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#1066: Is liberal to encourage with perfect ( 3 / 3 )

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Father's issue was good to reply, played the game of pack of cups to be happy, naturally was happy! Xixi hee hee smiles, nodded with father. 爸爸的这个问题太好回答了,玩叠杯子的游戏开不开心,当然开心啦！曦曦嘻嘻地笑着,跟爸爸点了点头。 „The father described an environment with you, was if gave you a room, for example we this bedroom, your alone play pack of cups in the room now, you thought happy, do our tonight's times play happily?” The Yang Yi's issue described very clearly. “那爸爸跟你描述一种环境,就是假如给你一个房间,比如咱们现在这个卧室,你一个人在房间里玩叠杯子,你觉得开心,还是咱们今晚时候玩得开心？”杨轶的问题描述得很清楚。 However, Xixi or the brain hole opens greatly, she crooked small head, asked curiously: „Does Xin'er play with me together?” 不过,曦曦还是脑洞大开,她歪了歪小脑袋,好奇地问道:“馨儿跟我一起玩吗？” „Does not have Xin'er, only then your alone.” Yang Yi shook the head. “没有馨儿,只有你自己一个人。”杨轶摇了摇头。 Xixi blinked, then shook the head quickly, the pouts small mouth said: „I do not want alone to play!” 曦曦眨了眨眼睛,很快便摇了摇头,嘟着小嘴巴说道:“我才不要一个人玩呢！” Xixi small time, truly is quite lonely, but since four years old, has the father to accompany at home, the father and mother will travel on official business will also lead her to go out to play together, but some little friends together will play in the kindergarten, were afterward many many good friend, this made her some not be familiar with lonelily! 曦曦小的时候,确实是比较孤单,但自从四岁以后,在家有爸爸陪,爸爸妈妈出差也会带她一起出去玩,而在幼儿园又有小伙伴们一起玩耍,后来又多了许多很好的朋友,这让她都有些不习惯孤单了！ Yang Yi mentioned this, but made a small contrast, has not planned to frighten Xixi, therefore saw only him to show a faint smile, then said: „Do you have to think that is tonight plays, you fold the cup to fold specially fiercely, then the father and mother, the younger brother you applaud, specially has the sense of achievement?” 杨轶提起这个,只是做一个小小的对比,并没有打算吓唬曦曦,所以只见他微微一笑,接着说道:“那你有没有觉得,就是今晚玩的时候,你叠杯子叠得特别厉害,然后爸爸妈妈,还有弟弟给你鼓掌的时候,特别有成就感？” Xixi associated to the feeling immediately, was in high spirits all of a sudden: „Oh, right, super happy!” 曦曦马上联想到了刚才的感觉,一下子又神采飞扬起来:“嗯嗯,对啊,超级开心的！” „Therefore, this is we diligently handles a matter, actually not only for oneself, the hope obtains the approvals of more person, others' praise, or encourages, to our each alone is a very strong power! After obtaining everybody's praise, you are happier, hopes can one do well?” Yang Yi has grasped the fist, said with Xixi. “所以,这就是我们努力地做一件事情,其实不仅仅是为了自己,还是希望得到更多人的认可的,别人的夸奖,或者鼓励,对我们每一个人来说都是一个很强的动力！是不是得到大家的赞扬之后,你就更加开心,更加希望自己能做得更好？”杨轶握了握拳头,跟曦曦说道。 Xixi nodded cleverly. 曦曦乖巧地点了点头。 „You thought that the father called you together, applauded to mother, or the younger brother applauded, are they happy?” Yang Yi then raised an issue. “你觉得,爸爸叫你一起,给妈妈鼓掌,或者给弟弟鼓掌的时候,她们开不开心？”杨轶接着又抛出了一个问题。 Xixi eye one bright, this topic, she was some words said that saw only her to grab father's hand joyfully, said: „Papa, let me tell you, I and you, the younger brother, after Mama applauded, Mama is willing to play pack of cups, then she did not know her also super fierce!” 曦曦眼睛一亮,这个话题,她可是有话说了,只见她欣喜地抓着爸爸的手,说道:“粑粑,我跟你说哦,我和你,还有弟弟,给麻麻鼓掌后,麻麻才愿意玩叠杯子,然后她都不知道她也超级厉害的呢！” Looks at the little girl joyful appearance, as if, Mo Fei can the merit of hobby Su Die Cup have her one to be the same. 瞧小姑娘欣喜的模样,似乎,墨菲能玩好速叠杯的功劳也有她一份一样。 Yang Yi had been amused by the little girl naive appearance, he laughed, extends the right hand to rub Xixi also to have some slightly moist hair, said: „Right, your encouragement is very important!” 杨轶被小姑娘天真的模样逗乐了,他哈哈一笑,伸出右手揉了揉曦曦还有一些微微潮湿的头发,说道:“对啊,你的鼓励很重要嘛！” „The younger brother, he also very much likes playing, then I with he raises up the thumb the time, he is also quite happy!” Xixi is gesticulating the small thumb with the father, hee hee smiles. “还有弟弟,他也很喜欢玩,然后我跟他竖起大拇指的时候,他也好开心啊！”曦曦跟爸爸比划着自己小小的大拇指,嘻嘻地笑着。 „Um, right, this is the father tonight wants with the first topic that you discussed that we must give up with others speak encouragement some words!” The Yang Yi gentle voice said that „you also saw, strength that encourages formidable? No matter others encourage you, you encourage others, such short a few words, a such simple hand signal......” “嗯,没错,这就是爸爸今晚想和你谈的第一个话题,我们不能舍不得跟别人说一些鼓励的话！”杨轶柔声说道,“你也看到了,鼓励的力量有多强大？不管是别人鼓励你,还是你鼓励别人,就这么短短的一句话,就这么简单的一个手势……” Yang Yi has raised up the thumb, has referred to the thumb with Xixi: „The matter that is very easy to achieve, can actually give others, or others can give us many joys, as well as better power.” 杨轶竖起了大拇指,跟曦曦指了指大拇指:“很容易做到的事情,却能给予别人,或者别人能给与我们更多的喜悦,以及更好的动力。” Although the father is smiling, but manner corrected, Xixi also felt, then steadily sees the father, was listening earnestly. 爸爸虽然在笑,但态度端正起来了,曦曦也感受到了,便目不转睛地看着爸爸,认真地听着。 „Do not despise this small encouragement, although such encouragement, is not the alone successful key, but this encouragement, can help the opposite party, handles well a matter!” Yang Yi said gently that „you think, tonight your is so happy, folds the cup to fold quick , if no encouragement of father, mother and younger brother, the mood is quite ordinary, possibly so isn't fierce?” “不要小看这小小的鼓励,虽然这样的鼓励,并不是一个人成功的关键,但这个鼓励,能够帮助对方,将一件事情做得更好！”杨轶轻轻地说道,“你想啊,今晚你心情这么好,叠杯子叠得又快又准,要是没有爸爸、妈妈、弟弟的鼓励,心情比较一般,是不是可能就没有这么厉害了？” Xixi makes an effort to nod, father's these analogies, are quite easy to understand. Until now, Xixi is listening, not too big burden, because she is also at the ignorant condition, does not know where these major principles should use. 曦曦用力地点了点头,爸爸的这些比喻,还是比较通俗易懂的。直到现在,曦曦听着,都没有太大的负担,因为她还处在懵懂的状态,不知道这些大道理应该用在哪里。 „Why does the father want to say this topic to you?” Yang Yi shows a faint smile, said that „because of this evening, the father meets you and Xin'er go home, you and Xin'er on the vehicle, did not say that you don't like Squad Leader looking after Little Branch?” “为什么爸爸要跟你说这个话题呢？”杨轶微微一笑,说道,“因为今天傍晚,爸爸接你和馨儿回家的时候,你和馨儿在车上,不是说你不喜欢班长照顾小丫吗？” Xixi saw the father to speak of this matter suddenly, realized that possibly did is not right, she somewhat anxiously has turned turning on the chair, the non- sentiment hope did not nod. 曦曦见爸爸忽然说到了这个事情,也意识到可能自己做得不太对,她有些紧张地在椅子上扭了扭,不情不愿地点了点头。 „Father thought that your such mentality is not quite possibly good, before handling a matter, we denied first others' ability, this to the opposite party, with giving us will bring the negative energy.” Yang Yi said with a smile, „father said like this that you were possibly unreadable, are we change a way to think, if we, when most started, did not view this issue with this unhappy mentality, such that but told the former father, went to say with Cao Ruolin, Squad Leader, I believe that you will certainly look after good Little Branch, person who you also very much had the compassion! Then, her mood becomes very well, will try also hard to look after Little Branch?” “爸爸是觉得,你这样的心态可能不太好,在做一件事情之前,我们先否认了别人的能力,这会给对方,跟给我们都带来负面的能量。”杨轶笑道,“爸爸这样说,你可能难以理解,就是我们换一种方式去想,假如我们在最开始的时候,不是以这种不开心的心态去看待这个问题,而是跟之前爸爸说的那样,去跟曹若琳说,班长,我相信你一定会照顾好小丫的,你也是很有爱心的人！那么,她心情变得很好,是不是也会努力地去照顾小丫呢？” Xixi does not depend on the place pouts small mouth, said: „But, I hope that Little Branch can come to our home to play!” 曦曦不依地嘟着小嘴巴,说道:“可是,我希望小丫能来我们家玩啊！” „This is the father tonight wants with the second topic that you spoke, we must have a pursue perfect heart, but we must achieve, was not perfect, but was perfect! Because in this world, is not all matters, can satisfy our wishes.” Yang Yi with tonight's matter example, „for example, tonight, you plays pack of cups, you thought that you folds the speed , compared with the father and mother, who folds quickly?” “这就是爸爸今晚想要跟你讲的第二个话题,我们要有一颗追求完美的心,但我们要做到的,不是完美,而是尽善尽美！因为这个世界上,并非所有的事情,都能满足我们自己的心愿。”杨轶又是拿今晚的事情来举例子,“比如,今晚,你玩叠杯子,你觉得自己叠得速度,跟爸爸妈妈比起来,谁叠得更快？” Was revealed the reality, Xixi thought that is very unhappy, her non- sentiment hope did not whisper: „Papa and Mama is quicker.” 被揭穿了现实,曦曦觉得很不开心,她不情不愿地嘀咕道:“粑粑和麻麻的更快。” „Yes, you cannot achieve well, but has not related! The father still thought that you display tonight very well, you are also very happy, we are very happy, because freely you, although cannot achieve well, but the father thought that you have done good, first day playing, can do such well, in the future certainly also will have a better progress! Thinks that your performance is worth praising and joyful, you said that is?” The Yang Yi gentle voice said. “是的,你没有能够做到最好,但没关系啊！爸爸依然觉得你今晚表现得很好,你也很开心,我们大家都很开心,因为尽管你虽然没有能够做到最好,但爸爸觉得,你已经做得非常棒了,才第一天玩,就能做得这么好,未来一定还会有更好的进步！这么一想,你的表现就很值得赞扬和喜悦,你说是不是？”杨轶柔声说道。 Xixi hear of fathers said these, thinks carefully, oneself truly display very well, no wonder the father and mother were so happy that was also happy, she cracks into a chuckle, said: „Right!” 曦曦听爸爸说了这些,仔细一想,自己确实表现得挺好的了,难怪爸爸和妈妈那么高兴,心情又好了起来,她嘻嘻一笑,说道:“对呀！” „Therefore, we want to achieve well, but sometimes, we cannot achieve well, this has not related, so long as we have made effort, obtained the progress, or obtained our stages to have the result that this is very good!” Yang Yi has raised up the thumb to Xixi. “所以说啊,我们想要做到最好,但有时候,我们并不能做到最好,这没有关系,只要我们付出了努力,得到了进步,或者得到了我们这个阶段应该有的成绩,这已经是非常好的了！”杨轶冲曦曦竖起了大拇指。 „Asked Little Branch the truth that came to our home to be a guest of also to be actually same, you were very good, in hoping Little Branch can come home, obtained very good attendance, this idea was very good, but other schoolmates also had such idea, the impossible each people able to satisfy. Therefore the teacher also considered that this issue, possibly this weekend, what Little Branch goes is the Squad Leader Cao Ruolin family|home, the next week, Little Branch will possibly come to our home, even if not come next week, its next next week may also come.” “请小丫来我们家做客的道理其实也一样,你很善良,希望小丫能来家里,得到很好的照顾,这个想法很好,但其他同学也有这样的想法,不可能每个人都能满足。所以老师也考虑到这个问题,可能这个周末,小丫去的是班长曹若琳的家,下一周,可能小丫就会来我们家,即便下周不来,它下下周也可能会来的。” „Teacher believes you very much, you have the compassion child very much, Little Branch whose home, no matter goes to play, it can certainly play very happily.” The Yang Yi gentle voice said that „, if the next week, Little Branch to our family|home, you can also very much warmly entertain it?” “老师很相信你们,你们都是很有爱心的孩子,小丫不管去谁的家玩,它一定都能玩得很开心。”杨轶柔声说道,“假如是下个星期来,小丫到我们家里来,你会不会也很热情地招待它？” „Naturally!” Xixi makes an effort to nod, enhances volume saying that „I must live in my room to Little Branch, this, Little Clever they will not frighten Little Branch!” “当然了！”曦曦用力地点头,提高音量说道,“我要给小丫住我的房间,这样,小乖它们就不会吓到小丫了！” „You look, although this weekend, Little Branch cannot go to our home, this is not considered as that most perfect, but if it will come in the future, you will be very still happy, is?” The Yang Yi gentle voice said. “你看,虽然这个周末,小丫没有能来到我们家,这不算是最完美的,但假如未来它来了,你依然会很开心,是不是？”杨轶柔声说道。 „Um!” Xixi this chapter of nod is quite quick, but, this chapter has not smiled, but sip purses the lips, attempts to accept. “嗯呢！”曦曦这回点头比较快,不过,这回没有笑,只是抿抿嘴,尝试着去接受。 „If, we should not be so low and deep, very much happily congratulates Cao Ruolin, encourages her, hopes that she looks after Little Branch, next time Little Branch to our family|home time, we come to look after good Little Branch again well, are you also same can be very happy?” Yang Yi smiles was saying. “那假如,我们不要那么低沉,就很高兴地去恭喜曹若琳,也鼓励她,希望她把小丫照顾好,下次小丫到我们家的时候,我们再来更好地照顾好小丫,你是不是也一样可以很开心？”杨轶微笑着说道。 „Actually, actually Squad Leader is very good, her Thursday time, Little Branch scratches the smelly time, did not fear that has bought then also many cleaning rags!” Xixi said finally just words, these discoveries hid in her at heart. “其实,其实班长还是很好的啦,她周四的时候,给小丫擦臭臭的时候,都不怕,然后还买了很多抹布呢！”曦曦终于说了一句公道话,原本,这些发现都藏在了她的心里。
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