The boss in good reason dating company is surnamed Wang, Boss king over 60 years old, his look desolate sitting on the boss chair of corporate office, one type has felt this year at this time twilight hero's. 佳缘婚介公司的老板姓王,王老板今年已经六十多岁了,此时他神色落寞的坐在公司办公室的老板椅上,给人一种英雄迟暮的感觉。 „Father, you really planned that sold out the company?” king Boss of son Wang Qing opens the mouth to ask. “爸,你真打算把公司卖掉了吗？”王老板的儿子王庆开口问道。 Boss king sighed: „Company present operating condition you are also know that can also strive to struggle last year, since this year has been losing money, thinks that does not sell out is not good.” 王老板叹了口气道:“公司现在的经营情况你也是知道的,去年还可以勉力挣扎一下,今年以来一直都在亏本,想不卖掉都不行了。” Wang Qing hesitates saying: „The dating company that father, since this year, loses money to operate continues our, you said that we can unite other dating companies, resists the happy matrimonial agency together?” 王庆沉吟道:“爸,今年以来,亏本经营的婚介公司不止我们一家,你说我们能不能联合其他婚介公司,一起对抗幸福婚介所呢？” Boss king shakes the head saying: „Useless, that Grandmaster river was too fierce, has him to be able with the happy matrimonial agency to compete in no dating company.” 王老板摇头道:“没用的,那位江大师真的太厉害了,有他在没有哪家婚介公司能与幸福婚介所竞争。” Wang Qing silent, asked: „Father, I thought that does not need to sell out the company, we cannot compete with the happy matrimonial agency in Yongcheng, that moves to other provinces the company simply, so long as far away from the happy matrimonial agency, should have the opportunity of staging a comeback.” 王庆沉默了一下,又问道:“爸,我觉得没必要把公司卖掉,在邕城我们竞争不过幸福婚介所,那干脆就把公司搬到其他省份去,只要远离幸福婚介所,应该还有东山再起的机会。” Boss king sees the unwilling son, explained: „ This I have also thought that but moves to other provinces the company, must start from the beginning, when this may just organize the company me initially must be more difficult. 王老板看着不甘心的儿子,解释道:“这个我也想过,但把公司搬到其他省份,一切就要从头开始,这可比我当初刚创办公司时要难多了。 After all at that time I lacked the undertaking fund, but the entire Yongcheng does not have the dating company, without competitor, the business development of company is quite smooth. 毕竟那个时候我只是缺少创业资金,但整个邕城都没有婚介公司,在没有竞争对手的情况下,公司的业务开展还是比较顺利的。 But any city, will not lack the dating company now, the market share had been carved up by these dating companies, wants to have a bloody road by the strength of our company from numerous dating companies, is almost is impossible to achieve. 可现在无论是哪座城市,都不会缺少婚介公司,市场份额早就被这些婚介公司瓜分完了,以咱们公司的实力想从众多婚介公司中杀出一条血路,几乎是不可能做到的。 Moreover, I already more than 60, did not have initial lofty aspirations and high ideals, the company also made a lot of money in any case for these years, was the time retirement enjoys the life. ” 而且,我已经六十多了,也没有了当初的雄心壮志,反正这么多年来公司也赚了不少钱,是时候退休享受生活了。” Wang Qing hears word then knows that the father totally gave up struggling, no longer urged. 王庆闻言便知道父亲是彻底放弃挣扎了,也就不再劝。 Therefore, while park being on intimate terms corner/horn closure, the once Yongcheng's first dating company, quiet disappearance in dating market. 于是,在公园相亲角关闭的同时,曾经的邕城第一婚介公司,也悄无声息的消失在了婚介市场。 even/including Jiayuan the dating company could not shoulder, other dating companies were needless saying that calculated one, went broke and closed down completely. 连佳缘婚介公司都扛不住了,其他婚介公司就更加不用说了,有一家算一家,全部关门大吉。 From now, did not have the happy matrimonial agency of opponent, even travelled together could not find. 从此以后,原本就没有对手的幸福婚介所,更是连同行都找不到了。 Because of the entire Yongcheng, could not find the second matrimonial agency again. 因为整个邕城,再也找不到第二家婚介所了。 ...... …… Many middle-aged people including author Monarch, felt oneself live is inferior to a dog. 很多中年人包括作者君在内,都觉得自己活得不如一条狗。 Now the home capacity of pet dog was really higher and higher, many dog lover regarded own children or younger brother younger sister the pet dog raises, likes the ways and means of dog emerging one after another incessantly, startled exploded does not know the eyeballs of many people. 现在宠物狗的家庭地位真的是越来越高了,很多爱狗人士把宠物狗当成自己的儿女或者弟弟妹妹来养,爱狗的方式方法可谓是层出不穷,惊爆不知道多少人的眼球。 In violation of the big yellow dog the girl who takes to the streets to cook. 有背着大黄狗上街熘达的女孩。 My goodness, in the picture that since the passer-by makes looked that big yellow dog has more than 20 jin (0.5 kg) at least, then rides to lie in conducting the back of that girl, the girl two hands hold the nonsense stock, seems like really incomparably funny. 好家伙,从路人拍的照片上看,那一条大黄狗起码有二十多斤,然后骑趴在那个女孩的背上,女孩两只手托着狗屁股,看起来真的无比滑稽。 Two dogs sit the video that the sedan chair climbs mountains. 还有一段两条狗坐轿子上山的视频。 Sees that video, does not know that many people are silent, the person is inferior to the dog, really did not say. 看到那个视频,不知道有多少人沉默,人不如狗,真的不是说说而已。 Especially some white rich and beautiful online exposes to the sun the luxurious life of pet dog, the basic necessities of life that calls one on big, its quality of life really compares in the world 90% people to be stronger. 尤其是某个白富美在网上晒自家宠物狗的奢华生活,衣食住行那叫一个高大上啊,它的生活质量真的比世上百分之九十的人都要强。 Only is between -meal snack type of pet dog reaches dozens types, each value not poor, jar chocked up a wall, it seems like that the dog dog eats a between-meal snack daily is also bored, therefore takes dozens types of tastes to trade eating, so many a wide range of food could be as good as the imperial kitchen of emperor. 光是宠物狗的零食种类就多达几十种,每一种都价值不菲,一个个罐子摆满了一面墙,看来狗狗天天吃一种零食也是腻味的,所以要几十种口味换着吃,这么多种类繁多的食物都抵得上皇上的御膳房了。 Then is the son of a bitch eats food the bowl, dazzling dozens, the neat code becomes rows, it is said each bowl takes over a hundred Yuan, each type of between-meal snack has the special-purpose bowl, is such luxurious. 接着是狗子吃食物的碗,琳琅满目几十个,整整齐齐码成一排排,据说每只碗都要上百元,每种零食都有专用的碗,就是这么奢侈。 The clothes of pet dog, are make one be flabbergasted, two rows of closet hang chock full, throughout the year from the skirt to the vest waistcoat down clothing, it can be said that has everything expected to find, various color designs are dazzling. 还有宠物狗的衣服,更是令人咋舌,两排衣柜挂得满满当当的,一年四季从裙子到背心马甲羽绒服,可以说是应有尽有,各种颜色款式更是令人眼花缭乱。 Is clothes following one also has necklace and other jewelry again, the dog dog goes out every day must change the clothes to put on, each clothes must wear the different jewelry. 再就是衣服下面一层还有项链等首饰,狗狗每天出门都要换衣服穿,每件衣服还要戴不同的首饰。 Finally is the dog dog „resting palace”, that also absolutely is deluxe model. White bed sheet, pillow and mosquito net, not only brief does not lose the atmosphere, could see that the master also has the personal status very much, the dog dog lives in this really should not be too comfortable. 最后是狗狗的“寝宫”,那也绝对是豪华型的。白色的床单、枕头、蚊帐,既简约又不失大气,看得出主人也是很有品位的,狗狗住在这里面真的不要太舒服。 A pet dog can on such „wanton and luxurious living” the luxurious life, has to make most people blush with shame, the innermost feelings are 10,000 damn are galloping. 一条宠物狗都能过上这么“纸醉金迷”的奢华生活,不得不让大部分人汗颜,内心更是一万头草泥马在奔腾。 Moreover, many girls are strange bedfellows with oneself pet dog...... 而且,还有不少女孩跟自己的宠物狗同床共枕…… Does not raise loves the dog like this is to is wrong, such dog lives in any case really enviablly, if can turn into such a dog, believes that many people will move? 不提这样爱狗是对是错,反正这样的狗生是真的令人羡慕,如果能变成这样的一条狗,相信有不少人都会动心吧？ stretch/open Feie is a true dog lover, she flaunts with online these is liking the dog banner doing the dog lover of matter of nausea to be different, she is the rationality loves the dog. 张飞蛾是一名真正的爱狗人士,她跟网上那些打着爱狗旗号干着让人恶心之事的爱狗人士不一样,她是理性爱狗。 stretch/open Feie this year is 26 years old, because the parental work is quite busy, in childhood accompanied her many, is in the family/home that big yellow dog. 张飞蛾今年26岁,因为父母工作比较忙,小时候陪伴她最多的,就是家里那条大黄狗。 This big yellow dog accompanies her to grow, attended the high school to her year, died in bed of old age/be exhausted. 这条大黄狗陪伴她成长,一直到她上高中那一年,才寿终正寝。 She still remembers, that day that the big yellow dog died, she cried a tears person, felt that looked like died a family member to be the same. 她至今还记得,大黄狗死去的那一天,她哭成了一个泪人,感觉就像是死去了一个亲人一样。 After the big yellow dog walked, her parents no longer raise the dog. 大黄狗走了之后,她父母不再养狗。 Until after her university graduation starts the work, opened the moth to buy a Teddy to come back to raise. 直到她大学毕业参加工作之后,张飞蛾才买了一条泰迪回来养。 Now four years pass by, this Teddy has become her to live the inalienable part, to raise this dog, she also paid was more. 如今四年过去,这条泰迪已经成为她生活中不可分割的一部分,为了养这条狗,她也付出了很多很多。 Time and money of expenditure and so on did not say that is her sentiment is also mainly affected, after all is not everyone likes the dog. 花费的时间与金钱之类的就不说了,主要是她的感情也受到影响,毕竟不是所有人都喜欢狗的。 Regarding this, opening the moth is not anxious, this this lifetime must certainly look for the same as like the dog dog with her the man, like this has the marriage of common hobby, can be long-time. 对此,张飞蛾也不急,她这辈子肯定是要找个跟她一样喜欢狗狗的男人,这样有共同爱好的婚姻,才能长久。 However she is not anxious, but her parents a little were anxious, urging several marriage not to see the effect, her parents „detaining” she were then arriving at the happy matrimonial agency, prepared to ask Grandmaster river this famous matchmaker Grandmaster to go into action, looked for a suitable object for her. 不过她自己不急,但她的父母却有点急了,催了几次婚不见效果,她的父母便“押”着她来到了幸福婚介所,准备请江大师这个享誉全国的媒人大师出马,替她物色个适合的对象。 ...... …… Happy matrimonial agency. 幸福婚介所。 In the office, Jiang Feng listens to Ms. Zhang to introduce her daughter. 办公室里,江枫听着张母介绍她的女儿。 „Grandmaster river, my daughter this year is 26 years old, 1.63 meters in height, the stature look you also saw, the undergraduate degree, goes to work in XX companies at present, the monthly salary has about 7000, was good.” “江大师,我女儿今年26岁,身高1米63,身材相貌你也都看到了,本科学历,目前在XX公司上班,月薪有七千左右,也算是不错了。” Jiang Feng looks that hugs a Teddy to sit there moth gently, the nod said: „Individual condition is truly good, moreover I look at the uncle aunt's appearance, should family's condition be also good?” 江枫看着抱着一条小泰迪文文静静坐在那里的张飞蛾,点头道:“个人条件确实不错,而且我看叔叔阿姨的面相,家里的条件应该也不错吧？” Ms. Zhang modest saying with a smile of: „Also compared with the average person, in the family/home has the room to have the car(riage), is entire buys, I have my work with her father, the income can also pass.” 张母谦虚的笑道:“也就比普通人强一点吧,家里有房有车,都是全款买的,我跟她爸都有自己的工作,收入也还过得去。” „Aunt was really modest, this condition already compared with many people.” At this point, Jiang Feng looks to opening the moth, asked: „Ms. stretch/open, do you regarding the other half, what have to request?” “阿姨真是太谦虚了,这条件已经比很多人都强了。”说到这里,江枫看向张飞蛾,问道:“张女士,你对于另一半,有什么要求吗？” Opens the moth to trace the dog head of bosom that only Teddy, looks at Jiang Feng saying: „Grandmaster river, I have two requests regarding the other half.” 张飞蛾摸了摸怀里那只小泰迪的狗头,看着江枫说道:“江大师,我对于另一半有两个要求。” Jiang Feng said: „Ms. stretch/open you said.” 江枫道:“张女士你说。” stretch/open Feie said: „The first request, the groom's family must be hits likes the dog dog at heart, this is I looks for the firm decision of object.” 张飞蛾道:“第一个要求,男方必须是打心里喜欢狗狗,这是我找对象的一个硬性规定。” Jiang Feng looked at her to hug in bosom that only Teddy, the nod said: „I understood, that second request?” 江枫看了一眼她抱在怀里的那只小泰迪,点头说道:“我理解,那第二个要求呢？” stretch/open Feie said: „The second request is the character compatibles.” 张飞蛾道:“第二个要求是性格合得来。” Jiang Feng said: „Ok, I understood, I will meet your request with every effort.” 江枫道:“行,我明白了,我会尽力满足你的要求。” „Thanks, that troubled Grandmaster river!” “谢谢,那就麻烦江大师了！” „Is impolite, this is I should do.” “不客气,这是我应该做的。” The both sides smalltalk, then increased the contact method mutually, the Zhang three eloquence said goodbye to depart. 双方客套了一番,然后互相添加了联系方式,张家三口才告辞离去。 ...... …… „I was really regret, initially so many good pursuers did not elect, elected you, endured hardship with you did not say, but could also not see the hope that turned over/stood up.” “我真是后悔死了,当初那么多好的追求者不选,偏偏就选了你,跟着你吃苦不说,还看不到翻身的希望。” „Debt that the housework of not being able to do has not ended, I am really blind will marry people like you!” “干不完的家务还不完的债,我真是瞎了眼才会嫁给你这种人！” „This day I was one day have not really thought!” “这种日子我真的是一天都不想过了！” „......” “……” From some happy matrimonial agency about 1500 meters community, sits gold mountain on sofa looks that drags the wife who while talked endlessly protected orchid, the words that touched somebody's sore spot one after another heard his brain soon to explode. 距离幸福婚介所大约一千五百米左右的某个住宅小区,坐在沙发上的金山看着一边拖地一边喋喋不休的老婆卫幽兰,那一句又一句扎心的话听得他脑子都快要炸了。 Telling the truth, his wife is not the lazy person, the house job she really does a lot, family's house is clean forever, newly lived for 2-3 years still with buy was the same. 有一说一,他老婆不是懒惰的人,家务活她真的没少干,家里的房子永远是干干净净的,住了2-3年仍然跟新买的一样。 The child is also she manages quite many, if her temperament is not smelly, perhaps she had the qualifications to be evaluated the good wife and loving mother. 孩子也是她管得比较多,如果她脾气没那么臭的话,那她恐怕都有资格被评为贤妻良母了。 But she works, every so often is smelly a face, did not rail before him complained, in brief must make him know she had many does not want to do these house jobs. 可她干活的时候,很多时候都是臭着一张脸,在他面前不是谩骂就是抱怨,总之一定要让他知道她有多不想干这些家务活。 If gold mountain listens attentively silently did not answer, when she vented that resentment at heart, will return to normal. If he cannot bear answering argue several with her, she looks like a powder keg point absolutely, not incisive will quarrel she is will definitely not give up. 如果金山只是默默倾听不回话,等她把心里的那股怨气发泄出来了,就会恢复正常。要是他忍不住回话跟她争辩几句,那她绝对像火药桶般一点就着,不淋漓尽致的吵上一架她是肯定不会罢休的。 The model is the character to do and not being able to flatter. 典型是做了事又讨不了好的性格。 Today two people fortunately are good, the result because of a tiny minor matter, has accumulated many days of health/guard orchid to start to erupt. 今天原本两人还好好的,结果因为一件芝麻绿豆般的小事,已经积累了好些天的卫幽兰又开始爆发了。 This matter comes regularly one time, gold mountain is really sick of the extreme. 这种事情隔三差五就来一次,金山真的是厌烦到了极点。 He had online seen such an issue: „Why so many men drive home, can sit in the car(riage) to downstairs for a long time?” 他曾经在网上看到过这样一个问题:“为什么那么多男人开车回家,到了楼下还要在车里坐好久？” At that time a reply obtained a high score to praise: „ Every so often I do not want to get out, because that is a threshold. 当时一个回答获得了高分点赞:“很多时候我也不想下车,因为那是一个分界点。 On the vehicle, a person calm down a bit, smokes, sends will stay, this body is own. But opens the vehicle door, you are the daily necessities, is the father, is the son, is a husband, is only not yourself. 在车上,一个人静一静,抽根烟,发会呆,这个躯体是属于自己的。但推开车门,你就是柴米油盐,是父亲、是儿子、是老公,唯独不是你自己。 We hide real in the car(riage). 我们把真实的自己藏在车里。 Once opens the vehicle door to walk, even if cries to crawl , can only be placed the great expectations the status to continue to act. ” 而一旦打开车门走出去,哪怕是哭着爬着,也只能把被人寄予厚望的身份继续扮演下去。” This reply, was really the say/way completely bitter of middle-aged man, aroused the resonance of gold mountain. 这个回答,真的是道尽了中年男人的辛酸,也引起了金山的共鸣。 Just like Jiang Wen said in «Damn Middle-aged»: „ Middle age is a being a prostitute age, must ask for old person's favor, must complete children's example, but must pay attention to wife's complexion frequently, non-stop catering to the thoughts of boss. 正如姜文在《狗日的中年》中说:“中年是个卖笑的年龄,既要讨得老人的欢心,也要做好儿女的榜样,还要时刻关注老婆的脸色,不停迎合上司的心思。 The middle age non-stop socializing for the livelihood face and house vehicle bank note, afterward the discovery fervor to the middle-aged person was a waste, vainly hoped for that regarding the middle age was a memorial arch, could defend loyal and heroic, but must be able to complete the whore. ” 中年为了生计脸面、房子车子票子不停周旋,后来就发现激情对中年人是一种浪费,梦想对于中年是一个牌坊,守得住忠烈,还要做得好婊子。” Eileen Chang also said in «Half a lifetime Reason»: „Reaches middle-age the man, often will feel lonely, because he opens the eye, the surroundings must depend upon his person, actually without the person who he can depend upon.” 张爱玲也在《半生缘》里说:“人到中年的男人,时常会觉得孤独,因为他一睁开眼睛,周围都是要依靠他的人,却没有他可以依靠的人。” gold mountain as a sad middle-aged man, he supporting the family the pressure of Hukou shoulders on own shoulder already enough tired, goes home also to facing wife's complaint and railing, this day let alone her day has not thought that he is one day also has not thought. 金山作为一名悲催的中年男人,他把养家湖口的压力扛在自己肩上已经够累的了,回到家还要面对老婆的抱怨与谩骂,这种日子别说她一天都不想过,他同样是一天都不想过。 Two people have the idea of divorce, the civil administration bureau do not know that ran many times, but each time because this and that reason has not left. 两人都有离婚的想法,民政局都不知道跑了多少次了,但每次都因为这样那样的原因没离成。 Today, has endured patiently the limit gold mountain really not to continue to endure again, calm said: „If, we have really divorced, this what thing I did not struggle with you, whom the child turns over to foster this house to turn over to who possesses, this should not have the issue?” 今天,已经忍耐到极限的金山是真的不想再继续忍下去了,语气平静的接话道:“如果真的过不下去了,那咱们就离婚吧,这次什么东西我都不跟你争了,孩子归谁抚养这房子就归谁所有,这个应该没问题吧？” In the past were so many running civil administration bureau to divorce, finally has not left, for three reasons: 以往那么多次跑民政局离婚,最终都没离成,主要原因有三个: First, divorce calm period. 一,离婚冷静期。 In new marriage law, the divorce has one month of calm period, wants to divorce on first submits the divorce to apply, when one month of calm time passed, can go through the divorce procedure. 新的婚姻法中,离婚有一个月的冷静期,想要离婚就得先提交离婚申请,等一个月冷静期过了,才能办理离婚手续。 This marriage law comes, actually to protect these because of impulses the couple of divorce for a while, recalls the opportunity of marriage to them. The effect has, previously gold mountain with health/guard orchid repeatedly running civil administration bureau, because this month of calm period, but has not left. 这条婚姻法出炉,其实是为了保护那些因一时冲动而离婚的夫妻,给他们挽回婚姻的机会。效果还是有的,此前金山跟卫幽兰多次跑民政局,都因为这一个月的冷静期而没离成。 Second, child's struggle of the custody. 二,孩子的抚养权之争。 gold mountain had a female with health/guard orchid, the daughter this year was eight years old, quick must be the elementary school second grade, two people wanted daughter's custody, both sides did not yield mutually respectively, did not walk the prosecution to divorce this road, this marriage naturally to inadequate. 金山跟卫幽兰育有一女,女儿今年已经八岁了,很快就要上小学二年级了,两人都想要女儿的抚养权,双方各不相让,不走起诉离婚这条路,这婚自然就离不成。 Third, the ownership of house. 三,房子的归属。 The couple to let the child have the book to read provincial capital here, even if the economy does not permit, braced oneself to buy this house, for this reason owed a big debt, this was also one of reasons health/guard orchid often complained. 夫妻俩为了让孩子在省城这里有书读,哪怕经济不允许,也硬着头皮买了这套房子,为此欠下了一大笔债务,这也是卫幽兰经常抱怨的原因之一。 Is knows person who daily necessities, idea that no one has left home with only their clothes on their backs, therefore after the divorce, how this house should divide, two people have had the dispute. 都是知道柴米油盐的人,谁都没有净身出户的想法,所以离婚后这房子应该怎么分,两人一直都有争执。 Normal, should sell the house, then also falls the debt, the remaining money two people divide equally again. 正常来说,应该是把房子卖了,然后还掉债务,剩下的钱两人再平分。 But the couple also considered the daughter, if this house sold out, after the daughter elementary school graduates, where should go to study? Can't bring back to the countryside native place to read? 但夫妻俩也考虑到了女儿,这房子要是卖掉了,那女儿小学毕业后,该去哪里读书？总不能带回乡下老家读吧？ But person who the words that the house does not sell, receive the house, cannot draw cash the subsidy other side. 而房子不卖的话,接下房子的人,也拿不出钱来补贴另一方。 This is gold mountain with the primary cause that health/guard orchid has wanted to divorce actually not to leave. 这就是金山跟卫幽兰一直想离婚却没离成的主要原因。 But now, the heart of gold mountain is really tired, does not want to haggle over so many again, since, that had finished as early as possible, forces in also to suffer together mutually. 可现在,金山的心是真的累了,不想再计较那么多,既然过不下去,那就趁早结束吧,勉强在一起也不过是互相折磨罢了。 health/guard orchid in fit of temper, no matter how also gold mountain thinks, says immediately: „Ok, this was you said that the daughter turned over to me, the house also turned over to me, the child support payment you also obtained, if you agreed that that got through the divorce procedure you to pack the thing to get the hell out.” 卫幽兰正在气头上,也不管金山是怎么想的,立刻就接话道:“行,这可是你说的,女儿归我,房子也归我,还有抚养费你也得出,如果你同意的话,那等办完离婚手续你就收拾东西滚蛋。” gold mountain not with the meaning that she argued, stood saying: „Settled, has not gotten off work while the present civil administration bureau, we hurry to go through the formalities!” 金山没有跟她争辩的意思,站起来道:“就这么说定了,趁现在民政局还没有下班,咱们赶紧去办手续吧！” health/guard orchid without delay, throws down the mop to go to the room to take the household register and ID card of two people, then the going civil administration bureau of two people then familiar house. 卫幽兰二话不说,丢下拖把就回房间拿两人的户口本与身份证,然后两人便熟门熟路的前往民政局。