and Shangguan Dandanditchpassed. WasLiu Changaninformsahead of time? Thispossibilityhasactually.
“我们讲的是一个理儿,不是法律适用的问题。”苏南秀有些疑惑,这上官澹澹到底是什么人物?自己的来历身份秦雅南自然知道了,可是秦雅南也明明是刚刚才重新见到上官澹澹的模样,没机会和上官澹澹沟通过啊。难道是刘长安提前告知了?这个可能倒是有的。„Youalsoknowwhatsaidwas a reason, was not the regulationsuitableissue.” The Shangguan Dandaneyebrowfootshouldersslightly, the young girl the clearsoundeven moreappearedsharp, was actually nothysteric, butwasdignifiedfull, has the solemnimposing manner of reproving, „Weasked how youunderstood the say/way of matterhusband, whatwantedwasfeels emotion a rationalheart-to-heart talk, why mustyouregulationarticle.”
“你也知道讲的是一个理儿,不是律法适用的问题啊。”上官澹澹眉脚微微挑起,少女本就清脆的声音越发显得尖锐了,却不是歇斯底里,而是威严满满,带着训斥的堂堂气势,“朕问你如何理解事夫之道,要的是有情有理的一番肺腑之言,何须你来讲律法条文。”Said that Shangguan Dandanalsopays no attention to the Su Nanxiustarting to speak but hesitatingcomplexionto be ugly, turns the headto look atQin Yanan.
说完上官澹澹也不理苏南秀欲言又止脸色难看,转头看着秦雅南。Qin Yananknows that Shangguan Dandan is to make herspeak„the say/way of matterhusband”.秦雅南知道上官澹澹是让她来讲一讲“事夫之道”。In factSu Nanxiuhas at least experiencedtormenting of feudaldregs, Qin Yananistruelongunder the red flag, among the viewandSu Nanxiutocouplesis different, more impossiblewith a Shangguan Dandanconcept.
事实上苏南秀至少经历过封建糟粕的荼毒,秦雅南可是真正的长在红旗下,对夫妻之间的看法和苏南秀不同,更不可能和上官澹澹一个观念。But something alwaysin the traditioncannot help butsomepeople who will affectto be willingto accept.
可是有些东西总是会在传统中不由自主地影响着愿意接受的一些人。Beforeextremely«Half deadTung oil tree that „Ilikedto congratulatecastHeavyChangmenAll thingsNon-». In my opinion, inPan Yue's«Mourning»andYuan Zhen«condemnSadBosom»andSu Shi«JiangchengOtsubou20Days and nightsRecordsDream in January»as well asto congratulatecast«Half deadTung oil treeHeavyChangmenAll thingsNon-»fourbigmournin the word, Imostlike is to congratulatecastthis.”
“我以前极其喜欢贺铸的《半死桐・重过阊门万事非》。就我个人看来,在潘岳的《悼亡》和元稹《谴悲怀》和苏轼《江城子・乙卯正月二十日夜记梦》以及贺铸的《半死桐・重过阊门万事非》四大悼亡词中,我最喜欢的便是贺铸这一首。”
The Qin Yanantonerelaxes, was sayingmourns the word, the corners of the mouthactuallyturns upwardsslightly, has the experience of oneself, thatmoodis then naturally deducting the ideal condition in word, makinghermakingsjust like the alonemoon/monthto be the sameat night.秦雅南的语气缓和,说着悼亡词,嘴角却微微翘起,有着自己的体会,那种心情便自然地演绎着词中的意境,让她的气质变得犹如夜晚孤寂的月一般。„HeavyChangmenall thingsnot, what matterto come togetherto turn over todifferently. After wutonghalf deadlight cream, a whiteaffectionate coupleloses the partnerto fly. Inoriginalgrass, beginningrevealxi, roosts the newhillockoldtworeluctant to part. The spatialbedliesto listen to the southernwindowrain, whoturns roundto raise the lampwick the nightto patch clothing...... the spatialbedto lieto listen to the southernwindowrain, whoturns roundto raise the lampwick the nightto patch clothing......”Qin Yananto recitethisbeing known to everybodymourningwordin a soft voice, as iffalls intoscene, „whoturns roundto raise the lampwick the nightto patch clothing? Probablyisthis, actuallyputs in orderthis«Six Records of a Floating Life»isthisstory.”
“重过阊门万事非,同来何事不同归。梧桐半死清霜后,头白鸳鸯失伴飞。原上草,露初晞,旧栖新垅两依依。空床卧听南窗雨,谁复挑灯夜补衣……空床卧听南窗雨,谁复挑灯夜补衣……”秦雅南轻声朗诵着这首无人不知的悼亡词,仿佛陷入其中的情景似的,“谁复挑灯夜补衣?大概就是这一句吧,其实一整本《浮生六记》不过就是这一句的故事罢了。”„Qin Yanan, youmayreallygive what is desired.”Su Nanxiusneers the meaning that is revealingto admire, initialYe Sijinasked forYe Chenyuto like, makinghimwork as a treasure, todayin front ofShangguan Dandan, thisestimates the thoughts the skill is not bad.
“秦雅南,你可真会投其所好。”苏南秀冷笑着流露出佩服的意思,当初的叶巳瑾那么讨叶辰瑜喜欢,让他当个宝,今天在上官澹澹面前,这揣摩心思的本事还是一点不差。„Youmisunderstood.”Qin Yananlightsmiling, shakes the head, „Idid not mean that mustmake the three to be obeyed and four feminine virtueson the approvalwoman, the virtuousvirtue, the homeserves the role of man. The say/way of matterhusbandeventuallyis the say/way of couple, did not say that the opposite partyis the result, butistwopeoplemustliveeventually the opposite partyindispensablepart, iscustom that helives, ishisunforgetablescenery...... makeshimnot darenot to imagineyourday, makinghimhave the spatialbedto lieto listen to the southernwindowrain, whowill turn roundto raise the lampwick a night of patching clothingsigh...... in the sighto have the pain, becauseloving, rather than rejoicing, a thatwickedyoung married womanwalkedfinally.”
“你误会了。”秦雅南淡淡的笑,摇了摇头,“我并不是说就认同女人要做三从四德,贤良淑德,居家侍奉男人的角色。只是事夫之道终究是夫妻之道,不是说得到了对方就是结果,而是两个人终究要活成对方不可或缺的一部分,是他生活的习惯,是他难以忘怀的景色……让他不敢想象没有你的日子,让他会有空床卧听南窗雨,谁复挑灯夜补衣的叹息……叹息中有因为爱的痛,而不是庆幸着,那个恶婆娘终于走了。”Was sayingQin Yanancasts a sidelong glanceSu Nanxiu, in the look the microstripis contemptuous, „mustbe the woman who inhiseyeis most suitableto livetogether, is the say/way of matterhusbandIunderstand.”
说着秦雅南瞟了一眼苏南秀,神色中微带轻蔑,“要做他眼中最适合一起生活的女人,便是我所理解的事夫之道。”In the Shangguan Dandaneyereveals the meaning of applause, the hearthasintimatelynods...... naturally, thisis the positionstillabove the empress, canmeet as an equal to the emperor,...... herwhichhad deeply understoodas the stance that the lord of trueharemmustreveal the say/way of anything husband, somewhereso manyfeelings, this«Half deadTung oil treeHeavyChangmenAll thingsNon-»has the flavoractually.上官澹澹眼中露出赞许之意,心有戚戚焉的点了点头……当然,这是地位犹自在皇后之上,能够和皇帝分庭抗礼,作为真正的后宫之主必须露出来的姿态……她哪深刻理解过什么事夫之道,哪有那么多感想,这首《半死桐・重过阊门万事非》倒是别有韵味。Qin Yananpurses the lipsto smilesilently, addedsomehot waterto the Shangguan Dandancup.秦雅南抿嘴默然微笑,给上官澹澹的杯子加了一些热水。„Toflatterher, youhad not hadwhatrelationswithLiu Changan, first incantationhadoneself dead. Qin Yanan, you are really enoughruthless.”Su Nanxiufeels ashamed of one's inferioritywithdrawstwosteps, sneersis lookingtoShangguan Dandan, „Iknow that youroriginis extraordinary, whetherto giveme an answer, who youare, whyto interfere withamongus the matter?”
“为了讨好她,你还没和刘长安有什么关系呢,先咒起自己死掉了。秦雅南,你真是够狠的。”苏南秀自愧不如地退后两步,冷笑着望向上官澹澹,“我知道你来历非凡,可否给我一个答复,你到底是什么人,凭什么干涉我们之间的事情?”„Ihave said that Iam his mother.” When Shangguan Dandanrevealsto remember the sontemperatesmilestraight.
“我说过了,我是他的妈妈。”上官澹澹端正地露出想起儿子时的温和笑容。„Can your appearancebe his mother?”No mattermakings of Shangguan Dandanwhenpeacehowgracefulnoble, the majesticair/Qi that during the spoken languagesis bossyis obvious, butthatyoung girlimmaturewill revealonce for a while,Su Nanxiuis impossible unable to look.
“你这模样会是他的妈妈?”不管上官澹澹在安静时气质如何优雅高贵,言语间颐指气使的堂皇之气多么明显,但是那种少女的稚嫩还是会时不时地显露出来,苏南秀不可能看不出来。„Yourthisappearance is also very difficultto think that you are a 100-year- old woman?”Qin Yanansayingwith a smile.
“你这模样也很难想到你是个100多岁的老婆子啊?”秦雅南笑吟吟的说道。„I, if the old woman, Ye Sijin, you are also.”Su Nanxiusneeredlooksabsolutelydoes not haveQin Yanan of self-knowledge.
“我要是老婆子,叶巳瑾,你也是。”苏南秀冷笑地看着完全没有自知之明的秦雅南。„IamQin Yanan, this year25.”Qin Yananconstrains the concern, cannotlose the scene, althoughshehas wantedto look forLiu Changanto ascertainimpatientlyface to face.
“我是秦雅南,今年二十五。”秦雅南压抑住心事,不能输了场面,尽管她已经迫不及待地想找刘长安当面问清楚了。„IamSu Nanxiu, this year14 years old.”Su Nanxiusaidcoolly.
“我是苏南秀,今年十四岁。”苏南秀面不改色地说道。Shangguan Dandanlooked atSu Nanxiu, looked atQin Yanan, opens mouth, the visionfallsin the crack in a door of living room.上官澹澹看了看苏南秀,又看了看秦雅南,张了张嘴,目光落在客厅的门缝上。„Yougood...... the evening...... the eveningto eat meal...... Ito dotoyou...... make the midnight snack......”Zhou Shulingto be discovered, opened the doorto walktrembling, felt that the cold air/Qi in living roomwas too full, cannot help butheld the arm.
“你们好……晚上……晚上吃饭了吗……我给你们做……做夜宵……”周书玲被发现了,战战兢兢地推开门走了进来,感觉客厅里的冷气太足了,不由得抱了抱胳膊。„What did youhear?” The Su Nanxiufeaturetwisted, opened the palm.
“你听到了什么?”苏南秀眉目一拧,张了张手掌。„Icould not understandyou saying that anything......”Zhou Shulinghas a scare, at presentthislittle girlhowdevilswithghost, for fear thatsilenced a witness of crimeruns up tosideQin Yananto come, „Young Lady Qin, Ireallyunderstoodthatme who yousaidamQin Yanan, this year25years old......”
“我都听不懂你们在说什么……”周书玲吓了一跳,眼前这个小女孩怎么凶神恶煞的跟鬼似的,生怕被杀人灭口地跑到秦雅南身边来,“秦小姐,我真就听懂了你说的那句我是秦雅南,今年二十五岁……”Except forthese words, beforehandotherwordsbasiclikefantasy story.
除了这句话,之前的其他话根本像天方夜谭。„All right.”Qin Yananpatted the back of Zhou Shuling, aboutlooked, „, Zhou Dongdong?”
“没事。”秦雅南拍了拍周书玲的后背,左右看了看,“咦,周咚咚呢?”„Does one's assignmentathome.”
“在家做作业呢。”„When does shego back?”Qin Yananthenlooked atShangguan Dandan, Shangguan Dandanshakes the head, simplyhad not discovered.
“她什么时候回去的?”秦雅南回头看了一眼上官澹澹,上官澹澹摇了摇头,根本没有发现。„How would I know?”Discovered that Qin Yananlookstooneself, Su Nanxiudid not saypatiently, howshewill pay attention to a dullsillystupidchild.
“我哪知道?”发现秦雅南又看向自己,苏南秀不耐烦地说道,她怎么会去关注一个呆呆傻傻的蠢小孩。„Wewere sayinga moment ago the say/way of matterhusband, howis the wifeshouldtreathusband'stopic, how do yousee?”Shangguan DandansaidtoZhou Shuling.
“我们刚才在说事夫之道,就是妻子应该如何对待丈夫的话题,你怎么看?”上官澹澹对周书玲说道。„Whatthatis not...... hemusteatmeto makewhattohim, but how can also treat? Cannotsupplyto work as the Bodhisattva, hehe......”Zhou Shulingwherehasso manyfeelings, listened secretly the thing that did not understandthemto saycompletelya moment ago, butYoung Lady Qinwasreallyfierce, recited the poetryalsoto sing in good voice and with feeling, ifZhou Dongdongcancarry such longpoetryto be good.
“那不就是……他要吃啥我给他做啥,还能怎么对待?总不能供起来当菩萨吧,呵呵……”周书玲哪有那么多感想,刚才偷听就完全一点也不懂她们说的东西,不过秦小姐是真厉害啊,朗诵诗歌也声情并茂的,周咚咚要是能背这么长的诗词就好了。Zhou Shulingsaid that looks atShangguan Dandan, sheonlythinks that now the backis cool, onlywantsto hurryto leavehere, the atmosphere in thisroomhas not developedlikeboth armies, faces dead momentarilyseveral hundredseveral thousandpeople, oneselfacts recklessly to fromtwo armies pitted against each otherpatto walkquietly.周书玲说完看着上官澹澹,她现在只觉得后背凉凉的,只想赶紧离开这里,这房间里的气氛就像两军尚未开展,对垒中随时就会死上几百几千人,偏偏自己不知死活要从两军对垒中间悄摸摸地走过去。„Goes back, next timeyouwill makehimwhenagainspoke face-to-facediscussed,Wemustrest.”Shangguan Dandansomewhatsaidsatisfied,oneselfhelps the woman who heteachestheseto be rivals for sexual favor, when hewill certainly forgiveherpains, the intentiongratitude after returning toherbosom, feels the selflessmaternal love, realized that thisworldwomenknowledgeis only rivals for sexual favor, onlyhas mother to forgivehismosthearttiredthis matter, onlyhasmother'sbosomso manynot to manipulate strategicallywith the brokenmatter that the nonsensehas a stroke of bad luck.
“都回去吧,下次你们约了他再当面谈一谈,朕要歇息了。”上官澹澹有些满意地说道,自己帮他管教着这些争风吃醋的女人,想必他一定会体谅到她的一番苦心,心怀感激之余回到她的怀抱后感受无私的母爱,体会到这世间女人都只知争风吃醋,唯有母亲能够体谅到他最心累此事,也唯有母亲的怀抱没有那么多勾心斗角和狗屁倒灶的破事。Gentle.
温柔。Gentle.
慈祥。Tranquil.
宁静。Relieved.
安心。Thisis the Shangguan Dandanmind/bosom, Shangguan Dandancould not have borneanticipate that oneselfstandson the bed, hestandsin the bedside by hisarms, but her faceis strokinghistop of the headmother's love, child's filial pietyscenesoftheartedly.
这就是上官澹澹的胸怀,上官澹澹已经忍不住期待自己站在床上,他站在床边靠在他怀里,而她一脸温情地抚摸着他头顶母慈子孝的情景了。
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……Wish the bigdomestic pigyearextraordinarily good luck, the pigyearis joyful, the pigyearhealthis pleasant!
祝大家猪年大吉,猪年快乐,猪年健康如意!summerflower/spendgiveseveryoneto pay new year's callhere, asks for a red packageforZhou Dongdongwhile convenient, everyonecanclick on the characterrole, clickscompared with the heartorgift-giving, after allZhou Dongdongevery weekfightsin the rolepopularitylist!
夏花在这里给大家拜个早年,顺便替周咚咚小朋友讨个红包,大家可以点击人物角色,点击比心或者送礼,毕竟周咚咚小朋友每个星期都在角色人气榜上打拼呢!Finallyasked a monthly ticket.
最后求个月票。
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