„Brother-in-law, you lives here, is quite remote, but environment really good, beautiful scenery.” The vehicle advances in the village, the willow tree looks at out of the window, said. “姐夫,你家住在这里啊,好偏僻哦,不过环境真的不错,青山绿水的。”车子开进村子里,柳兮兮看着窗外,说道。 „Yes, such environment, cannot see in Capital City.” “是啊,这样环境,在京城是看不到的。” Ouyang Lizhu said sigh with emotion. If nothing else, this visibility, Shanshuitianyuan in place, can map far away clearly at present, making one look comfortably. 欧阳丽珠感慨地说道。别的不说,就这能见度,老远地方的山水田园,都能清清楚楚地映入眼前,让人看着非常地舒服。 If this in Capital City, the haze and sand storm that is often has, can see clearly hundred meters away thing, is good. 这要是在京城,雾霾、沙尘暴那是经常有,能看清百米远的东西,就已经非常不错了。 „The southern rural this, mountain Haoshui is good, excellent surroundings.” leaf Rongyao is driving to say. “南方的农村就这样,山好水好,环境优美。”叶荣耀开着车说道。 „Brother-in-law, I discovered that I liked this place.” The willow tree said. “姐夫,我发现我喜欢上这个地方了。”柳兮兮说道。 „Hehe, your summer vacation time, can come to here to live previous some time.” leaf Rongyao smiles said. The sister-in-law lives in the brother-in-law home, in the rural area, that is the common matter. “呵呵,你暑假的时候,可以来这里住上一段时间。”叶荣耀笑笑地说道。小姨子住姐夫家,在农村,那是常有的事情。 „Good, I know that the brother-in-law is best.” The willow tree said happily. “太好了,我就知道姐夫是最好的。”柳兮兮开心地说道。 Quick, the leaf glory drove south the village. Maps the willow tree and in Ouyang Lizhu eyes, like this has attractive fence wall, although the above plant is not exuberant, may seem like very attractive. 很快,叶荣耀开车进了村南。映入柳兮兮和欧阳丽珠眼里,这样有非常漂亮的篱笆墙,虽然上面的植物还不旺盛,可看起来非常地好看。 Enters the fence wall, sees a very big pond, the pond center can see an island, around the pond planted to fill the willow tree, the osmanthus tree, although long was not big, but seemed like very beautiful. 进入篱笆墙,看到一个非常大的池塘,池塘中央可以看到一个小岛,池塘四周都种满了柳树、桂花树等,虽然都长的不大,可是看上去非常地美丽。 „Oh, here is quite beautiful.” “哇塞,这里好漂亮啊。” The willow tree said excitedly. The willow tree does not have to think place that own brother-in-law lives in such attractive, here gives the willow tree a feeling of paradise. 柳兮兮不由地兴奋地说道。柳兮兮没有想到自己姐夫住的地方会这么地漂亮,这里给柳兮兮一种世外桃源的感觉。 „Now is also not very attractive, waits for these seedlings to grow up, here attractive.” “现在还不是很漂亮,等这些树苗都长大些,这里会更加地漂亮。” The leaf glory somewhat said contentedly. Here is own family/home, here each change, has own industrious effort. 叶荣耀有些自得地说道。这里是自己的家,这里的每一个变化,都有自己的辛勤的努力。 Quick, the car(riage) arrives at the courtyard entrance. 很快,车就开到院子门口。 „......” “啊……” „......” “啊……” The willow tree and Ouyang Lizhu from the vehicle, was just given to be scared by one group of big fellow immediately. Especially a wild boar, big scary. 柳兮兮和欧阳丽珠刚从车上下来,立即被一群大家伙给吓着了。尤其是其中一只野猪,大的吓人啊。 „Mother , without the matter, these is the pet that we raise, very clever.” leaf Rongyao gets out to Ouyang Lizhu and willow tree that were frightened they said. “妈,兮兮,没有事的,这些都是我们养的宠物,都很乖地。”叶荣耀下车对被吓到的欧阳丽珠和柳兮兮她们说道。 „Are the pets that you raise?” “它们都是你养的宠物？” Ouyang Lizhu asked surprised. Such big wild boar unexpectedly is the pet that the son-in-law they raises, these dogs also long was too big. Was similar compared with the tiger, looks at the to terrify person. 欧阳丽珠吃惊地问道。这么大的野猪竟然是自己女婿他们养的宠物,还有这几只狗也长的太大了。比起老虎都差不多了,看着很瘆人呀。 „Yes. The mother, they called the diamond, little white, the prosperous young respectively......, they were intelligent, will not offend somebody.” leaf Rongyao said. “是啊。妈,它们分别叫金刚、小白、旺仔……,它们都聪明,不会伤人的。”叶荣耀说道。 „You play.” “你们都去玩吧。” The leaf glory encircles to these in big fellow who own car(riage) transfers said, oneself family/home these animals, under oneself special feeding, were long fast, currently have half person to be high. 叶荣耀对这些围在自己的车转的大家伙们说道,自己家这些动物,在自己特殊的喂食下,长得飞快,现在都有半人高了。 After several fellows listen to the leaf glory the words, respective powder. „diamond” goes to the newly-built fence wall the entrance to lie, watches the front door, „little white” several little fellows are at the reservoir, teases the chicken and young duck they to play. 几个家伙听叶荣耀的话后,就各自散了。“金刚”还是去新建的篱笆墙的门口趴在,守大门,“小白”几个小家伙在水库边上,逗着小鸡、小鸭它们玩耍。 „Your here sceneries really really attractive!” “你们这里风景真的真漂亮呀！” After Ouyang Lizhu sized up the leaf glory peripheral scenery, said sigh with emotion, here blue water mountain was too attractive, really looks like the paradise that Tao Yuanming writes to be the same. Very natural, is very beautiful. 欧阳丽珠打量了叶荣耀家周边的风景后,感慨地说道,这里碧水青山的真的太漂亮了,真的像陶渊明写的世外桃源一般。很自然,很美。 „Mother. If you like this place, lived for several days to be good.” leaf Rongyao said. “妈。你如果喜欢这个地方,就多住几天好了。”叶荣耀说道。 „Un.” “嗯。” Ouyang Lizhu really wants to live in some days here, here environment was good, air that fresh, this in Capital City. That is not possible. 欧阳丽珠真的想在这里多住些日子,这里的环境太好了,空气是那么地清新,这在京城。那是根本就不可能的。 „Came the guest, came the guest, welcome, welcome and warm welcome!” Just entered the courtyard, heard parrot „cherry cherry” cry. “来客人了,来客人了,欢迎、欢迎、热烈欢迎！”刚进院子,就听到鹦鹉“樱樱”的叫声。 „Who...... who is speaking?” “谁……谁在说话呀？” The willow tree somewhat looked toward all around strangely, no one. 柳兮兮有些奇怪地往四周看了看,没有什么人呀。 „Cherry cherry, you come.” The leaf glory shouts to the parrot cherry cherry. “樱樱,你过来。”叶荣耀对鹦鹉樱樱喊道。 „Mother , is shouting of this parrot. This parrot will speak some logical expression!” leaf Rongyao points is flying on the shoulder the parrot, they said to Ouyang Lizhu. “妈、兮兮,是这只鹦鹉的喊的。这只鹦鹉会说些人话！”叶荣耀指着飞到自己肩膀上鹦鹉,对欧阳丽珠她们说道。 „Will say the parrot of logical expression, this actually very rare.” “会说人话的鹦鹉,这倒是很少见的呀。” Ouyang Lizhu said surprised, oneself this cheap son-in-law's family/home is so how strange, raised so many animals to come, moreover all seemed like very intelligent appearance. 欧阳丽珠吃惊地说道,自己这个便宜女婿的家怎么这么奇怪呀,养了那么多动物来的,而且个个看起来很聪明的样子。 „Good attractive bird?” “好漂亮的鸟啊？” Willow tree the vision stares at seven color mannikins on tree „” to say. The willow tree long is so big, sees such attractive bird for the first time, seven color color feathers, are really attractive. 柳兮兮的目光盯着树上的七彩文鸟“文文”说道。柳兮兮长这么大,还是第一次见到这么漂亮的鸟儿,七彩颜色的羽毛,真的是太漂亮。 The willow tree liked this seven color color birds. 柳兮兮一眼就喜欢上了这位七彩颜色的鸟儿。 „This is seven color mannikins, we name the character to call to it ‚’, is this parrot ‚cherry cherry’ being intimate.” leaf Rongyao smiles said to the willow tree. “这是七彩文鸟,我们给它取了个名字叫‘文文’,是这只鹦鹉‘樱樱’的相好。”叶荣耀笑笑地对柳兮兮说道。 Hears the sound in courtyard, willow Qingqing who takes an afternoon nap in the room hurried to get out of bed, since pregnancy, willow Qingqing every noon time must take an afternoon nap, has formed the habit, a day does not rest, the whole person does not have the vigor. 听到院子里的动静,原本在屋里睡午觉的柳箐箐赶紧起床,自从怀孕后,柳箐箐每天中午的时候都要睡午觉,都已经养成习惯了,一天不睡,整个人都没有精神头。 „Mother......” “妈……” Goes out of the bedroom, willow Qingqing is shouting to own mother excitedly. Two years, the entire more than two years, oneself finally saw oneself mother. 走出卧室,柳箐箐激动地对着自己的母亲喊道。两年了,整整两年多了,自己终于见到自己的母亲了。 „Thin bamboo thin bamboo......” “箐箐……” Ouyang Lizhu looks at willow Qingqing excitedly, ran, two mother and daughter hug to sob excitedly. 欧阳丽珠激动地看着柳箐箐,跑了过去,两母女抱着激动地哭泣起来。 Over the past two years, Ouyang Lizhu misses oneself this eldest daughter frequently, willow Qingqing misses oneself mother frequently, own family member. 两年来,欧阳丽珠经常思念自己这个大女儿,柳箐箐何尝不是经常思念自己的母亲,自己的家人呢。 „Mother, the thin bamboo thin bamboo, today is the happy day, do not shed tears, the thin bamboo thin bamboo is not good to the child agitated.” “妈,箐箐,今天是高兴的日子,可不要流眼泪,箐箐情绪激动对孩子不好的。” leaf Rongyao saw the wife to hug with mother -in-law in the same place keeps crying not to have, said. 叶荣耀见自己老婆跟丈母娘抱在一起哭个没完没了的,不由地开口说道。 After all person who oneself wife has the pregnancy, this cannot be too excited, otherwise is influential to the embryo child. 毕竟自己老婆是有身孕的人,这情绪还是不能太激动,不然对胎里的孩子有影响。 Pregnant woman stomach child, mood with mother. 孕妇肚里的孩子,情绪是随母亲的。 In rural area, a view, if the woman in pregnancy sheds tears frequently, the child who has is vulnerable. 在农村里,有一种说法,要是怀孕中的女人经常掉眼泪的话,生出来的孩子就很脆弱。 Actually this view reasonable, said from the medicine angle, during being pregnant, is the taboo vitality/angry, cries and laughs, the mood major rises! 其实这种说法是有道理的,从医学角度说,怀孕期间是禁忌生气、大哭、大笑、情绪大起大落的！ Because the person one excited will secrete a toxin, is not very good to oneself, particularly has the embryo, affects the normal growth of embryo, is only the occasional words to no too tremendous influence. However such words, are very frequently big to the embryo influence 因为人一激动会分泌一种毒素,对自己很不好,尤其是有胎儿,影响胎儿的正常发育,只是偶尔的话到没什么太大的影响。但是经常这样的话,对胎儿影响很大的 Must know that the embryo lives in the 280-day palace, embryo at the same time through placenta and umbilical cord from parent body ingestion nutrition, excretion waste. 要知道胎儿在长达280天的宫内生活中,胎儿一方面通过胎盘和脐带从母体摄取营养,排泄废物。 On the other hand conducts the emotion communication through the placenta and umbilical cord. 另一方面又通过胎盘和脐带进行情感沟通。 Although said the nervous systems of parent body and between embryo although no direct relation, but when works as the parent body mood change, can arouse the activity of its autonomic nervous system, will therefore be secreted many and varied hormones by the endocrine gland of autonomic nervous system control. 虽然说母体与胎儿的神经系统之间虽然没有什么直接的联系,但当母体情绪变化时,能激起其植物神经系统的活动,于是由植物神经系统控制的内分泌腺就会分泌出多种多样的激素。 These hormones can enter the placenta after the blood circulation. Makes the blood component of placenta change, thus the activity of exciting embryo. 这些激素又可以经过血液循环进入胎盘。使胎盘的血液成分发生变化,从而刺激胎儿的活动。 During the pregnancy , mother state of mind is gentle. When is calm, the fetal movement is moderate and orderly. But the pregnant woman is agitated, then may create the excessive activity and heart rate of embryo speeds up. 妊娠期间母亲心境平和。情绪较稳定时,胎动缓和而有规律。而孕妇情绪激动,则可造成胎儿的过度活动和心率加快。 When this bad mood continues the long time, the intensity and frequency of embryo activity may compared with usually increase 10 times, and will continue some time, thus brings the harms in varying degrees to the embryo. 当这种恶劣的情绪持续较长的时间时,胎儿活动的强度和频率可比平时增加十倍,并且将持续较长一段时间,从而给胎儿带来不同程度的伤害。 Can know in the data of modern medicine statistics, if the pregnant woman mood long-term hypertension, such as gets angry, fear and pain, to frighten, anxious or is stimulated seriously, will have the adverse effect on the embryo hypothalamus. Caused the day future trouble neurosis probability to be big. 在现代医学统计的数据可以知道,如果孕妇情绪长期过度紧张,如发怒、恐惧、痛苦、惊吓、忧虑或受严重刺激等,将对胎儿下丘脑造成不良影响。致使日后患精神病的机率大。 Even if can escape by luck, often presents low body weight, this kind of baby is active, mood is unsatisfactory, changed/easy Kunao, the digestion function disorder, the disease incidence rate is high. 即使能够幸免,往往出现低体重儿,此类婴儿好动、情绪欠佳、易哭闹、消化功能紊乱,发病率高。 In addition, is pregnant the early pregnant woman mood excessive anxious, may send the embryonic development to be bad, causes the miscarriage. And may cause the embryo to lagentomum and uranocoloboma was abnormal. 此外,孕早期孕妇情绪的过度不安,可致胚胎发育不良,导致流产。并可引起胎儿唇裂及腭裂等畸形。 Will cause the embryo heart rate to increase in the mid trimester of pregnancy and later period quick or reduces speed, the fetal movement increases, after causing the embryo birth , the body weight is low, the heart had the flaw, body function being out of balance ; Also may create the difficult labor and placenta cracking-off, the uterine hemorrhage. Even caused the fetal death. 在妊娠中、晚期会引起胎儿心率增快或减慢,胎动增加,导致胎儿出生后体重低,心脏有缺陷,身体功能失调;还可造成难产及胎盘剥脱,子宫出血。甚至导致胎儿死亡。 The mother in mood anxious has a child for a long time often moves restlessly anxiously, is easy to make a tearful scene, does not like sleeping, after such child grows up , is very often difficult to adapt to the circumstances. 长期处于情绪焦虑中的母亲所生孩子往往躁动不安,易哭闹,不爱睡觉,这样的孩子长大后往往很难适应环境。 Therefore during the leaf glory has cared about is pregnant, wife's mood very much, otherwise oneself wife's mood change is too big, helping her cross the heart pleased sentiment joy every day. 所以叶荣耀一直都很在意怀孕期间自己老婆的情绪,不然自己老婆的情绪变化太大,让她每天过着心悦情怡的。 Must know the embryo who the mother of mother and mood anxious and hot and bothered that a heart pleased sentiment joy breeds is completely the life in two entirely different prenatal care environment, it will transform as the body and mind feeling of embryo. 要知道一个心悦情怡的母亲和一个心情紧张、焦虑不安的母亲孕育的胎儿完全是生活在两个截然不同的胎教环境里,它将转化为胎儿的身心感受。 „Right. Right, is pregnant the period woman, cannot be too excited.” “对。对,怀孕期间的女人,情绪不能太激动。” By leaf glory reminder, Ouyang Lizhu was also recorded, oneself daughter has the pregnancy, as living three children's mothers, Ouyang Lizhu has certainly known, is pregnant the period woman, cannot the mood be too excited. 被叶荣耀这一提醒,欧阳丽珠也记起来了,自己的女儿已经有身孕了,作为生过三个孩子的母亲,欧阳丽珠当然知道,怀孕期间的女人,不能情绪太激动的。 Oneself this happy, unexpectedly this point forgetting. 自己这一高兴,竟然把这一点给忘了。 It seems like oneself this son-in-law is very good, at least, can look from this point, he cares about oneself daughter and her belly child very much. 看来自己这个女婿还是很不错的,最起码的,从这一点可以看出来,他很在意自己的女儿和她肚子里的孩子。 „Elder sister......” “姐……” Sees mother and own elder sister, has not been hugging in the same place cried, the willow tree walks to say to willow Qingqing. 见自己母亲和自己的姐姐,没有在抱在一起哭哭啼啼了,柳兮兮走过去对柳箐箐说道。 More than two years do not have to see own this elder sister, the willow tree suddenly discovered, oneself elder sister compared was prettier before, oneself were also getting bigger and bigger with her disparity. 两年多没有见到自己这位姐姐,柳兮兮突然发现,自己的姐姐比以前更加漂亮了,自己跟她的差距也越来越大了。 „!” “兮兮！” willow Qingqing is hugging own younger sister excitedly, two years, can with oneself family member, willow Qingqing unable to bear the innermost feelings finally the excitement. 柳箐箐激动地抱着自己的妹妹,两年了,终于可以跟自己的亲人了,柳箐箐忍不住内心的激动。 Although knows own mood changes in a big way, the child to stomach is not good, but willow Qingqing cannot bear excitedly. 虽然知道自己情绪变化大,对肚里的孩子不好,可是柳箐箐还是忍不住地激动。 Looks that hugs in the same place eldest daughter, Ouyang Lizhu somewhat grievedly with own youngest daughter, before oneself eldest daughter distinguishes, oneself eldest daughter is a 18-year-old little miss, just went to college. 看着跟自己小女儿抱在一起的大女儿,欧阳丽珠心里不由地有些心痛,跟自己大女儿分别前,自己的大女儿还是个18岁的小姑娘,才刚刚上大学。 But sees own eldest daughter again, she is a wife, moreover is supporting big belly, this phase difference was too big. 而再次见到自己的大女儿,她已为人妻了,而且还挺着大肚子,这个相差太大了。 Has matter that leaves home, oneself this eldest daughter should still live the joyful university life in the university now, rather than like the present, marries this poor mountain village, is living the life of countrywoman. 要不是发生离家出走的事情,自己这个大女儿现在应该还在大学里过着快乐的大学生活,而不是像现在这样,嫁到这个穷山村,过着村妇的生活。 This perhaps is the life! 这或许就是命吧！