Chapter 399 windowing theory 第399章开窗理论 „Which that is......?” “那个……是哪个？” Mei side subconscious feigning ignorance lets not hit one to Xiaoxia climate, pinched under Mei side the arm ruthlessly, hurts Mei side who looks fierce to hurry to apologize: 梅方下意识的装蒜让向晓霞顿时气不打一处来,狠狠地掐了下梅方的胳膊,疼得龇牙咧嘴的梅方赶紧道歉: „Good...... I to know, me to know your meaning.” “好了好了……我知道、我知道您的意思了。” Plum side is covering own arm, while puts in great inconvenience said anxiously, „, but we now were not the child......” 梅方一边捂着自己的胳膊,一边委屈巴巴道,“但我们现在又不是小孩子了……” Actually how his very curious mother in the probe through spoken language knows this secret, but does not investigate carefully this time at present. 其实他很好奇妈妈到底是怎么通过言语上的试探得知这个秘密的,但眼下也不是细究这个的时候。 „Is only being in love time does, currently also has in-” “是只是谈恋爱的时候才做的吗,还是现在还有在-” „?” “啊？” Mei side one then clutched his ear to Xiaoxia slightly hesitant quickly, „I know, your boy not for no reason and both people bid good-bye!” 梅方只是稍一犹豫向晓霞便以迅雷不及掩耳之势揪起了他的耳朵,“我就知道,你小子就不会平白无故和两个人都分手了！” „Yeah mother, leaves this, loving...... your son is the boss, wants the face......” “哎妈,别这样,疼疼疼……你儿子是老板,要点脸的……” „Is concerned about face? If you are really concerned about face, has not hung others unmarried girl not to let go from infancy to maturity.” “要脸？你要是真要脸,就不会从小到大一直吊着人家俩黄花闺女不撒手了。” Mei Fanghua the tremendous strength coaxed to make her loosen the hand to Xiaoxia, „do not think that mother does not know you that thoughts, the reason reason and has grows up with you, is together so many years, the affection is very no doubt deep, I know that you three are the relations of within you has me within me has you, but, this is not you delays others youth the reason.” 梅方花了九牛二虎之力才哄好向晓霞让她松开手,“别以为妈不知道伱那点心思,缘缘和有兮和你一起长大,一起相处这么多年,感情固然很深厚,我知道你们仨是你中有我我中有你的关系,但是,这也不是你耽误别人青春的理由。” „What is called to waste others' youth, are we striving for success to be good for the youth struggle together?” “什么叫做浪费别人的青春啊,我们一起在为了青春奋斗拼搏好不好？” „The matter mother in enterprise does not understand, does not want to manage, you are the partners, naturally is continues to cooperate ; However the matter emotionally, you cannot delay again like this.” “事业上的事情妈不懂,也不太想管,你们是合作伙伴,自然是继续合作下去;但是感情上的事情,你不能再这样耽搁下去了。” Urged Mei Fangdao to Xiaoxia, „reason reason and had is the excellent child, since previous time left, these days I also think was very long, I know that you now were the net worth over hundred million big bosses, the wing was hard, therefore started to study these bosses to start, thought that also had a big wife concubine to have no relations, was?” 向晓霞叮嘱梅方道,“缘缘和有兮都是顶好的孩子,自从上次离开后,这些日子我也想了很久,我知道你现在是身家过亿的大老板了,翅膀硬了,所以开始学那些老板开始,觉得同时有一个大老婆一个小老婆没什么关系,是不是？” „Will mother, why you think me?” “妈,您为什么会这么想我？” The plum side appears very suffering is very suddenly angry, „what is the big wife concubine? You said that whom the reason reason has to do to be big who does to be small? Un?” 梅方突然显得很委屈很愤怒,“什么叫大老婆小老婆？你说缘缘有兮谁做大谁做小？嗯？” „Is because the reason reason and has is equally important in my heart, therefore I am so puzzled!” “就是因为缘缘和有兮在我心中一样重要,所以我才这么纠结啊！” Mei side said accordingly, „I and reason reason in the same place, do not give up, she in childhood by much pain, is not good at exchanging, must depend on me ; I and have in the same place, I put not lower limb reason, the reason reason she is good-hearted, the thoughts are pure, give others, how I can guarantee that he won't bully the reason reason?” 梅方应声道,“我和缘缘在一起,就舍不得有兮,她小时候受过很多苦,也不擅长和人交流,还是得靠我;我和有兮在一起,我就放不下缘缘,缘缘她心地善良,心思单纯,交给别人,我怎么能保证他不会欺负缘缘？” „If mother you thought that can give up one, which you told me to abandon, if I felt reasonable and ensure listened to your arrangement.” “如果妈你觉得可以割舍一个的话,你告诉我抛弃哪一个,如果我觉得合理,保证听您的安排。” „......” “……” One was refuted to debate immediately dumbfounded by Mei side to Xiaoxia, quiet after long time, then said, „I cannot certainly give these two girls, but this society is impossible to permit your thoughts to become real, they will receive a lot of grievance when the time comes.” 向晓霞被梅方一顿驳斥辩得顿时哑口无言,沉寂了半晌之后又接着道,“我当然也割舍不下这俩姑娘,但这个社会不可能允许你那种心思成真的,她们俩到时候会受很多委屈。” „Let alone, even if my family agreed how reason reason does have the parents of family/home to confess? Their family/home may be such a treasure daughter, why can share a husband with others? Let alone our Mei was honest for generations, did not ask the prosperous development but to strive for having a clear conscience, cannot start to your generation changes.” “更何况,就算我家同意,缘缘家有兮家的父母要怎么交代？他们家可都是这么一个宝贝女儿,凭什么要跟别人共享一个丈夫？更何况我们老梅家世世代代清清白白做人,不求兴旺发达但求问心无愧,不能到你这代就开始变了。” To Xiaoxia scold and education, sincerely and Mei side said one pile, Mei side has understood mother now regarding three people of good actual standpoints. 向晓霞连骂带教育,语重心长地和梅方说了一堆,梅方现在已经明白妈妈对于三人行的实际立场了。 She same holds certainly a bowl of water steady with oneself in the sentiment, because summer Yuan and forest have are she are seeing the child of growing up since childhood, her meaning to both not being partial, who will therefore not encourage Mei side and walks in the same place. 于情她当然和自己一样一碗水端平,因为夏缘和林有兮都是她从小看着长大的孩子,她对两者并无偏爱之意,所以不会鼓励梅方和谁走在一起。 Before Mei side has worried mother carried the water is not uneven, after all children small time, she truly must be partial to have some, but looks like does not have this to hold to read now. 之前梅方一直担心妈妈端水不平,毕竟孩子们小的时候,她确实是要更偏爱有兮一些,但现在看来是没有这层执念。 However in reason the words, she does not support the plum side also to have two people with summer Yuanlin in the same place, to Xiaoxia's thought concept traditional conservative, even if to the advantageous aspect, she will not stand in son's standpoint completely considered for him. 但是于理的话,她并不支持梅方同时和夏缘林有兮两个人在一起,向晓霞的思维观念传统保守,哪怕是对自家有利的局面,她也不会完全站在儿子的立场为他考虑。 Because summer Yuan and forest have are also her one's favorites, she cannot look at these two girls by such grievance. 因为夏缘和林有兮也都是她的心头肉,她不能看着这俩丫头受这样的委屈。 But this is also mother to Xiaoxia's style...... 但这也是妈妈向晓霞的风格啊…… „In brief, among you this chaotic relations, mother hopes that you can in a year spend the time disposal to finish this year, which mothers no matter you choose to support you, another I will recognize am the daughter, like this everyone family member, but the status was different.” “总而言之,你们之间这个混乱的关系,妈妈希望你能在今年一年里花时间处理结束掉,不管你选择哪一个妈都支持你,另一个我都会认了作干女儿,这样大家就还是家人,但是身份就不一样了。” Mei side knows that mother has to the reason reason is a good intention, therefore could not quarrel with her, came out after the kitchen, Mei side and is playing reason reason to have together meets face to face. 梅方知道妈妈对缘缘有兮是一片好心,所以也和她吵不起架,从厨房出来后,梅方和正一起玩着梅雅的缘缘有兮打了个照面。 The summer reason also was very serious on the expression, saw that plum side appearance is a face was worried, when Mei side sits by the summer reason, summer Yuancou inquired in a low voice to Mei side the ear: 夏缘本来就表情也很沉重,见到梅方这副模样更是一脸担心,等梅方坐在夏缘旁边,夏缘凑向梅方耳边低声问询道: „Quarrelled?” “吵架啦？” Mei side shakes the head with a smile, „is all right, does not need too to be worried, was used to it......” 梅方笑着摇摇头,“没事,不用太担心,习惯了……” „Blames me not being good, blaming me to say inadvertently.” “都怪我不好,怪我说漏嘴。” summer Yuan said in a low voice, „I chatted a moment ago not careful presses my hair speaking of your morning association/will, at that time the complexion changed to mother.” 夏缘低声道,“我刚才拉家常的时候不小心说到你早上总会压到我头发,向妈妈当时脸色就变了。” She somewhat inquired Mei side suffering, „aunt felt me to lack self-respect, before the wedding rested with you in the same place?” 她有些委屈地询问梅方,“阿姨是不是觉得我不自爱,婚前就和你睡在一起了？” „In this, the key point in...... does not consider as finished with emphasis, first leaves is too worried about this, was together normally is good.” “重点不在这个,重点在……算了,先别太担心这个,正常相处就好了。” The forest has in the one side looks that summer Yuan and Mei side droop a face, complexion usual she seems to be thinking deeply about anything. 林有兮在一旁看着夏缘和梅方耷拉着个脸,面色如常的她似乎在思索着什么。 Because all kinds of bad concern worrying matter exists, is also very difficult to be good to Xiaoxia today's mood, summer Yuan, Mei side, Yager bosom the concern, the time atmosphere of eating meal is somewhat sad, not harmony happiness like the past every year, only then the forest has and Mei benefit for the army two people chats occasionally, this makes the atmosphere slightly moderate. 因为各种各样的糟心事烦心事存在,向晓霞今天的心情也很难好起来,夏缘、梅方、梅雅各怀心事,吃饭的时候气氛有些沉闷,并不像过去每年那样其乐融融,只有林有兮和梅利军两人偶尔拉拉家常,这才稍微让气氛变得缓和一些。 After finishing eating the food , the plum side proposed that must have with summer Yuanlin takes a stroll together, Mei side on the road mother with the content that chatted informed summer Yuan and forest overall has. 吃完饭后梅方主动提出要和夏缘林有兮一起出去散散步,在路上梅方就把和妈妈聊天的内容全盘告知了夏缘和林有兮。 „Really...... to mother or mother.” “果然……向妈妈还是妈妈呢。” After summer Yuan listens to Mei side the indication, instead thought that „originally she felt relaxed Albanian is unfair to us, therefore wants Albanian single-mindedly, loves a person.” 夏缘听完梅方的表述后反而觉得轻松了许多,“原来她是觉得阿方对不起我们,所以要阿方专一点,去爱一个人。” The forest has strokes gently the chin to ponder over saying that „that Albanian can choose the reason reason, the daughter who I am our mother is also good.” 林有兮摩挲着下巴思忖道,“那阿方可以选缘缘,我就做咱妈的干女儿也不错。” „That how line! You became my mother's daughter, our relations may not be justifiable.” “那怎么行！你成了我妈的女儿,我们俩的关系可就名不正言不顺了。” „This is also mother her original plan.” “这也是妈她本来的计划。” The forest has reminds Mei side, „, so long as you determined, another can only be the righteousness younger sister's same relations, this shackles will make you have no way to another person to act. If we want to depend upon to tie for a year to leave one year of way to take turns to be the couple, will then bring very big resistance.” 林有兮提醒梅方,“只要你确定其中一个,另一个就只能是义妹一样的关系,这个枷锁就会让你没法对另一个人出手。如果我们想要依靠结一年离一年的方式轮换做夫妻,那么就会带来很大的阻力。” „Calculated this to the mothers! I have not thought that...... was this...... had became the elder sister, Albanian wants to marry her again, having a child, was accepted by everyone very much difficultly......” “向妈妈都算到这一层了吗！我都没想到……原来是这样……有兮成了姐姐,阿方再想和她结婚,生孩子,就是很难被所有人接受的了……” summer Yuanwu the head worried say/way, what to do „that may...... we, or did the simple truth tell to the aunt? With words that she considers honestly, perhaps instead can gain her understanding-” 夏缘捂着脑袋苦恼道,“那可怎么办……我们要不干脆实话告诉向阿姨得了？和她坦诚相告的话,说不定反而可以得到她的理解-” „That is not definitely good, now I was almost laid cards on the table with her completely, she is not willing this.” Mei side shakes the head with the wives sits together on the dam looks at the setting sun, „my mother was the moral standard was too high, otherwise where had mother to be able not to like the son leading two wives to come back?” “那肯定不行,现在我都几乎是完全和她摊牌了,她还是不愿意这样做。”梅方摇摇头和老婆们一起坐在坝上看夕阳,“我妈就是道德水平太高了,不然哪有妈妈会不喜欢儿子带两个老婆回来的？” „Mother is not the moral standard is high she is the apologist of feudal ethics and rites, daily holds these traditional ideas to be chatty, is not willing to accept the present age the new concept.” “妈才不是道德水平高她就是封建礼教的卫道士,天天抱着那些传统观念叽叽歪歪,一点也不肯接受当代的新型观念。” Suddenly presents in Mei side behind voice has a scare three people. 突然出现在梅方身后的声音把三人都吓了一跳。 Sees only the plum stands in the Elder Brother side standard behind, flings the stone to throw away carelessly toward Heba. 只见梅雅正站在哥哥梅方的身后,甩着石头往河坝上打水漂。 „I want 2 sisters-in-law, I want the sister-in-law from infancy to maturity, I do not want what elder sister.” “我就想要二个嫂子,我从小到大就是想要嫂子,我才不要什么姐姐。” „Xiaoya, when do you come?” “小雅,你是什么时候来的？” „You said to take a walk I secretly with.” “你们说出来散步我就偷偷跟过来了。” Sits in the shoulder of Elder Brother side, „actually wanted me saying that the brother and reason reason elder sister had the elder sister non- bow tie marriage certificate to be good, do not manage the elder to agree, so long as you can't unscramble an egg, where had does not want the grandson grandchild?” 梅雅坐在哥哥梅方的肩头,“其实要我说,老哥和缘缘姐有兮姐不领结婚证就行了,不要管长辈同不同意,只要生米煮成熟饭了,哪有不要孙子外孙的？” „Your daughter...... are many on your wicked scheme.” “你丫头……就你鬼主意多。” The plum side shut out complained a younger sister, younger sister, when plum side most life intersection have in participation, the Elder Brother three people of good thoughts had also been seen through by her, but also makes the excellent secondary attack coordination once for a while, Mei side is completely when the person on one's own side regards. 梅方嫌弃般吐槽了一下妹妹,妹妹梅雅在梅方大多数人生十字路口的时候都有在参与其中,哥哥三人行的念头也早就被她识破,还时不时打出绝妙的助攻配合,梅方完全是当自己人看待的。 „Does this, although can become, but will make to be honest very stiffly with elder's relations, this is not our desired aspects.” “这样做虽然能成,但是说实话和长辈的关系会闹得很僵,这不是我们希望出现的局面。” Mei side said in a soft voice, „we not only take three people in the same place, but must obtain elders' blessing, this is the most difficult point.” 梅方轻声道,“我们不仅仅要三人在一起,还要获得长辈们的祝福,这才是最难的点。” „Elder Brother elder sisters wanted too, therefore did not meet happily.” Slightly looks at the setting sun slightly. “哥哥姐姐们想要太多了,所以才会不幸福。”梅雅略略略看夕阳。 At this time the forest has is depending on Mei side the shoulder to think deeply about anything, after listening to everyone's speech, she raises the head to speak: 此时林有兮正靠着梅方的肩头思索着什么,听完大家的发言后,她昂起脑袋说话道: „Actually about this matter, I some had also sentenced in advance...... at this time, I felt that we can use for reference ‚windowing theory’.” “其实关于这件事,我也早就有些预判了……这个时候,我感觉我们可以借鉴一下‘开窗理论’。” „Windowing theory?” “开窗理论？” „Noted author rapid Costa Rican Mr.'s husband has one set of very famous excuse, in other words the person in our country likes very much compromise, if you want to open a window, everyone does not agree inevitably. But if you said that must raise the ceiling, they will agree that you opened a window.” “知名作家迅哥先生先生有一套很著名的说辞,就是说咱们国家的人很喜欢折中,如果你想要开窗,大家必然是都不同意的。但如果你说要把天花板掀了,他们就会同意你开窗了。” „Your meaning is-” “你的意思是-” The forest has rests one's chin in one's hands the smile saying that „our mother's idea has based on Albanian some to elect, to have the initiative, can select in a wife's foundation to judge.” 林有兮托着腮微笑道,“咱妈的想法一直是基于阿方有的选,掌握主动权,可以挑一个老婆的基础上判断的。” „But if, the actual situation did change?” “但如果,实际情况发生变化了的话呢？” „Does actual situation change?” summer Yuan opened the eye, „I do not understand very much.” “实际情况发生变化？”夏缘睁大了眼睛,“我不是很懂。” The forest has says with a smile slightly „in other words, so long as we make Albanian simply not result in elect, loses the initiative, turns into from head to tail single dog one, will our mother perhaps have the compromise the thought?” 林有兮微微笑道“也就是说,只要我们让阿方根本没得选,丧失主动权,变成彻头彻尾的单身狗一条,咱妈说不定就会产生妥协的念头了呢？” Thank has the new hegemon today, later renewed a chapter of reason to decide the side at the suggestion of hegemon. 感谢今天有新盟主,待会儿在盟主的建议下更新一章缘定方兮。 ( This chapter ends) (本章完)