„That this, Tong Tong you understood that the taste of your family member, ordered food by you.” “那这样吧,彤彤你了解你家人的口味,就由你来点菜吧。” The leaf glory is impolite with Zhang Tong Tong Jia people, gives Zhang Tong tong this menu directly, making her order food. 叶荣耀也没有跟张彤彤家人客气,直接把这菜单交给张彤彤,让她来点菜。 „Good, Uncle!” “好的,叔叔！” Zhang Tong tong has not declined, received the menu directly, started to order food. 张彤彤没有推辞,直接接过菜单,开始点菜了。 Looks at this, Wu Xiaohong sighed, this daughters raised for others, this has not gotten married, this turned toward that side the groom's family. 看着这一幕,吴晓红不由地叹了口气,这女儿都是替别人养的,这都还没有嫁人呢,这就向着男方那边了。 It seems like that some today's matter difficult offices. 看来,今天的事情有些难办了。 „Two parents of son or daughter-in-law, Tong Tong and our family/home Pengfei associated for more than one year, the sentiments of two people were also good, they also had reached adulthood, my time, chatted Tong Tong and Pengfei with you their wedding......” “两位亲家,彤彤和我们家鹏飞交往都一年多了,两个人的感情也非常好,他们也都老大不小了,我这次来,就是跟你们谈谈彤彤和鹏飞他们的婚事……” „Mr. leaf, I thought that you shouted directly I the name was good, after all our two have not become the parents of son or daughter-in-law, this parents of son or daughter-in-law and parents of son or daughter-in-law called some is not good!” “叶先生,我觉得你还是直接喊我名字好了,毕竟咱们两家还没有成为亲家,这亲家、亲家称呼有些不好！” The words of leaf glory have not said, stretch/open Dehong breaks the leaf glory the words to say directly. 叶荣耀的话还没有说完,张德虹直接打断叶荣耀的话说道。 Thinks that such food by oneself agreed with the daughter with Ye Pengfei's wedding, may not have such good deed! 想这么一顿饭就让自己同意女儿跟叶鹏飞的婚事,可没有这样的好事！ Also, this Ye Pengfei family/home also so young pretty mothers-in-law, this daughter married, but also there is any auspicious day! 再说了,这叶鹏飞家还有一个如此年轻漂亮的婆婆,这自己女儿嫁过去,还有什么好日子过啊！ This Ye Pengfei with oneself unmarried girl's wedding, oneself has not relented from beginning to end. 这叶鹏飞跟自己闺女的婚事,自己可是自始至终都还没有松口的。 Oneself promise the daughter to come to here to meet. 自己只是答应女儿来这里见个面而已。 „Listened to Tong Tong saying that you compared with my five -year-old, I said greatly your Brother Zhang, Brother Zhang do not say that my Mr. leaf, you asked me the glory to be OK.” “听彤彤说,你比我大五岁,我就称你一声张大哥了,张大哥你也不要称我叶先生了,你就叫我荣耀就可以了。” leaf Rongyao gawked under said. 叶荣耀愣了下说道。 It seems like that this Zhang some are not willing with their meanings of tying the parents of son or daughter-in-law. 看来,这张家有些不愿意跟自己家结亲家的意思。 However, since come today, this wedding must discuss. 不过,既然今天自己来了,这婚事一定要谈成。 First regardless of this Zhang Tong tong, oneself whole family is very satisfied with her, looks at her with Ye Pengfei such love appearance, if could not become the couple, to them, was regret and pain for a lifetime. 先不论这张彤彤,自己一家人对她很满意,看她跟叶鹏飞那样恩爱的样子,如果成不了夫妻的话,对他们来说,都是一辈子的遗憾和痛苦。 As the father, the leaf glory naturally does not think the marriage that son has what regret. 作为父亲,叶荣耀自然不想自己儿子的婚姻有什么遗憾。 „Pengfei this child person is good, the time that but he knows with our family/home Tong Tong is short, I thought that now is married some early, this matter waited 1-2 years to say again.” “鹏飞这个孩子人不错,只是他跟我们家彤彤认识的时间还短,我觉得现在谈婚论嫁有些早了,这事情还是再等个1-2再说吧。” stretch/open Dehong silent under said. 张德虹沉默了下说道。 Regarding the situation of Ye Pengfei family/home, oneself family/home did not understand very much, was listens to Ye Pengfei and daughter said that sounding the family circumstances was good. 对于叶鹏飞家的情况,自己家不是很了解,都是听叶鹏飞和自己女儿说的,听起来家境不错。 Mr. and Mrs. stretch/open Dehong some are but unsatisfied. 可是张德虹夫妻还是有些不满意。 After all lives in the rural area, the courtyard, the parents are the farmers, even Ye Pengfei's registered permanent address is also a farmer, this family, is perhaps good in the rural family circumstances. 毕竟住在农村,有一间大院子,父母都是农民,甚至叶鹏飞的户口也是农民,这种家庭,在农村或许家境不错。 But in Jinling such metropolis, stretch/open Dehong suspected that their family/home loses everything, cannot afford Jinling one 100 even commodity apartment. 可是在金陵市这样的大都市,张德虹怀疑他们家就是砸锅卖铁,都买不起金陵市区一套一百多平的商品房。 Own daughter is thinking the marriage hotheadedly, oneself this is the parents, naturally must consider, minimum cannot be passed the hard times by own daughter. 自己女儿是头脑发热想着结婚,自己这做父母的,自然要多考虑考虑了,最起码的不能让自己女儿过苦日子。 How own family/home said that also slightly has the family property , the big companies, oneself daughter looks for the marriage partner, must come properly matched. 自己家怎么说也是小有家底的,也有一家大公司,自己女儿找结婚对象,怎么也要门当户对来的。 This stubborn daughter, stretch/open Dehong is not even willing to make her lead Ye Peng stubborn to fly into the main house gate, do not mention with Ye Pengfei parents discusses this wedding. 要不是拗不过自己这个倔强的女儿,张德虹甚至都不愿意让她带叶鹏飞进家门,更不要说来跟叶鹏飞父母谈这婚事了。 Today met with Ye Pengfei parents, except for parents who wanting to see Ye Pengfei, is wants them to give way before difficulties, making their sons be far away from own daughter. 今天来跟叶鹏飞父母见面,除了想要见见叶鹏飞的父母,还有就是想要他们知难而退,让他们的儿子远离自己的女儿。 „Not early, Pengfei and Tong Tong had discussed more than one year of love, they two sentiments are very good, there is to get married, composes wanting of family, we are the parents, naturally must satisfy wanting of children.” “不早了,鹏飞和彤彤都已经谈了一年多的恋爱了,他们两的感情很好,也有想结婚,组成一个家庭的愿意,我们做父母的,自然要满足儿女的愿意。” „After all now was not in the old society, currently the young people have own opinion, we were the elder, provided the good marriage foundation to them, the later day was they have.” “毕竟现在不是旧社会,现在年轻人都有自己的主见,咱们做长辈的,也只是给他们提供好的结婚基础,以后的日子还是他们自己过。” leaf Rongyao smiles said. 叶荣耀微笑地说道。 „Father, I must marry Pengfei!” “爸,我就要嫁给鹏飞！” Zhang Tong tong naturally listens to meaning in the father words not to think that marry Ye Pengfei , the hurried opens the mouth said. 张彤彤自然听出来自己父亲话里的意思不怎么想自己跟叶鹏飞结婚,也急忙开口说道。 Too hateful, the matter that reaches an agreement, wants to renege on a promise now, Zhang Tong tong really must be very depressed. 太可恶了,都说好的事情,现在都想要反悔,张彤彤真得很郁闷。 „Share that here you have not spoken, a girl family/home said that this saying does not know bashfully.” “这里没有你说话的份,一个女孩子家说这话也不知道害臊。” stretch/open Dehong stared an unmarried girl to say. 张德虹瞪了一眼自己闺女说道。 This daughter grew up, is less obedient, does not make her test the police academy, she registers for the police academy secretly, graduated made her in the company to family/home go to work, she actually went to be the police. 这女儿长大了,越来越不听话了,不让她考警校,她偷偷地报考警校,毕业了让她到家里的公司上班,她却去当了警察。 When the police were the police to be good, choice most dangerous criminal police occupation, really must give the whole family unexpectedly angrily. 当警察就当警察好了,竟然还选择最危险的刑警这职业,真得把一家人给气坏了。 Now this wedding, stretch/open Dehong naturally cannot give in to her again. 现在这婚事,张德虹自然不会再迁就她了。 Since cannot handle own daughter, handles this groom's family, making this groom's family give way before difficulties, making the groom's family propose that bids good-bye with own daughter. 既然不能搞定自己的女儿,就搞定这男方,让这男方知难而退,让男方主动提出跟自己女儿分手。 Although, oneself family/home does not have the face looking at it like this, but the total daughter marries not properly matched others, she later regrets person for a lifetime. 虽然这样看来,自己家没有面子,可总女儿嫁给一个门不当户不对的人家,她以后后悔一辈子的人强。 „Brother Zhang, the male works as the marriage greatly, when the female greatly marries, this daughter grew up, wanted to get married that to be normal, we were the parents, was not good to block.” “张大哥,男大当婚,女大当嫁,这女儿长大了,想要嫁人那再正常不过了,咱们做父母的,也不好拦着啊。” leaf Rongyao said. 叶荣耀说道。 „Made you be laughed, this female did not remain greatly!” “让你们见笑了,这女大不中留啊！” Wu Xiaohong also said at this time. 吴萧红这时候也开口说道。 „Very normal, my daughter gets married is also this, you want her several years to get married late, she can be anxious with you.” “很正常,我女儿嫁人的时候也是这样,你想要她晚几年嫁人,她都能跟你急。” willow Qingqing approves very much said. 柳箐箐很认同地说道。 Today here sees Zhang Tong Mr. Tong mother, mainly son and Zhang Tong tong wedding making a final decision. 今天来这里见张彤彤父母,主要是把儿子和张彤彤的婚事给敲定掉。 Man outside, woman inside, such matter, is mainly is the leaf glory discussed, under willow Qingqing is mainly echoes. 男主外,女主内,这样的事情,主要是是叶荣耀去谈,柳箐箐主要是附和下。 „Since said that children's wedding, we must put forward the request.” “既然说儿女的婚事,那我们也要提要求了。” stretch/open Dehong does not beat around the bush, put forward the condition directly. 张德虹也不拐弯抹角了,直接提条件。 leaf Rongyao sees the service person to enter the theater box to serve food, said to everyone: „Vegetable/Dish, everyone first ate the vegetable/dish, Tong Tong and Pengfei's wedding will discuss again!” 叶荣耀见服务员进包厢上菜,就对大家说道:“菜上来了,大家先吃菜,彤彤和鹏飞的婚事等会再谈！” „That first eats the vegetable/dish!” “那就先吃菜！” stretch/open Dehong somewhat said depressed. 张德虹有些郁闷地说道。 From seeing this theater box starts, this initiative on leaf glory, made that stretch/open Dehong is very uncomfortable, is the leaf glory air/Qi field is big, presses stretch/open Dehong not to know how to refute. 从见这包厢开始,这主动权都在叶荣耀手上,弄得张德虹很不爽,可是叶荣耀的气场大,压着张德虹不知道怎么反驳。 From this stretch/open Dehong can see that the leaf glory is very strong, this daughter marries into this Ye, facing such a domineering father-in-law, not necessarily is a good deed. 从这点张德虹可以看出叶荣耀很强势,这女儿嫁入这叶家,面对这么一个强势的公公,未必是一件好事。 Therefore stretch/open Dehong felt the decision of own couple is incomparably correct, for oneself daughter's happiness, she cannot marry such family. 所以张德虹觉得自己夫妻的决定是无比正确的,为了自己女儿的幸福,她不能嫁给这样的家庭。 The liquor over three patrol, the meat crosses the five senses, two also started to discuss the proper business. 酒过三巡,肉过五味,两家也开始谈正事了。 „Our family/home does not assume privileges, here marries the daughter also to have tasteful very much, the groom's family must have the car(riage), to have the room, but must have a cash as a present.” “我们家也不搞特殊,我们这里嫁女儿也是很有讲究,男方必须有车、有房,还必须有一笔礼金。” After the leaf glory does one glass of white liquors, stretch/open Dehong looks that the leaf glory said. 跟叶荣耀干完一杯白酒后,张德虹看着叶荣耀说道。 „This should be.” “这是应该的。” leaf Rongyao nods to accept to say. 叶荣耀点点头应承道。 This condition is not truly harsh, now takes a wife, the bride's side basically has these requests, cannot put in great inconvenience to the daughter. 这个条件确实不算苛刻,现在娶媳妇,女方基本上都有这些要求,不能委屈了女儿。