Chen Daqiang becomes a soldier for more than five years to come back to visit relatives for the first time, but also without chatted daily family activity anything with enough time, mother on urgently was saying that must ask the matchmaker to introduce the object to him. 陈达强当兵五年多第一次回来探亲,还没来得及聊点家常什么的,母亲就急着说要给他请媒人介绍对象了。 Chen Daqiang while knowing whether to laugh or cry, understands mother's approach. 陈达强在哭笑不得的同时,也非常理解母亲的做法。 After all soldier community looks for the difficulty of object originally high, Chen Da builds up strength is the border guard, although, accompanies the armed forces, leave, medical service and other treatment to be better much than the ordinary soldier in the wages and housing, but actually the border guard looks for the partner more difficult than the ordinary soldier. 毕竟军人这个群体找对象的难度原本就高,陈达强身为边防军人,虽然在工资、住房、随军、休假、医疗等待遇方面比普通军人要好不少,但其实边防军人找对象比普通军人还要难。 The words of concrete study, have the following several reasons probably: 具体分析的话,大概有以下几个原因: First, condition is extremely difficult. 一、条件太过艰苦。 Environment that the border guard guards, basically is the unvisited places, often takes the mountain as the partner, the condition compared with the ordinary soldier, is really much more difficult. 边防军人驻守的环境,基本都是人迹罕至之地,常以大山为伴,条件跟普通军人相比,真的要艰苦得多。 Second, couple gathers little leaves many. 二、夫妻聚少离多。 If the lover of border guard cannot achieve the accompanying the armed forces condition, every year can only be able to meet when temporary the team and leave, such day was too unendurable regarding these military spouses. 边防军人的爱人如果达不到随军条件,每年只能在临时来队、休假时才能相见,这样的日子对于这些军嫂来说真的太难熬了。 Third, woman must bear the heavy burden alone. 三、女人要独挑重担。 Married the border guard, means that must select to take care of both old people, to train the child alone and other heavy burdens in aspects, this also is really not the common woman can withstand. 嫁给了边防军人,就意味着要独挑照顾双方老人、培养孩子等各方面的重担,这还真不是一般女人能够承受得了的。 Even did not say exaggeratingly, if not has the special sentiment to the soldier, can understand that the border guard great protecting country mission, that has no woman to want this life. 甚至不夸张的说,如果不是对军人有着特殊感情,能够理解边防军人伟大的护国使命,那没有哪个女人愿意过这种生活的。 Therefore, each military spouse, is worth admiring. 所以,每一个军嫂,都值得敬佩。 Fourth, changed/easy Liu is wounded and sick. 四、易留伤病。 Especially guards in the border guard of several kilometers plateau, because of long-term oxygen deficit and other reasons, is easy to stay behind wounded and sick, affects the life. 特别是驻守在几千米高原的边防军人,因长期缺氧等原因,容易留下伤病,影响一生。 Fifth, risk is big. 五、危险性大。 The border guard, guarding in the international boundary, these places is mostly intriguing, the risk is quite big, has the conflict between countries, but also like Yunnan province Guangxi province type with the golden triangle area neighboring border, bumps into the probability of drug dealer is not low. 边防军人,大多驻守在国界线,那些地方错综复杂,危险性比较大,有国与国之间的冲突,还有如滇省桂省这种与金三角地区相邻的边境,碰到毒贩的概率也不低。 The above several reasons, causing the border guard to look for the difficulty of object, is very big. 正是以上的几个原因,导致边防军人找对象的难度,还是非常大的。 Therefore Chen Daqiang understands mother's idea. 所以陈达强非常理解母亲的想法。 After Ms. Chen the acting as a matchmaker personal history of Grandmaster river introduced one, then domineering saying: „You listened in any case to me, while this leave, first wedding managing, so as to avoid you returned to the army, does not know that needed many years to come back.” 陈母把江大师的做媒履历介绍了一遍后,便强势的说道:“反正你给我听好了,趁着这次休假,先把婚事给办了,免得你回到部队,又不知道要多少年才回来。” Chen Daqiang cannot help but ridicules saying: „Mother , several years will not have come back to have the reason before, in the future I will take false as far as possible every year a time.” 陈达强不由得讪笑道:“妈,不会的,之前几年没回来是有原因的,往后我尽量每年都休一次假。” Ms. Chen said: „Even if later you are on leave every year one time, this time you must listen to my first managing the wedding, this matter is sooner rather than later.” 陈母道:“就算以后每年你都休假一次,这次你也得听我的先把婚事给办了,这种事情宜早不宜迟。” Chen Daqiang said: „Mother, I can listen to your first being on intimate terms, if appropriate, I do not mind first marry, but this matter cannot reluctantly, must look at the fate.” 陈达强道:“妈,我可以听你的先相亲,如果合适的话,我也不介意先结婚,但这种事情不能勉强,还是得看缘分。” Ms. Chen hears word said with a smile: „So long as you are willing to be on intimate terms on the line, I first give your father to telephone, making him come back to discuss this matter.” 陈母闻言笑道:“只要你肯相亲就行,我先给你爸打电话,让他回来商量一下这事。” Chen Daqiang helpless smiles, but regarding forthcoming being on intimate terms, he also very anticipated that after all is twenty years old of youth young fellow in full vigour, must say that does not think the woman, that is not possible. 陈达强无奈的一笑,不过对于即将到来的相亲,他也挺期待的,毕竟是二十几岁精力旺盛的青年小伙,要说不想女人,那是不可能的。 Does not know that matchmaker Grandmaster really is so mysterious, can in such a short time help him look for the satisfied object? 就是不知道,那位媒人大师是不是真的有那么神奇,能不能在这么短的时间内帮他物色到满意的对象？ ...... …… In Jiang Feng this „uncanny prediction Grandmaster” under the help, the artificial arson tuart of Minghu Hotel announced in 24 hours was broken, the speed quick makes the innumerable people applaud. 在江枫这个“神算大师”的帮助下,明湖大酒店的人为纵火桉在24小时内就宣告被破了,速度之快让无数民众为之叫好。 Although the fire was suppressed promptly, but some Minghu Hotel many places were burnt down. 虽然火灾被及时扑灭,但明湖大酒店还是有很多地方被烧毁。 Minghu Hotel this four-star hotel has a about 20 years of history, actually the decor of hotel had somewhat fallen behind compared with these emerging hotels, is only its position excellent, therefore these years the business has been good. 明湖大酒店这家四星级酒店已经拥有了将近二十年的历史,其实酒店的装修风格比起那些新兴的酒店已经有些落后了,只是它的位置绝佳,所以这些年来生意一直不错。 Since Yao has taken over the hotel, she wants to put up the cash to repair more than once, but had not set firm resolve, the expenditure that after all repairs is not a small number, during addition repairs, cannot do business, this loss money. 自从苏瑶接手酒店以来,她不止一次想砸钱重新装修了,只是一直没有下定决心,毕竟重新装修的花费可不是一笔小数目,再加上重新装修期间又不能做生意,这又得损失一大笔钱。 Yao's family property is not thick , without the too big capital to toss about, therefore has not been determined to go to repair. 苏瑶本身的家底并不厚,没有太大资本去折腾,所以才迟迟没有下定决心去重新装修。 Now, this sudden fire, finally made the decision for Yao. 如今,这突如其来的一场火灾,终于替苏瑶做出了决定。 Now she does not want to repair even is not good! 现在她就算不想重新装修也不行了！ Naturally, if Yao wants to save money, can only repair by the place that the fire burns down, other not by the place that the fire involves, can maintain the original condition, this can save a lot of repair money. 当然,如果苏瑶想省钱的话,可以只装修被火灾烧毁的地方,其他没有被火灾涉及的地方,可以维持原状,这样可以省下不少装修钱。 However, Yao vision may not have such short shallow, she planned that while this opportunity, puts up the cash to repair the entire hotel directly. 不过,苏瑶目光可没有这么短浅,她打算趁这个机会,直接砸钱把整个酒店重新装修。 Like this expenditure was greatly big, but can keep up with the development of time at least, must profit to outweigh the shortcoming. 这样花费大是大了点,但起码能跟上时代的发展,总得来得利大于弊。 After thinking through, Yao then puts out the cell phone, the simultaneous/uniform beautiful magnificent calls the rich woman, this is relates a very good rich woman with her, is the boss in US China Decoration Company. 想通了之后,苏瑶便拿出手机,给富婆齐美华打了个电话,这是跟她关系非常好的一个富婆,同时也是美华装修公司的老板。 The telephone connection, the simultaneous/uniform beautiful magnificent then asked directly: „Su did, the matter of your hotel process? Caught the culprit behind the screen?” 电话接通,齐美华便直接问道:“苏总,你酒店的事处理得怎么样了？抓到幕后元凶了吗？” After the news that before the hotel was on fire travelled, Yao received the regards call that several rich woman managers have made, the simultaneous/uniform beautiful magnificent was one of them. 之前酒店起火的消息传开后,苏瑶就接到过几位富婆老总打来的问候电话,齐美华便是其中之一。 Yao said: „Thanks simultaneous/uniform to care, the culprit behind the screen police catch, sentencing as well as compensates him cannot run away, I call you now, wants with you to discuss matter that the hotel repairs.” 苏瑶道:“谢谢齐总关心,幕后元凶警方已经抓到了,判刑以及赔偿他是跑不掉的,我现在给你打电话,是想跟你商量一下酒店重新装修的事。” Uneven beautiful magnificence say/way: „Ok, you come our company, we see the face-to-face talk!” 齐美华道:“行,那你来我公司,咱们见面谈吧！” Yao said: „Good, a meeting!” 苏瑶道:“好的,一会见！” „A meeting!” “一会见！” ...... …… Guizhou province provincial capital. 黔省省城。 Li Shuixiu after Gui Sheng, focused in her day material shop. 李水秀从桂省回来后,就把全部心思放在了她的日料店上。 Day material shop that wants one to make money truly, does not put up the cash to open absolutely blindly the shop on the line, must first conduct the marketing research, understanding local competition, the potential customer community and market demand. 想要开一家真正赚钱的日料店,绝对不是盲目砸钱把店开起来就行,首先要进行市场研究,了解当地的竞争情况、潜在顾客群体和市场需求。 Then according to marketing research result formulation business plan, including localization, product strategy, target market and price decision. 然后再根据市场研究结果制定商业计划,包括定位、产品策略、目标市场、定价策略等。 Meanwhile, chooses a suitable shop front to be important to day Material Shop. 同时,选择一个适合的店面对日料店来说是至关重要的。 Although this is the first time that Li Shuixiu opened a shop to do business, but she also understood that( these two characters cannot be linked to each other) current capacity, visibility, peripheral competition, rent cost and other factors locate the position of shop front. 虽然这是李水秀第一次开店做生意,但她也懂得从人(这两个字不能连在一起)流量、可见性、周边竞争、租金成本等因素来确定店面的位置。 After choosing the shop front, but must handle food sanitation permission, business license and registration of trademark and other documents. 选好店面后,还要办理食品卫生许可、营业执照、商标注册等证件。 Then must design a day material menu that attracts the customer, established the reliable supply chain, established the cooperation with the supplier and ensure the stability supply and quality of food were controllable. 接着要设计一个吸引顾客的日料菜单,建立可靠的供应链,与供应商建立合作关系,确保食材的稳定供应和质量可控。 Then according to the style and localization of day Material Shop conducts the house decoration, purchases the necessary equipment and kitchen utensil, such as stove, cooking utensils, cutting tool, refrigerator. 然后根据日料店的风格和定位进行室内装修,购买必要的设备和厨房用具,如炉灶、炊具、刀具、冰箱等。 Is the recruitment right staff, including chefs, service people and other necessary positions. Provides necessary training for the staff and ensure they understand the menu, the sanitation standard and service process. 还有就是招聘合适的员工,包括厨师、服务员和其他必要的职位。为员工提供必要的培训,确保他们了解菜单、卫生标准和服务流程。 If necessary, but must formulate the marketing strategy, uses various channel publicity day material shops, such as social media, advertisement and reputation marketing. 有必要的话,还要制定营销策略,利用各种渠道宣传日料店,如社交媒体、广告、口碑营销等。 In brief, wants to grow out of nothing opened one day material shop, matter that needs to handle really many, in any case Li Shuixiu after Gui Sheng, was busy at the foot not moistening. 总之,想要从无到有的开一家日料店,需要做的事情真的很多,反正李水秀从桂省回来之后,就忙得脚不沾地。 However, is busy at turning over to busily, in Li Shuixiu heart is substantial, with compared with the Japanese courtyard housewife, she seems more satisfied regarding the present life. 不过,忙归忙,李水秀心中却非常充实,与在日本当家庭主妇相比,她对于现在的生活显得更加满意。 ...... …… Has saying that is the parents, when looks for the partner for the children, the efficiency is very high. 不得不说,做父母的在为儿女找对象的时候,效率是非常高的。 Chen Daqiang the second day of going home, arrived at the happy matrimonial agency in provincial capital by the parental belt/bring, saw that was passed on wonderful Grandmaster river. 陈达强在回家的第二天,就被父母带到省城的幸福婚介所,见到了那个被传得神乎其神的江大师。 both sides after mutual greeting, Ms. Chen then said with a smile: „Grandmaster river, our native place is Qingshan Town, when I was young, our Qingshan Town with your Qinghe Town or whole family!” 双方在互相打过招呼后,陈母便笑着说道:“江大师,我们老家是青山镇的,在我小的时候,咱们青山镇跟你们青河镇还是一家人呢！” Jiang Feng naturally knows this phase of history. 江枫自然知道这段历史。 Their Qinghe Town in Republic of China belongs to the next door Tanjiang area, after the liberation, is Area 13, was divided green mountain People's commune by August 1958, then in June 61 change the Tanjiang area, in September 84 was changed to is Qingshan Township, until January 86, the splitting was the Qinghe township, in August 93 changed to Qinghe Town continuously since. 他们青河镇在民国的时候是属于隔壁潭江区的,解放后属第13区,到1958年8月被划分到青山公社,然后61年6月改属潭江区,84年9月又被改为属青山乡,直到86年1月,才分设为青河乡,93年8月改为青河镇一直至今。 Therefore Ms. Chen said that she is young the time Qingshan Town with Qinghe Town is a whole family, but also has not really spoken incorrectly. 所以陈母说她小的时候青山镇跟青河镇是一家人,还真没说错。 This origin, causing Qinghe Town still not to have own high school. 正是这段渊源,导致青河镇至今都没有自己的高中。 Being away from home, fellow villager status pulls closer one of the relations quickest methods without doubt, both sides were chatting for about ten minutes, starts to enter the subject. 出门在外,同乡这个身份无疑是拉近关系的最快手段之一,双方在闲聊了将近十分钟,才开始进入主题。 Ms. Chen opens the mouth saying: „ Grandmaster river, after my son high school graduates, chooses to become a soldier, result brat goes is more than five years, was on leave to visit relatives until yesterday. 陈母开口道:“江大师,我儿子高中毕业后选择去当兵,结果这臭小子一去就是五年多,直到昨天才休假回来探亲。 Because he is a border guard, guards in the unvisited remote mountain for a long time, absolutely does not have the opportunity to look for the partner, therefore I want to take advantage that his leave, ask Grandmaster river you to help him look for an object, making him be insufficient to keep bach. ” 因为他是一名边防军人,长期在人迹罕至的深山里驻守,根本就没有机会去找对象,所以我就想趁他这次休假,来请江大师您帮他物色个对象,让他不至于一直打光棍。” Jiang Feng has profound respect, looked that said to Chen Daqiang: „ Originally Brother Chen is a border guard, you guard the national boundary in the bad environment, the security border area, fights with all aggressions and provocations and ensure the completeness of national territory, is really great. 江枫肃然起敬,看向陈达强道:“原来陈兄弟是一名边防军人啊,你们在恶劣的环境中严守国界,保卫边疆,同一切侵略、挑衅行为作斗争,确保国家领土的完整,真的是好样的。 My other help, but asked Brother Chen you to be able rest assured that I did certainly utmost to help you look for an outstanding object, lets you while protecting our homes and defending our country, does not have any extra worries. ” 我别的帮不上忙,但请陈兄弟你放心,我一定竭尽全力帮你物色个优秀的对象,让你在保家卫国的同时,没有任何后顾之忧。” Hears the praise of Jiang Feng, Mr. Chen Ms. Chen showed the happy smile, their sons are not the materials of studying, the result is from infancy to maturity not much, making them very not have the face before the friends and relatives. 听到江枫的夸赞,陈父陈母都露出了开心的笑容,他们这个儿子不是读书的料,从小到大成绩都不咋地,让他们在亲戚朋友面前挺没脸的。 However the east side not bright west side is bright, since the son becomes a soldier, when they parents started to feel proud and elated, after all a person enlisted in the military entire family to be honorable! 但是东边不亮西边亮,自从儿子成为一名军人之后,他们当父母的就开始扬眉吐气了,毕竟一人参军全家光荣嘛！ Especially the son also becomes a border guard in security border area, when this lets Mr. Chen Ms. Chen for the son was worried, cannot bear is proud. 尤其是儿子还成为了一名保卫边疆的边防军人,这让陈父陈母在为儿子担心之余,又忍不住为之自豪。 Now, in what situation, spoke of their sons, welcomed was the praise. 现在,无论是在什么场合,提起他们这个儿子,迎来的都是一片赞誉。 Chen Daqiang heard Jiang Feng saying that in the heart was also happy: „Thanks the praise, security border area that is the responsibility of our border guard.” 陈达强听到江枫这么说,心中也非常高兴:“谢谢夸奖,保卫边疆那是我们边防军人的职责。” Jiang Feng takes the written records on table to give Chen Daqiang, said: „Brother Chen, I know the vacation that your soldiers are not many, I do not waste your valuable time, you write down the name and record of one's horoscope, I help you calculate immediately, where has a look at your marriage affinity?” 江枫拿起桌上的纸笔递给陈达强,说道:“陈兄弟,我知道你们军人的假期不多,我也不浪费你的宝贵时间,你把姓名与生辰八字写下来,我立刻帮你推算一番,看看你的姻缘到底在哪里？” Mr. Chen Ms. Chen paid attention to Grandmaster river to have more than one year, was naturally clear the marriage affinity calculation method that his fairy measured not, heard him to say must help calculate immediately, two people were in the eye one bright, urged hastily the son wrote his name and record of one's horoscope. 陈父陈母关注江大师已经有一年多了,自然清楚他那神鬼莫测的姻缘推算手段,听到他说要立刻帮忙推算,两人都是眼中一亮,连忙催促儿子写他的姓名与生辰八字。 Chen Daqiang is also of clear the ability Chujiang Grandmaster, then fast writes down own name and record of one's horoscope, then handed over the written records. 陈达强也清楚江大师的这个能力,便快速把自己的姓名与生辰八字写了下来,然后把纸笔递了回去。 Jiang Feng received the written records, then closes the eye, counts to consider as finished. 江枫接过纸笔,然后就闭上眼睛,掐指算了起来。 Naturally, this is only the face work that does, the Jiang Feng mind moves secretly, an invisible fluctuation arrives, covers 3 billion population instantaneously, in that virtual picture, female head pictures is glittering crazily, finally locked a female head picture: 当然,这只是做的表面工作,暗地里江枫心神一动,一股无形的波动降临,瞬间笼罩住三十亿人口,在那虚拟画面中,一个个女性头像疯狂闪烁着,最终锁定了其中一个女性头像: 【Name】 Mei beautiful show 【姓名】梅丽秀 【Age】 24 years old 【年龄】24岁 【Height】 166 cm 【身高】166cm 【Body weight】 52 kg 【体重】52kg 【Family background background】...... 【家世背景】…… 【Character hobby】 Is firm and resolute, bravely, autonomy, not easily the goal that gives up her pursuing, has the high identity to the responsibility, always sets an example, throughout fulfills her responsibility and duty with every effort. 【性格爱好】性格坚毅、勇敢、自律,不轻易放弃她所追求的目标,对责任有着高度的认同感,总是以身作则,始终尽力履行她的职责和义务。 Has the special worship complex to soldier community, likes studying different in time of war the military strategy and tactic. Likes playing the military simulation game, actively participates to support the activity of soldier, works and provides the help and support including the donation and volunteer for the retired soldier. 对军人这个群体有着特殊的崇拜情结,喜欢研究不同战争时期的军事策略和战术。喜欢玩军事模拟游戏,积极参与支援军人的活动,包括捐款、志愿者工作和为退伍军人提供帮助与支持。 Likes reading the related military novel and biography, to understand that the stories and experiences of different soldier, absorb the courage and inspiration. 喜欢阅读有关军事的小说和传记,以了解不同军人的故事和经历,从中汲取勇气和启发。 【Sentimental experience】 Does not have 【感情经历】无 【Detail】...... 【详细资料】…… 【Current marital match value】 80( couple sentiment 78 + properly matched 82 + family relationships 80) 【当前婚姻匹配值】80(夫妻感情78+门当户对82+家庭关系80) 【Limit marriage match value】 95( couple sentiment 96 + properly matched 94 + family relationships 95) 【极限婚姻匹配值】95(夫妻感情96+门当户对94+家庭关系95) 【Extramarital peach blossom】 Does not have 【婚外桃花】无 【Children forecast】...... 【儿女预测】…… Read a match material sketchily, Jiang Feng then opened the eye. 粗略看了一遍匹配资料,江枫便睁开眼睛。 Chen three vision continuously centralized on Grandmaster river, at this time sees him to open the eye, then knows that his calculation had the result, showed the anticipation expression. 陈家三口的目光一直集中在江大师身上,此时看到他睁开眼睛,便知道他的推算有结果了,一个个都露出了期待的表情。 Jiang Feng smiles was saying: „Brother Chen, just calculated after me, has looked for the outstanding object who has a common goal to you!” 江枫微笑着说道:“陈兄弟,经过我刚刚的推算,已经给你物色到一个志同道合的优秀对象了！” Chen Daqiang also came the interest at this time, asked hastily: „Grandmaster river, does not know where person she is? How old? Is what makes to work?” 陈达强此时也来了兴趣,连忙问道:“江大师,不知道她是哪里人？多大年纪？是做什么工作的？” Jiang Feng simple introduced: „She is also our Gui Shengren, the native place is North Sea, with you in the same year, 1.66 meters in height, the stature look is good, at present opens a large noon to hold the class with the parents by Xixiangtang Elementary School together, the income is quite good.” 江枫简单介绍道:“她也是我们桂省人,老家是北海的,跟你同年,身高1米66,身材相貌都不错,目前跟父母一起在西乡塘小学旁边开了一家规模不小的午托班,收入相当不错。” This short moment, unexpectedly calculated that so many information come, really makes Chen three praise to the heavens. 这短短片刻,竟然推算出这么多信息来,真是让陈家三口叹为观止。 Chen Daqiang somewhat lacks in resonance saying: „Grandmaster river, you know that when the military spouse is not an easy matter, the miss conditions are so good, is really willing to receive this crime?” 陈达强有些底气不足的说道:“江大师,你知道的,当军嫂不是一件容易的事情,人家姑娘条件这么好,真的愿意受这份罪吗？” This saying, cannot help but said Mr. Chen Ms. Chen to sigh, since the son becomes a soldier, the cell phone is at the close-down condition for a long time, losing contact 1-2 moon/month that is the normal matter. 这话,说得陈父陈母都不由得叹气,自从儿子去当兵之后,手机就长期处于关机状态,失联1-2月那是再正常不过的事情。 This regarding parents, but really was a little uncomfortable regarding the wife. 这对于父母来说还算好,但对于妻子来说就真的有点难受了。