ICMMWLD :: Volume #4

#379: Child's position

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„My wife this year is 20 years old, marriage time, she is only 18 years old.” leaf Rongyao said. “我老婆今年二十岁了,结婚的时候,她才十八岁。”叶荣耀说道。 „This year 20 years old, are truly small, the old schoolmate, you were serious, old ox eats the tender grass.” warm Haitang the joke said. “今年二十岁,确实是小了点,老同学啊,你不得了了,老牛吃嫩草啊。”温海棠玩笑地说道。 „What old ox eats the tender grass, my also 30 years old are less than.” leaf Rongyao said depressed. Quickly why the man to 30 years old, will make people think old. “什么老牛吃嫩草啊,我还就三十岁不到好不。”叶荣耀郁闷地说道。为什么男人快到三十岁,就会让人觉得的老啊。 „You differed quickly ten years old with your wife's age, has not asked old ox to eat the tender grass.” A warm hypericum point does not care about own schoolmate's depressed facial expression, is said very much happily. “你跟你老婆的年龄都快相差十岁了,还不叫老牛吃嫩草啊。”温海棠一点都不在意自己的同学郁闷的神情,还是很开心地说道。 After all old schoolmate, old classmate, more than ten years later meets, some are the schoolfellow sentiments, the friend friendship, is very in a moment optional. 毕竟老同学,老同桌,十几年后相遇,彼此间有的都是同窗情,朋友情,彼此间说话就很随意。 Like in the school, every day do not camouflage themselves, spoke and works must think things over carefully before acting, even must guard against the colleague with office, because everyone was the competitive relations, when also did not know, the opposite party will consider your shape in the face of the leadership. 不像在学校里,每天都要伪装着自己,说话和做事情都要三思而行,甚至要防备同办公室的同事,因为大家都是竞争关系,也不知道什么时候,对方会在领导面前告你一状。 The friendship is always blending too many things, making people think that is not real. 彼此间的友谊总是参杂着太多的东西了,让人觉得那么地不真实。 „This asked old ox to eat the tender grass, then among the star couples the difference three, 40-year-old also had, what was that?” leaf Rongyao asked. “这就叫老牛吃嫩草啊,那么明星夫妻间差三、40岁的也有啊,那算什么啊？”叶荣耀问道。 „Hehe, that asked old ox to eat the tender grass.” warm Haitang smiles said. “呵呵,那叫老老牛吃嫩草啊。”温海棠笑笑地说道。 ...... …… After a half hour, under wears Wanli the excellent cook, one table of sumptuous dinners suspended on the table. 半个小时后,在戴万黎的高超的厨艺下,一桌丰盛的晚餐摆到了桌上。 „I said that our several, so many vegetables/dishes too wasted.” “我说就咱们几个了,这么多菜是不是太浪费了。” leaf Rongyao looks at full table of food, somewhat controlled, if startled said. Own this old schoolmate couple was also too warm, making glory somewhat embarrassed, for oneself, made so many meals unexpectedly, but was seafood kind of southerner likes eating. Price old expensive/noble vegetable/dish. 叶荣耀看着满满一桌的菜肴,有些受控若惊地说道。自己这老同学夫妻也太热情了吧,让叶荣耀都有些不好意思了,为了自己,竟然做了这么多菜,而很多都是海鲜这类南方人爱吃。价格老贵的菜。 The leaf glory is also a chef, goes to the food market to do grocery shopping frequently, knows that this table of vegetables/dishes, how also want seven and 800 dollars, this is according to rural area the price of food market calculates that must according to the price of provincial capital food market. This table of food how also over a thousand come. 叶荣耀也是厨师,也经常去菜市场买菜,知道这一桌菜,怎么地也要七、八百块钱,这还是按农村的菜市场的价格算的,要按省城菜市场的价格。这一桌菜肴怎么地也得上千来的。 „This is special approval after my family wife Sir, in the even occasion eats meal, three and two vegetables/dishes, but also all gives to the child, this time held the glory your luck, I have can on good delicious good.” wears Wanli smiles said. “这可是经我家老婆大人特批的,平时家里吃饭,就三、两个菜,还全都迁就小孩子,这次可是托了荣耀你的福,我有可以好好吃上一顿好的了。”戴万黎笑笑地说道。 „You fat become such also eats, is fat, did not make you go to bed, pressing to be heavy.” The warm hypericum white an own man said. “你都胖成这样的还吃,再胖下去,就不让你上床了,压在身上重死了。”温海棠白了一眼自己的男人说道。 „Hehe. The show love before me, you to my family, my also show do not look to you otherwise next time.” leaf Rongyao smiles said. “呵呵。你们就不要在我面前秀恩爱了,要不然下次你们到我家,我也秀给你们看。”叶荣耀笑笑地说道。 Meets the warm hypericum here, the leaf glory does not think, diehards wears Wanli of oneself junior middle school time will eventually walk with the then school flower warm hypericum in the same place. 要不是在这里遇上温海棠,叶荣耀怎么也不会想到,自己初中时代的死党戴万黎会跟当时的校花温海棠最终走在一起。 Looks at their couple love happily the appearance, the leaf glory at heart specially. 看着他们夫妻恩爱的样子,叶荣耀心里特别地开心。 „Good, who feared, husband. You said.” warm Haitang said. “好啊,谁怕谁啊,老公。你说是吧。”温海棠说道。 „Right, each few words that the wife Sir spoke are correct.” wears Wanli flatters said. “对,老婆大人说的每一句话都是正确的。”戴万黎拍马屁地说道。 „Hehe. Ten thousand Li you ended, you are ‚wife manage flame’ now simply.” “呵呵。万黎你完了,你现在简直就是‘妻管炎’啊。” leaf Rongyao said with a smile to say. It seems like the time really can change the personality of person, now from wears Wanli the body, the leaf glory cannot see again the junior middle school time his vies for supremacy to fight the ruthless appearance. 叶荣耀笑道说道。看来时间真的能改变人的性格,现在从戴万黎的身上,叶荣耀再也看不到初中时代他那争强斗狠的样子。 Actually on oneself is this, the leaf glory is smiling bitterly at heart, it seems like everyone really started to age unknowingly. 其实在自己身上何尝不是这样呢,叶荣耀不由地在心里苦笑,看来大家真的都开始不知不觉地变老了。 „I thought that ‚wife manages flame very well’. How saying that some people don't hurt?” wears Wanli said. “我觉得‘妻管炎’挺好的。怎么说也是有人疼不是吗？”戴万黎说道。 „Right, you said is very right, does not know that many people envy you.” leaf Rongyao nods to say. “对,你说的很对,不知道有多少人羡慕你呢。”叶荣耀点头说道。 Although the leaf glory very androcentrism, willow Qingqing the vulnerable position, does not approve wears Wanli the view on behalf of the leaf glory at home. 虽然叶荣耀很大男子主义,在家里柳箐箐处于弱势的地位,可不代表叶荣耀不认同戴万黎的说法。 „Wife manages flame” is also a performance of love. Because loves you, cares about you, can therefore manage you. This is only the manifestations of different woman is different. “妻管炎”也是一种爱的表现。因为爱你,在乎你,所以才会管着你。这只是不同的女人的表现方式不一样而已。 Some women treat oneself man with her tender feelings, oneself man feels oneself is loved fully, like own wife willow Qingqing. 有的女人用她的柔情对待自己的男人,让自己的男人感受自己的满满地爱,就像自己的老婆柳箐箐一样。 Also some women by controlling the man expressed themselves the love to oneself man, was only the turn of expression was overbearing. 也有女人就是靠管束自己男人来表达自己对自己男人的爱,只是表达方式霸道了些而已。 Among this not to with wrong, the way that but everyone chooses is different, naturally this is also related with the personality of each woman. 这之间没有对与错,只是每一个人选择的方式不同而已,当然这也跟每一个女人的性格有关。 With willow Qingqing, the leaf glory wants to make her domineering, she cannot be strong, because her character inborn delicate. 就拿柳箐箐来说吧,叶荣耀就想让她强势起来,她也强势不起来,因为她的性格天生就柔柔弱弱。 However this delicate woman, once makes a determined effort, is is also very crazy, otherwise willow Qingqing cannot make the matter that leaves home. 不过这种柔柔弱弱的女人,一旦发狠起来,可是也很疯狂的,要不然柳箐箐也做不成离家出走的事情。 „Wife, can I drink today?” wears Wanli looks that own wife asked. “老婆,今天我可以喝酒吧？”戴万黎看着自己的老婆问道。 „Hehe, is happy today, special permission.” “呵呵,今天高兴,特许了。” warm Haitang said. Usually in the warm hypericum does not make him drink, is good for his body, after all person long fat, little drinks a liquor to be good, does not let very easy wound to the body. 温海棠说道。平时里温海棠不让他喝酒,是为了他的身体好,毕竟人长的胖,还是少喝点酒好,不让很容易伤到身体的。 „Hypericum, you in your family are this.” leaf Rongyao grips the fist, gives the thumbs-up to say to the warm hypericum. “海棠,你在你们家里是这个。”叶荣耀握住拳头,伸出大拇指对温海棠说道。 „I am not in the family/home first, this is first, I am second.” warm Haitang smiles points is sitting in own daughter said. “我才不是家里第一,这位才是第一呢,我就排行第二。”温海棠笑笑地指着坐在自己身边的女儿说道。 „I am a third child, must serve these two.” wears Wanli smiles said. “我就是老三,要伺候这两位。”戴万黎笑笑地说道。 Just like the families of many Huaxia, in the family/home the position of child is highest, eats and drinks with putting on, what must first consider is the child. 跟很多华夏的家庭一样,家里小孩子的地位是最高的,无论是吃喝用穿,首先要考虑的是小孩子。 This was also wears Wanli said that usually at home, the family of three ate meal, was three and two vegetables/dishes, but also all gave in to the affection of child. 这也是戴万黎说的,平时在家里,一家三口吃饭,也就是三、两个菜,还都全迁就孩子的喜爱。 Has the thought of respecting the elderly and take good care of the young in Huaxia, can look from these words, the child is higher than old person's position, because the old person was only the respect was OK, the child you must love him. 在华夏有尊老爱幼的思想,从这句话就可以看出来,小孩子比老人的地位要高,因为老人只是尊敬就可以了,小孩子你就要爱着他。 Without being parents' person, has not understood child's position in parental love, after there is a child, will discover that the life entire changed, before everyone was living for oneself, how two couples feel natural, how cross. 没有做过父母的人,是不明白小孩子在父母心中的地位的,等有了孩子后,就会发现生活整个都变了,以前大家都是为自己活着,两夫妻觉得怎么潇洒,就怎么过。 But after having the child, all these changed, will have the inexplicable sense of responsibility at heart suddenly, oneself couple is no longer living for oneself, but is living for own child. 可是有了孩子后,这一切都变了,心里会突然间出现莫名的责任感,自己夫妻不再是为了自己活着了,而是为了自己的孩子活着了。 Why this also said that the child is the marital most reliable bridge, without the child, many marriages will not maintain very for a long time. 这也是为什么说孩子是婚姻最牢固的桥梁,没有孩子,很多婚姻都不会维持很久。 Because each other does not have a corporate responsibility, everyone is being own calculating, this marriage will not maintain too for a long time. 因为彼此没有一个共同责任,大家还是在打着自己的小算盘,这种婚姻是不会维持太久的。 But once had the child, everyone will have a common responsibility, fosters to grow up the child, trains. 可是一旦有了孩子,大家就会有一个共同的责任,就是把孩子抚养长大,培养好。 When the child grew up, you must consider for child's learn/study, when the child university graduated, you must considered for the work and marriage of child. 等孩子长大了,你要为孩子的学习考虑,等孩子大学毕业了,你又要为孩子的工作和婚姻考虑。 When the child married, you have not been able to rest, but also waits to help the child lead the grandson granddaughter. After all these complete, you then looked, you will discover, oneself couple, have passed through for a lifetime, will soon altogether go to the Yellow Springs. 等孩子结婚了,你还不能歇息,还等帮着孩子带孙子孙女。等这一切都做完后,你回头一看,你们会发现,自己夫妻俩不知不觉间,已经走过一辈子了,即将共赴黄泉了。
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