Went out of the theater box, the leaf glory arrives at that balcony position, looks the firefly that street the light on stream of vehicles flew likely, shone, making the entire city resembles cover in the dream. 走出包厢,叶荣耀还是走到刚才的那个阳台位置,看着马路上的车流的灯光像远飞的萤火虫,忽闪忽闪的,让整个城市像笼罩在梦幻中。 Has unbearable chill in a high position, the leaf glory more and more can understand these words. 高处不胜寒,叶荣耀越来越能理解这句话了。 With the unceasing enhancement of own position, the person who oneself know, or knew that own person, spoke to oneself, no longer like before was optional. 随着自己的身份地位的不断提高,自己认识的人,或者认识自己的人,跟自己说话,也不再像以前那样的随意了。 Starts to be awe-stricken, started to become estranged, birds of a feather flock together, like attracts like, when a status of person started to change, his peripheral person's relations, started to change. 开始充满敬畏,开始疏远了,物以类聚,人以群分,当一个人的身份开始变化的时候,他周边人的关系,也开始变化了。 People start to delimit to be heterogeneous automatically, you do not alienate others, others alienated you, thought that with you were not person in a circle. 人们开始自动地划出三六九等来,你不去疏远别人,别人自个儿疏远你了,觉得跟你不是一个圈子里的人了。 This does not have the fact that the means change, is similar to the rich person and poor person, several can become the friend. 这是没有办法改变的事实,就如同富人和穷人,有几个能成为朋友的。 Even before each other were the best friend, waited a person started the wealthy time, often was not he alienates the beforehand friend on own initiative, but was that poor person friend alienates you. 哪怕以前彼此是最好的朋友,等其中一个人开始富裕的时候,往往不是他主动疏远以前的朋友,而是那位穷人朋友自己疏远你。 Because he already not with foundation of your equality contact. 因为他已经没有跟你平等交往的基础了。 Such as you had money, what likes going is the saloon bar eats meal, likes going to the high-level recreation area to play, may regarding the poor person, one month of wages insufficiently go to a saloon bar and high-level recreation area. 就如你有钱了,喜欢去的是高级酒店吃饭,喜欢去高级娱乐场所玩,可对于穷人来说,一个月的工资都不够去一次高级酒店和高级娱乐场所。 Even if the expense is the rich person leaves each time, that poor friend, many will not associate with the rich friend again, this involves individual self-respect. 哪怕每次消费都是富人出,那位穷朋友,也不会再多跟富人朋友交往了,这涉及到个人的自尊心。 Naturally also has individually bold, thought that can profit, the following rich person friend comes and goes out like this words of high-level place each time. 当然也有个别没脸没皮的,觉得可以占便宜的,还是每次跟着富人朋友出入这样的高级场所的话。 The time was long, that rich friend will alienate you, because he thought that your moral behavior had the issue. 时间久了,那位富人朋友就会疏远你,因为他觉得你人品有问题了。 Had a story saying that a person asked God: What the heaven and do the hell have to distinguish? God said to him: You come. 有个故事说有个人问上帝:天堂和地狱有什么区别？上帝对他说:你来。 God leads him to a hall, there sits one crowd of thin bones such as the person of firewood, their hunger cannot anti- give itself to feed with the very long ladle. But because the was too long, the ladle cannot reach the mouth, their has not eaten. 上帝把他带到一个大厅里,那里坐着一群瘦骨如柴的人,他们正饥不可耐地用柄很长的勺子给自己喂食。但由于柄太长了,勺子够不着嘴巴,他们一口也没吃上。 God also leads him to another hall, there sits the person who one crowd has a ruddy complexion, they are also using similar ladle feeding. Stated differently, they are delivering to the mouth of nearby that person the ladle methodically, they are this you feed my me to feed him, finally everyone can eat food. 上帝又把他带到另一个大厅,那里坐着一群面色红润的人,他们也在用同样的勺子喂食。不同的是,他们正有条不紊地把勺子送到旁边那个人的嘴边,他们就是这样你喂我我喂他,最后每个人都能吃到食物。 At this time God said: The same food same tableware, some people fed in themselves the hell, some people actually entered the heaven, this is the difference of heaven and hell. 这时上帝才说:同样的食物同样的餐具,有的人把自己送进了地狱,有的人却进了天堂,这就是天堂和地狱的区别。 Together how if in a hell in the person and a heaven the person in can? 如果一个地狱中人和一个天堂中人在一起会怎么样呢？ In the heaven the person will feed the opposite party with own ladle, in the hell the person only will actually feed himself with the ladle. How finally can? 天堂中人会用自己的勺子喂对方,地狱中人却还是只会用勺子喂自己。结果会怎样？ The result was in the hell the person's in person by the heaven is force-fed, is living the heaven life ; In the heaven the person no one feeds, the hunger is hard to take, is living the hell life. 结果是地狱中人被天堂中人喂饱了,过着天堂般的生活;天堂中人没有人喂食,饥饿难耐,过着地狱般的生活。 If in heaven person by starving to death, then in the hell the person meets days in heaven then to go to hell. 如果天堂中人会被饿死的话,那么地狱中人会过一段天堂中的日子然后下地狱。 After each other becomes different types of people, people's relations will become estranged slowly. 所以当彼此成为不同类型的人后,人们的关系就会慢慢地疏远起来。 The leaf glory had this type to feel more and more, sometimes, this was not yourself can decide that invisible strengths, are affecting you, is affecting your person and matter. 叶荣耀越来越有这一种感觉了,有时候,这不是你自己能决定的,有一种无形的力量,在影响着你,影响着你身边的人和事。 The autumn night is somewhat cool, the leaf glory stands in the balcony, the cold wind has blown, making glory recover from the disconsolateness. 秋天的夜晚有些凉,叶荣耀站在阳台上,冷风吹过,让叶荣耀从惆怅中回过神来。 The life is this, if unable to move forward , one will inevitably lag behind, why to think. 生活就是这样,不进则退,何必多想呢。 leaf Rongyao shakes the head to smile. 叶荣耀摇摇头笑笑。 Sudden light smoke fluttered in the leaf glory nose, during the breath, the leaf glory was startled slightly, this flavor he has not heard. 突然一股青烟儿飘到了叶荣耀的鼻子里,呼吸间,叶荣耀微微一怔,这种味道他从来没有闻过。 This is a light fragrance, the vague fragrant smoke, the leaf glory does not like smoking, repugnant smoke flavor, but this light fragrant light smoke does not make glory repugnant. 这是一种淡淡的香,若有若无的香烟味,叶荣耀不喜欢抽烟,讨厌烟的味道,可是这淡淡的香青烟却不怎么让叶荣耀讨厌。 „Hi!” “嗨!” A sound of pleasant to hear after behind transmitting of leaf glory. 一个好听的声音从叶荣耀的身后传来。 Turning the head that leaf Rongyao has doubts looks to behind, the expression on face framed immediately, his eyes saw that smoking person, or such balcony besides leaf glory, such a beautiful woman. 叶荣耀疑惑的转过头看向身后,脸上的表情立即定格住了,他一眼就看到那个抽烟的人,或者说,这样阳台除了叶荣耀外,就这么一个美丽的女人。 A powder purple sodposfj short shawl small coat, serves as contrast her excellent stature, matches yellow velvet simultaneous/uniform Xiqun again, pair of black tall Tongxue, the jet black hair has the natural fluctuating curve to build on the shoulder. 一袭粉紫色的sodposfj短披肩小外套,更加衬托出她绝佳的身材,再搭配一条嫩黄色天鹅绒齐膝裙,一双黑色的高筒靴,漆黑的头发有着自然的起伏弧度搭在肩上。 If not the left hand is clamping an ignition condition woman cigarette, the leaf glory thought that in night dim, this is absolute pretty scenery line. 如果不是左手夹着一个点燃状态的女士香烟的话,叶荣耀觉得在夜深朦胧中,这是绝对一道靓丽的风景线。 What a pity the woman of leaf glory to smoking has no favorable impression. 可惜叶荣耀对吸烟的女人没有什么好感。 Perhaps felt in the subconscious of leaf glory, the woman who can smoke, is not the good woman! 或许在叶荣耀的潜意识里觉得,会吸烟的女人,都不是什么好女人吧！ Before the rural area, basically could not see the woman who smoked, but these years, in rural area , some women started to smoke slowly. 以前在农村里,基本上看不到抽烟的女人,不过这些年,就是在农村,也慢慢地有一些女人开始抽烟了。 These women basically are the daytime and evening idle are all right to do, the woman who daily plays mahjong, this woman leaf glory does not like in any case. 这些女人基本上都是白天、晚上闲得没事干,天天打麻将的女人,反正这种女人叶荣耀不喜欢。 „Hehe, hasn't seen the beautiful woman to smoke?” “呵呵,没有见过美女抽烟吗？” Tang Mengjuan sees this man to stare at cigarette on the hand to look at present, smiles said. 唐梦娟见眼前这位男子盯着自己手上的香烟看,不由地笑笑地说。 The common man saw oneself are staring at the chest and cheek looked that this man actually stares at woman cigarette on the hand to look. 一般的男人见到自己都是盯着自己胸口和脸蛋看的,这位男人却盯着自己手上的女士香烟看。 This lets Tang Mengjuan to some oneself present man favorable impressions. 这让唐梦娟对自己眼前的男人有些好感。 At least, this is not „pig elder brother”. 最起码的,这不是位“猪哥”。 Red lip, cigarette and seduction, lonely, one type could not say and touches the airtight seduction to spread in the dim light of night. 红唇,香烟、诱惑,寂寞,一种说不出、摸不透的诱惑在夜色中蔓延。 However day natural in outstandingly beautiful wife to family/home, leaf glory resistivity strong, to was not charmed. 不过天天面对家里的绝色老婆,叶荣耀的抵抗力超强,到不怎么被迷住。 „Hello!” “你好！” leaf Rongyao takes back from the hand of female the line of sight, nods to say to her. 叶荣耀把视线从女子的手上收回,对她点点头说道。 „Can come one?” “要来一根吗？” Tang Mengjuan pulls out one box of cigarette to give the leaf glory to say from the pocket. 唐梦娟从口袋里掏出一盒香烟递给叶荣耀说道。 This cigarette box looks very small, only then lipstick size, this is the first time that the leaf glory saw this type of woman cigarette. 这香烟盒看起来很小,只有口红大小,这是叶荣耀第一次见到这种女士香烟。 The woman who after all in the rural area these smoke, must the cheap cigarette, be the same with the cigarette that the man smokes. 毕竟农村里那些抽烟的女人,都得便宜的香烟,跟男人抽的香烟是一样的。 Every so often, is the cigarette that must come from man there. 很多时候,是自己从男人那里要过来的香烟。 Like this type of woman cigarette, can see in the city, can draw up such good woman cigarette, basically is the wealthy woman. 像这种女士香烟,也就是在城里能见到,能抽上这么好的女士香烟的,基本上都是富裕的女人。 „Hobby that thanks, I have not smoked!” “谢谢,我没有抽烟的爱好！” leaf Rongyao shakes the head to say. 叶荣耀摇摇头说道。 Smoking injurious to health, therefore the leaf glory will not smoke, does not want to learn to smoke. 抽烟有害健康,所以叶荣耀不会去抽烟,也不想学会抽烟。 Small time, has pulled out actually secretly, was discovered by the father, after being beaten savagely one, the leaf glory did not touch the cigarette! 小的时候,倒是偷偷地抽过一回,被父亲发现了,被暴打一顿后,叶荣耀再也不碰香烟了！ Sees the cigarette, the leaf glory will remember the father to beat savagely own scene. 看到香烟,叶荣耀就会想起自己父亲暴打自己的情景。 Before educated the child, the child was not obedient, or the words of making the mistake matter, everyone was familiar with educate the child with the good stick, what carried out was „under good stick loyal son” ancient precept. 以前教育孩子,孩子不听话,或者做错事情的话,大家习惯用棒棍来教育孩子,奉行的是“棒棍下出孝子”的古训。 Now is not good, presently child treasure at home, hitting of where shed! 现在不行了,现在家里的孩子都宝贝的很,哪里舍的打啊！ Must open heart with the child, must talk to the child well, cannot use the violence in any case. 要跟孩子交心,要跟孩子好好谈,反正就是不能使用暴力。 Otherwise the children can consider your child abuse, this also violates the law. 不然孩子都可以告你虐待儿童,这也是犯法的。 „father hits the son, perfectly justified”, this ancient precept, has become the feudal dregs. “老子打儿子,天经地义”,这样的话古训,已成封建糟粕了。 The eyelash of beautiful woman flashes, the blurred look looks by the light smog to leaf glorious a while, without speech, but received the cigarette case. 美女的睫毛闪动,迷离的眼神透过薄薄的烟雾看向叶荣耀一会儿,没有说话,只是把烟盒收了回去。 Looks that the tall and slender cigarette in the appearance that on her ruddy lip sips slightly, the leaf glory somewhat sigh with emotion: „Sir/Minister beautiful woman, does to smoking!” 看着细长的香烟在她红润的嘴唇儿上微微一抿的样子,叶荣耀不由地有些感慨:“卿本佳人,奈何吸烟！” Tang Mengjuan arrives at the nearby in balcony, depends on the parapet, looks in the dim light of night with the leaf glory the busy scene. 唐梦娟走到阳台的边上,靠着栏杆,和叶荣耀一起看着夜色中繁忙的景象。 Even if the present is 8 : 00 pm many, the path in city, is busy. 哪怕现在是晚上 8 点多种,城市的道路,还是繁忙的很。 After all in the person regarding the metropolis, now is the start of nightlife. 毕竟对于都市里人来说,现在才是夜生活的开始。 „Your one person?” “你一个人？” leaf Rongyao looked to stand in own nearby beautiful woman asks. 叶荣耀看了看站在自己边上的美女问道。 „Un.” “嗯。” After the beautiful women looked at a leaf glory, complied with the sound , to continue to look outside scene. 美女看了一眼叶荣耀后,应了声,就继续看着外面的景象的。 The leaf glory can look that this beautiful woman is not quite happy. 叶荣耀可以看出来这位美女的心情不太好。 „Sad?” “心情不好？” leaf Rongyao looks at the beautiful woman to ask. 叶荣耀看着美女问道。 „Yes.” “是。” Tang Mengjuan nods to say. 唐梦娟点点头说道。 „Does a person leave home?” “一个人离家出走？” leaf Rongyao asked. 叶荣耀问道。 „Do you investigate me?” “你调查我？” Tang Mengjuan has turned the head to stare at the leaf glory to ask fiercely. 唐梦娟猛地转过头盯着叶荣耀问道。 „Beautiful woman, I do not know you, do I investigate you to do?” “美女,我都不认识你,我调查你干嘛啊？” leaf Rongyao has not thought that this beautiful woman's response so will be big, it seems like most likely (80%) left home. 叶荣耀没有想到这位美女的反应会这么大,看来八成是离家出走了。 How to see that this beautiful women had 26 and seven appearances, how also to play the game that left home! 怎么看这位美女都有二十六、七的样子了,怎么还玩离家出走的游戏啊！ Moreover such pretty woman, a person leaves home, is dangerous! 而且这么漂亮的女人,一个人离家出走,多么危险啊！ „How you know that I am leave home?” “那你怎么知道我是离家出走的？” Tang Mengjuan has doubts asks. 唐梦娟疑惑地问道。 After all what Tang Mengjuan can affirm a point is, oneself really do not know at present this man. 毕竟唐梦娟可以肯定一点的是,自己真的不认识眼前这位男子。 Moreover arrives at the balcony position to blow the cold wind, is the optional idea, can remove this man to wait for own possibility intentionally here. 而且走到阳台位置吹吹冷风,是自己随意的想法,可以排除这个男人故意在这里等自己的可能。 „Guesses.” “猜的。” leaf Rongyao smiles said. 叶荣耀笑笑地说道。 „Guesses?” “猜的？” Tang Mengjuan looks surprised the leaf glory said. 唐梦娟吃惊地看着叶荣耀说道。 This can guess, too fierce? 这都能猜出来,也太厉害的吧？ He told fortunes. 难道他是算命的。 „Often reads the news, woman who this leaves home, basically is sad, leaves home, in turn, this sad leaving behind female, very greatly possibly is the person of leaving home, I asked at will, never expected that you also really left home.” “经常看新闻,这离家出走的女人,基本上都是心情不好,才离家出走的,反过来,这心情不好的落单女子,很大可能就是离家出走的人,我随意一问,没有想到你还真是离家出走了。” leaf Rongyao smiles said. 叶荣耀笑笑地说道。 The leaf glory has not thought that such by chance, what this beautiful Nuzhen is leaves home. 叶荣耀也没有想到会这么碰巧,这位美女真的是离家出走。 „You are very interesting!” “你这个人很有意思！” Tang Mengjuan deeply looks that leaf glory said. 唐梦娟深深地看着叶荣耀一眼说道。 „Right? Did I hear me to be interesting for the first time?” “是吗？我还是第一次听人说我有意思？” leaf Rongyao smiles said. 叶荣耀笑笑地说道。 „Because you looked that my look with others looked my look is different.” “因为你看我眼神跟别人看我的眼神不一样。” Tang Mengjuan said. 唐梦娟说道。 „Differently what has?” “有什么不一样啊？” leaf Rongyao smiles said. 叶荣耀笑笑地说道。 „Other man always likes staring at me to look, or looks at me secretly, but after you only look at my one eyes, the vision putting aside, such man, I very for a long time had not met.” “别的男人总喜欢盯着我看,或者偷偷地看我,而你只看我一眼后,就把目光给移开了,这样的男人,我已经很久没有遇到了。” Tang Mengjuan said. 唐梦娟说道。 Because of the long attractiveness, where arrives at to bring to attention of man, suddenly meets one by the man of own charm attraction, Tang Mengjuan is felt very fresh. 因为长的漂亮,走到哪里都引起男人的瞩目,突然遇上一个不被自己魅力吸引的男人,唐梦娟觉得挺新鲜的。