In a relative, paternal aunt one is in January 8 th returns to Shenzhen stock market. 一众亲戚中,姑姑一家是正月初八回深市的。 After paternal aunt walked, when Mr. Jiang Ms. Jiang comes the time of childbirth center time, some yellow Lingwei of putting on weight then said slightly with a smile: „Father, mother, you leaves native place so many days, it is estimated that looked for the people who you acted as a matchmaker to tread to break family's threshold, I had so many people to look after with the child, you do not need to worry, first went back, when I had/left the time of childbirth to lead the child to go back to worship the ancestor again.” 等姑姑一家走了之后,等江父江母来月子中心的时候,微微有些发胖的黄灵薇便笑着说道:“爸,妈,你们离开老家这么多天,估计找你们做媒的人都把家里的门槛踏破了,我跟孩子有这么多人照顾着,你们不必担心,就先回去吧,等我出了月子再带孩子回去祭拜祖宗。” Ms. Jiang heard that happily chatted the nod saying: „Un, we will go back tomorrow, you listen to the words of others professional here, gets better well.” 江母闻言笑着点头道:“嗯,那我们明天就回去,你在这里听人家专业人士的话,好好把身体养好。” Mr. Jiang also follows to nod, they truly cannot play anything role here. 江父也跟着点头,他们在这里确实起不到什么作用。 The difference of person and person is such big, in their ages, the parturient woman has a child, if runs into the good woman and husband, that can also sit a nice time of childbirth. 人与人的区别就是这么大,在他们那个年代,产妇生孩子,如果遇到好的家婆与老公,那还能坐个像样的月子。 If runs into not the good woman and husband, that really endured hardships, has the child, no one will help you lead the child, no one helps you cook a meal to do laundry, all want. 要是遇到不好的家婆与老公,那就真的遭罪了,把孩子生出来,没人会帮你带孩子,没人帮你煮饭洗衣服,一切都要自己来。 Thinks just to have a child tonight, next day must get out of bed to prepare food to do laundry, but must take care of the newly-born child, changes into now the parturient woman of this age, non- insane may not. 想想今晚刚生了孩子,第二天就得下床做饭洗衣服,还得照顾刚出生的孩子,换成现在这个年代的产妇,非疯了不可。 Even if to present this age, if married not the good family, although before not resembles, that age was so exaggerating, but during passing first month after childbirth, the parturient woman did not need to prepare food at most, but led the child to wash the underwear underpants and so on, could not avoid. 哪怕是到了现在这个年代,要是嫁到了不好的家庭,虽然不会像以前那个年代那么夸张,但坐月子期间,产妇顶多就不用做饭而已,但带孩子洗自己内衣内裤之类的,还是避免不了的。 This is actually the principal factor that the mothers and daughters-in-law have contradictory, time of childbirth enmity that is not cracks a joke, can make many daughters-in-law bear a grudge mother -in-law for a lifetime. 这其实就是婆媳矛盾产生的主因,月子仇那可不是开玩笑的,能让很多儿媳妇记恨婆婆一辈子。 Therefore, when mother-in-law really must pay attention, does a lot at other things is all right excessively, later has the leeway of recalling, when the daughter-in-law passes first month after childbirth, must look, otherwise this time of childbirth enmity, once has, this whole life is difficult the moderate leeway. 所以,当婆婆的真要注意,在其他事情上做得多过分都没事,以后都有挽回的余地,但是在儿媳妇坐月子的时候,一定要照顾好了,否则这月子仇一旦结下,这辈子都难有缓和的余地。 But such situation, naturally cannot appear in the family of rich man, for example beforehand river Xue, present yellow Lingwei, they passes first month after childbirth has the moon/month sister-in-law of specialty to take care of them, child also on nursing time needs to trouble them, other times do not need them to manage. 而这样的情况,自然不会出现在有钱人的家庭,比如之前的江雪,还有现在的黄灵薇,她们坐月子都有专业的月嫂照顾她们,孩子也就喂奶的时候需要麻烦一下她们,其他时候都不用她们理。 A few words, they pass first month after childbirth, only needs to eat to have a good sleep own body recuperation well on the line, other does not need them to worry. 一句话,她们坐月子,只需要吃好睡好把自己的身体调养好就行,其他的都不用她们操心。 Therefore, in this case, the parents-in-law in actually do not matter, has accompanied is being only the attaching great importance to of statement the daughter-in-law. 所以,在这种情况下,公公婆婆在不在其实都无所谓,一直陪着只是表态对儿媳妇的重视罢了。 Therefore, in January 9 th this day, Mr. Jiang Ms. Jiang after the little daughters-in-law and parents of son or daughter-in-law Duke child's mother-in-law has greeted, then under Guo Bingbing escorting returned to Longshan Village. 于是,在正月初九这天,江父江母跟小儿媳妇以及亲家公亲家母打过招呼后,便在郭冰冰的护送下回到了龙山村。 After Mr. Jiang Ms. Jiang goes back, less than several days the matrimonial agency also formally started to do business, these received the matchmakers who came back false naturally to form a team to visit the proprietress and young boss to the time of childbirth center unavoidably. 在江父江母回去后,没过几天婚介所也正式开始营业了,那些收假回来的红娘们自然都免不了要组队到月子中心看望老板娘和小老板。 Li Xiaohua hugs the young boss cautiously, the baby just lived generally speaking is not being attractive, but after a half month of growth, this little fellow is the longer the better to look. 李小花小心翼翼的抱着小老板,婴儿刚生出来的时候一般来说都不怎么好看,但经过半个多月的成长,这小家伙是越长越好看。 Li Xiaohua more looks more to like, cannot bear envy: „Proprietress, you really can live, small boss collection simultaneous/uniform you with the merit of boss, after growing up , even if not raise the family background background, by that face, this whole life did not only need to worry!” 李小花越看越喜欢,忍不住羡慕道:“老板娘,你真的太会生了,小老板集齐了你跟老板的优点,长大后就算不提家世背景,光靠那一张脸,这辈子都不用愁了！” Wang Lin echoes saying: „This saying truly said in the principle, even if our young bosses do not live by pimping, does what business casually, does not know some multi- young girl customers are willing considers his business, really thinks that does not make money difficultly.” 王琳附和道:“这话说得确实在理,哪怕咱们的小老板不吃软饭,随便做点什么生意,都不知道有多少女客户心甘情愿的过来照顾他的生意,真的想不赚钱都难。” Zhang Dan nods to say earnestly: „Truly suffices to be graceful, after the young boss grows up, must lead compared with the boss absolutely, said that the son looks like mother, Weiwei you have lasting achievements really!” 张丹认真的点头道:“确实够帅,小老板长大后绝对比老板还要帅,都说儿子像妈,薇薇你真是功不可没啊！” Hears the flattery of three schoolmate and best friends, yellow Lingwei smiled the eye to narrow the eyes, beckoned with the hand to say again and again: „You said exaggeratingly, this child day a type, after who knew he grew up, can be what appearance, wanted to be long in any case is not worse than his father, I satisfied!” 听到三位同学兼闺蜜的奉承话,黄灵薇笑得眼睛都眯起来了,连连摆手说道:“你们说得太夸张了,这孩子一天一个样,谁知道他长大后会是什么模样,反正只要长得不比他爸差,我就满足了！” Wang Lin careful hugs the young boss from Li Xiaohua hand, said with a smile: „Although the child is little appearance not to finalize, but on the child almost could not find the shortcoming, this grew up was absolutely graceful enough.” 王琳小心的从李小花手中把小老板抱过来,笑着接话道:“虽说孩子还小容貌没有定型,但孩子身上几乎找不到缺点,这长大了绝对够帅。” Li Xiaohua as well as Zhang Dan also praised, although in their words had the ingredient of flattery, but majority told the facts, this young boss truly attractively. 李小花以及张丹也纷纷夸赞,她们话里虽然有奉承的成分,但大部分都是实话实说,这小老板长得确实好看。 Since this period of time, yellow Lingwei has listened to such flattery, but at present these two but her college days relate the best schoolmate and best friend, they say the similar flattery, yellow Lingwei feels especially interesting to listen. 这段时间以来,黄灵薇听多了这样的奉承话,不过眼前这两位可是她大学时代关系最好的同学兼闺蜜,她们说出同样的奉承话,黄灵薇却觉得格外的动听。 ...... …… Some Hunan small town. 湘省某个小镇。 Because year ago the daughter out-band granddaughter comes back, this years Li Jia crosses lively, no longer before several years of lonely. 由于年前女儿带外孙女回来,这个年李家过得是非常的热闹,不复之前几年的冷冷清清。 Although Mr. Li Ms. Li knows that the daughter divorced, but the mood that does not affect them to celebrate the new year, even was happier, after all daughter wedding they strongly opposed, now left them not to take pleasure in others'misfortunes, but not possible to be sad for the daughter. 尽管李父李母知道女儿离婚了,但也一点都不影响他们过年的心情,甚至心情更好了,毕竟女儿这门婚事他们原本就强烈反对,如今离了他们没有幸灾乐祸,但也不可能替女儿难过。 In their opinion, the daughter divorces is not the misdemeanor, this is an extrication. 在他们看来,女儿离婚不是坏事,这是一种解脱。 Feels to feel ashamed only, is the neighbor neighbor knows that their daughters are divorce, unavoidably will direct in the back. 唯一感到脸上无光的,是街坊邻居知道他们女儿是离婚回来的,难免会在背后指指点点。 However, this is the minor matter. 不过,这都是小事。 Most importantly, was the daughter returned to homeland, even if remarried should not to remarry to the foreigner, this most made Mr. Li Ms. Li gratified. 最重要的,是女儿回国了,哪怕再嫁应该也不会再嫁给外国人了,这才是最让李父李母欣慰的。 After all, the beforehand daughter marries Japan, they quite therefore lost this daughter, because they are not willing to go to Japan, but the daughter does not know that what reason does not come back. 毕竟,之前的女儿远嫁日本,他们相当于是失去了这个女儿,因为他们不愿意去日本,而女儿不知道什么原因也不回来。 This way, their lifetime, actually could not see daughter several times, said that lost this daughter is not exaggerating. 这样下去,他们有生之年,其实也见不到女儿几次,说失去这个女儿是一点都不夸张。 But the daughter returns to homeland now, that was different, so long as is internally, where no matter marries, wants to meet is very easy. 可现在女儿回国了,那就不一样了,只要是在国内,不管嫁到哪里,想见面还是很容易的。 If can marry in the local area, that was a unexpected happiness. 若是能嫁在本地,那就更是意外之喜了。 Not is only Mr. Li Ms. Li this year passes quite enjoyably, Li Shuixiu also felt the Spring Festival atmosphere after several years, before several years she has wanted to fit into Japan diligently, but did not have the means to achieve, always had an unexplained mutual lack of understanding. 不光是李父李母这个年过得相当舒心,李水秀也是时隔几年之后重新感受到了春节的气氛,之前几年她一直努力想要融入日本社会,但始终没办法做到,总有股说不清道不明的隔膜。 Now returns the motherland, that comfort makes her understand, the foreign country is a foreign country, to motherland such sense of belonging. 如今重新回到祖国,那种舒适感让她明白,异国他乡就是异国他乡,给不了祖国这样的归属感。 Celebrated after the Lantern Festival, Li Shuixiu is then busy giving the daughter to look for the kindergarten, their here is only a small town, the teacher strength of kindergarten is limited, cannot meet her requirements. 过了元宵节后,李水秀便忙着给女儿物色幼儿园,她们这里毕竟只是一个小镇,幼儿园的师资力量有限,达不到她的要求。 Do not think that the kindergarten is unimportant, the good kindergarten can build the good foundation to the child, compared with child who other ordinary kindergartens come out, won absolutely in the starting line. 别以为幼儿园不重要,好的幼儿园可以给孩子打下良好的基础,跟其他普通幼儿园出来的孩子相比,绝对是赢在了起跑线。 Regarding this, Mr. Li Ms. Li also approves of daughter's idea. 对此,李父李母也赞同女儿的想法。 Our country's education is really the polarization, some guardians do not attach great importance , the child can read goes study cannot read knocks it off, the guardian cannot multibarreled. 我国的教育真的是两极分化,有的家长是一点都不重视,孩子能读就读不能读就拉倒,家长是不会多管的。 Some guardians actually extremely attach great importance, starts to accompany in studies the university from the kindergarten, in the eyes of these guardians, child's educational problem is family's major event, other things must arrange in the future. 有的家长却又万分重视,从幼儿园开始就一路陪读到大学,在这些家长的眼里,孩子的教育问题是家里的头等大事,其他事情都得往后排。 Li Shuixiu obviously is the latter, her daughter is only four years old, has understood three languages, she naturally cannot let on the daughter the ordinary kindergarten, then buried her talent. 李水秀明显就是后者,她的女儿才四岁,已经懂得三种语言,她自然不会让女儿上普通的幼儿园,然后埋没了她的天赋。 Finally, after with discussing of parents, Li Shuixiu led the provincial capital the daughter, looked for a teacher strength very strong Shuangyu Kindergarten in the provincial capital to the daughter. 最后,经过跟父母的商量,李水秀把女儿带到了省城,在省城给女儿找了一家师资力量非常强大的双语幼儿园。 Although she divorced minute/share of arriving money enough her to buy the suite provincial capital here, idea that but Li Shuixiu has not purchased homes temporarily, but was the choice rented a house in the community near kindergarten. 尽管她离婚分到的钱足够她在省城这里买套房了,但李水秀暂时并没有买房的想法,而是选择在幼儿园附近的小区租了一套房子。 Mr. Li Ms. Li with, them actually had not naturally worked that side the native place, the retirement pension of couple enough has helped them cross very comfortably. 李父李母自然也跟了过来,他们在老家那边其实也没做什么事,夫妻俩的退休金已经足够让他们过得非常舒服了。 Now the granddaughter arrives in provincial capital here the kindergarten, they naturally must with help prepare food, send and pick up as well as take care of the child, this can liberate the daughter. 如今外孙女到省城这边上幼儿园,他们自然要跟过来帮忙做做饭,接送以及照顾孩子,这样才能把女儿解放出来。 Is calmly good after here, Ms. Li said: „Axiu, the child gave me to be good with your father, you were young, must look for a matter to do.” 在这边安顿好后,李母才说道:“阿秀,孩子交给我跟你爸就行了,你还年轻,总要找点事情做。” Li Shuixiu nods saying: „I know that I before returning to homeland, had the complete plan, now the issue of Ling has been solved, then I planned that opened one day material shop provincial capital here, how did the parents you feel?” 李水秀点头道:“我知道的,我在回国之前,就有了完整的规划,现在玲儿的问题已经解决,接下来我打算在省城这里开一家日料店,爸妈你们觉得怎么样？” Must open the day material shop regarding the daughter, Mr. Li Ms. Li are not too accidental/surprised, their daughters lived after all for several years in Japan, studied was making several years of Japanese cuisine, now returns to homeland the family/home day material shop, this was very correct mentality. 对于女儿要开日料店,李父李母都不是太意外,他们女儿毕竟在日本生活了几年,也学着做了几年的日本料理,现在回国开家日料店,这是非常正确的思路。 Although they do not like even dislike this country, but cannot with this national related thing all at once, such words absolutely not have the means to live. 虽然他们不喜欢甚至是讨厌这个国家,但也不能把跟这个国家有关的东西都一刀切,那样的话根本就没办法生活。 After all, the words that really must calculate, the slipper and person the character drags, the plastic umbrella, the airbag fabrics and car navigation and notebook, the instant noodles and blue light LED( light emitter diode), the automatic checking machine, dry cell battery, electric cooking pot, gastroscope, the automatic pencil, the completely automatic mahjong table and frequency changer for-condition, CD, VCD and blueray blue light, personal stereo wait/etc, thing that these use daily, is the Japanese invents. 毕竟,真要算起来的话,拖鞋、人字拖、塑料伞、安全气囊、汽车导航、笔记本电脑、方便面、蓝光LED(发光二极管)、自动检票机、干电池、电饭煲、胃镜、自动铅笔、全自动麻将桌、变频空调、CD、VCD、blueray蓝光、随身听等等,这些日常用到的东西,都是日本人发明的。 If really all at once, that this life really cannot have! 要是真一刀切,那这生活真过不下去了！ Naturally, in turn is also the same truth, this world which country dares not saying that thing that uses the Chinese to invent, that life same. 当然,反过来也是一样的道理,这个世界哪个国家敢说不用中国人发明的东西,那生活同样过不下去。 Mr. Li said: „I do not understand to do business with your mothers, in any case you are the person of going abroad, experienced, you thought that this business can do, that does.” 李父道:“我跟你妈都不懂得做生意,反正你是出过国的人,见多识广,你觉得这生意能做,那就去做。” Ms. Li also encourages saying: „Yes, your father said right, you thought that this business can do felt relieved bold does, in the family/home has me with your father, anything does not need you to worry.” 李母也鼓励道:“是啊,你爸说得对,你觉得这生意能做就放心大胆的去做,家里有我跟你爸在,什么都不用你操心。” Li Shuixiu nods, said: „Un, I know, before opening a shop to do business, I plan first to go to a Guangxi province provincial capital.” 李水秀点了点头,说道:“嗯,我知道,不过在开店做生意之前,我打算先去一趟桂省省城。” Ms. Li asked: „Goes to the Guangxi province provincial capital to do?” 李母问道:“去桂省省城干嘛？” Li Shuixiu said: „Father, mother, actually my two years wants to divorce early, because all sorts of scruples have towed not to leave, last year can divorce to accompany you to celebrate the new year, the primary cause was I ran into a domestic compatriot in Japan, was his persuasion makes under me decide the determination of divorce.” 李水秀道:“爸,妈,其实我早两年就想离婚了,只是因为种种顾忌一直拖着没离,去年之所以能够离婚回来陪你们过年,主要原因是我在日本的时候遇到了国内的一个同胞,是他的劝说才让我下定了离婚的决心。” Mr. Li Ms. Li heard that the word showed the surprised expression. 李父李母闻言都露出了惊讶的表情。 Because they dislike that Japanese son-in-law, therefore the daughter this time divorces, they have not inquired about detail, so long as in any case knows that the result was good, the process is to them unimportant. 由于他们都讨厌那个日本女婿,因此女儿这次离婚回来,他们都没有询问其中的细节,反正只要知道结果就行了,过程对于他们来说不重要。 But listens to the daughter to mention now, they know the daughter to divorce, a domestic compatriot also very major role. 可现在听女儿说起,他们才知道女儿离婚,国内的一个同胞还起了很大的作用。 Therefore, Mr. Li then nods saying: „Since others helped you be busy, you divorce to return to homeland now, truly thanked others.” 于是,李父便点头道:“既然人家帮了你大忙,你现在离婚回国了,确实得去感谢一下人家。” Li Shuixiu said with a smile: „Father, my time, not only need thank him, but must ask him to help look to suit my object, because of his also status, that helps the matchmaker who the person brings both sides together specially.” 李水秀笑道:“爸,我这次不光是要去感谢他,还要请他帮忙物色个适合我的对象,因为他还有一个身份,那就是专门帮人牵线搭桥的媒人。” Ms. Li said hastily: „Axiu, you took the present to thank him to be good, asking the matter that the matchmaker looked for the partner is not first anxious, I have to plan with your father, before was to look at you just divorced, we did not have urgently to say this matter to you.” 李母连忙说道:“阿秀,你带上礼品去感谢他就行了,请媒人找对象的事你先别急,我跟你爸早就有计划了,之前是看你刚离婚回来,我们才没有急着跟你说这事。” Mr. Li said: „Axiu you marries Japanese several years, perhaps has not known that our home had/left a quite extraordinary matchmaker, happen to this matchmaker is also Gui Shengren, opened a matrimonial agency in the provincial capital, if you want to look for the partner, makes your mother accompany you to Gui Sheng!” 李父接话道:“阿秀你嫁到日本几年,恐怕还不知道我们国内出了一个相当了不起的媒人,正好这个媒人也是桂省人,在省城开了一家婚介所,你要想找对象的话,就让你妈陪你到桂省走一趟吧！” Li Shuixiu cannot bear talk about with interest: „Father, mother, there is a possibility, we say that now, is actually the same person?” 李水秀忍不住乐道:“爸,妈,有没有一种可能,我们现在说的,其实是同一个人？” Mr. Li Ms. Li hears word stares, but also really has this possibility. 李父李母闻言一愣,还真有这个可能。 Ms. Li asked: „Axiu, you that compatriot who runs into Japan, does he name?” 李母问道:“阿秀,你在日本遇到的那个同胞,他叫什么名字？” Li Shuixiu said with a smile: „He called Jiang Feng, in addition the nickname was called Grandmaster river, was the boss in happy matrimonial agency, does not know that matchmaker who the parents you said was he?” 李水秀笑着说道:“他叫江枫,另外还有一个绰号叫江大师,是幸福婚介所的老板,不知道爸妈你们所说的那位媒人是不是他？” Mr. Li Ms. Li cannot help but looked at each other one, simultaneous/uniform Hu tone. 李父李母不由得对视了一眼,都齐呼了口气。 Ms. Li beams with joy saying: „What originally Axiu you meets in Japan is really Grandmaster river, no wonder you will choose to divorce, listened to of Grandmaster river absolutely is mistakenly, he may not only be a matchmaker, was an uncanny prediction Grandmaster, can meet his your later happiness has the safeguard!” 李母眉开眼笑道:“原来阿秀你在日本遇到的真是江大师,难怪你会选择离婚回来,听江大师的那绝对是错不了的,他可不仅仅是媒人,还是一位神算大师,能遇到他你以后的幸福算是有保障了！” Mr. Li sighs with emotion: „ Since we know after given name of Grandmaster river, more than once wants to go to Gui Sheng to ask Grandmaster river to calculate the marriage affinity for you, but is thinking you have married, what is done cannot be undone, has not gone to calculate to you. 李父感慨道:“自从我们知道江大师的大名以后,就不止一次的想去桂省找江大师替你算一下姻缘,但想着你都已经结婚了,木已成舟,也就没有去给你算。 Because of according to your beforehand character, even if calculates that you are inappropriate with that little Japan, told you you will not listen our, cannot do well also thinks that we are deceiving you! ” 因为依你以前的性格,哪怕是算出来你跟那个小日本不合适,跟你说了你也不会听我们的,搞不好还以为我们在骗你呢！” Li Shuixiu listens to the father to raise this matter, somewhat guilty saying: „Father, mother, sorry, I before truly was too willful, the matter of experience were few, thought oneself infallible, led to the blunder.” 李水秀听父亲提起这事,有些愧疚的说道:“爸,妈,对不起,我以前确实是太任性了,经历的事情少,又自以为是,才酿成了大错。” Ms. Li comforts to say hastily: „Ok, matter had passed, we do not raise again, this time looks for Grandmaster river, asking him to help look for a good object, later lived well and that's the end!” 李母连忙安慰道:“算了,事情都已经过去了,咱们就不要再提了,这次去找江大师,请他帮忙物色一个好对象,以后好好过日子就是了！” Li Shuixiu nods saying: „Un, has experienced the marriage of this failure, what I am very clear I to want is anything, in addition that never makes the mistake by Grandmaster river the acting as a matchmaker strength, I believe that my later marriage will be certainly happy.” 李水秀点头道:“嗯,经历过这段失败的婚姻,我现在很清楚我想要的是什么,再加上以江大师那从未出差错的做媒实力,我相信我以后的婚姻一定会幸福的。” Ms. Li said with a smile: „Having the confidence is good, since you with Grandmaster river were an old acquaintance, that also had no need for me accompanying you to go to Gui Sheng together!” 李母笑道:“有信心就好,既然你跟江大师是老熟人了,那也用不着我陪你一起去桂省了！”