Jiang Feng is less than two meters with two female great distances, therefore two female talks he listens in the ear, curious under then examined one that to say oneself planted female materials continually the four times: 江枫跟两女相隔不到两米,所以两女的谈话他都听在耳里,好奇之下便查看了一下那个说自己连栽四次的女子资料: 【Name】 Chen Peiling 【姓名】陈沛玲 【Age】 26 years old 【年龄】26岁 【Height】 163 cm 【身高】163cm 【Body weight】 48 kg 【体重】48kg 【Character likes】...... 【性格喜好】…… 【Family background background】...... 【家世背景】…… 【Sentimental experience】...... 【感情经历】…… Read her material simply, Jiang Feng then continued to accompany the father-in-law mother-in-law to eat and drink, now found the person who he acted as a matchmaker is too many, when he does not need like just entered the line to find the person to sell. 简单看了一下她的资料,江枫便继续陪岳父岳母吃吃喝喝,现在找他做媒的人太多了,他已经不用像刚入行时那样找人推销了。 At present if this female is predestined friends, she will walk to ask him to act as a matchmaker, if misses that to toss about along with her own! 眼前这女子若是有缘,她自会找上门来请他做媒,若是无缘那就随她自己折腾吧！ forest Xue and Chen Peiling naturally do not know that has the matchmaker Grandmaster to sit by them, two people eat and drink while chat, topic basically centralized on man. 林雪与陈沛玲自然不知道有位媒人大师坐在她们旁边,两人一边吃喝一边闲聊,话题基本都集中在男人身上。 To around 8 : 00, two females of being satiated with food and wine pay to depart. 一直到八点多钟,吃饱喝足的两女才买单离去。 But Jiang Feng and the others also ate similarly, paid up to go out of this Gourou Hotpot. 而江枫等人也吃得差不多了,也结账走出了这家狗肉火锅店。 Then, Jiang Feng accompanies the father-in-law mother-in-law to stroll the digestion, walked probably for about a half hour, boards to go home. 接下来,江枫陪着岳父岳母闲逛消食,大概走了半个小时左右,才上车打道回府。 ...... …… Precious as gold city. 金贵市。 Happy matrimonial agency branch store. 幸福婚介所分店。 river Xueting the belly is receiving an exceptional customer in the office, the time that she is pregnant with own sister-in-law yellow Lingwei must early two months, now the belly is visibly pregnant. 江雪挺着肚子在办公室接待一个特殊客户,她怀孕的时间跟自家弟媳黄灵薇要早两个月,现在肚子已经显怀了。 Opened here happy matrimonial agency branch store, the business model is like the main office in Guangxi province provincial capital, basically does not need her to go into action to receive the customer personally. 原本开在这边的幸福婚介所分店,经营模式跟桂省省城的总店是一样的,基本上不用她亲自出马接待客户。 But if bumps into some exceptional customers, she will receive personally. 但如果碰到一些特殊客户,那她还是会亲自接待的。 For example the young attractive female customer that she receives now, is one has the female customer of peculiar requirement to the marriage, this female customer is not willing to fill in the customer registration form, but strongly requests to speak face-to-face with river snow head. 比如她现在接待的这个年轻漂亮的女客户,就是一个对婚姻有着特殊要求的女客户,这位女客户不愿意填写客户登记表,而是强烈要求跟江雪这个负责人进行面谈。 Had present one. 才有了现在的一幕。 After the smalltalk, saying that this young attractive female customer then comes straight to the point: „Did river matchmaker, I speak frankly I the request to the groom's family?” 在客套过后,这位年轻的漂亮女客户便开门见山的说道:“江媒人,我就直说我对男方的要求吧？” river Xue nods saying: „Un, you have anything to request to speak frankly, the request that so long as you set was reasonable, our matrimonial agency will meet your request as far as possible.” 江雪点头道:“嗯,你有什么要求就直说,只要你提出的要求合理,我们婚介所会尽量满足你的要求。” The attractive female customer said: „I the request to the groom's family am very simple, so long as he can satisfy ‚681 sounds’ the standard was OK.” 漂亮女客户说道:“我对男方的要求很简单,只要他能够满足‘六八一响’的标准就可以了。” „681 sounds?” “六八一响？” river Xue hears to be a little ignorant, what bridegroom's gift to bride's family noun is this? 江雪听得有点懵,这又是什么彩礼名词？ As the matchmaker, the river snow naturally is clear about our country in these years the bridegroom's gift to bride's family change. 作为媒人,江雪自然清楚我国这几十年来的彩礼变迁。 In the 1950s to the early 60's, the bridegroom's gift to bride's family to the cash, this cash bridegroom's gift to bride's family basically was the bride's side family/home brings to take a wife to use generally. 在上个世纪五十年代到六十年代早期,彩礼一般都是给现金,这笔现金彩礼基本都是女方家拿来娶媳妇用的。 But to the mid-60's, in the bridegroom's gift to bride's family presented part „going shopping” money, one of the money were used to give the bride to buy the thing mostly, for example new clothes new shoes, even pots and pans and other thing, these things will deliver to newly in Lang with the dowry of bride's side together, part is the private control goods of bride's side. 而到了六十年代中期,彩礼中出现了一部分“买东西”的钱,这些钱的一大部分被用来给新娘置办东西,比如新衣新鞋,甚至于锅碗瓢盆等物,这些东西会随着女方的嫁妆一起送到新郎家中,这一部分是属于女方的私人支配物品。 The preparations of these gifts are completed by both relatives or the guardians. 这些礼物的准备都是由双方亲戚或者家长来完成的。 The goods that in most situations, they purchase are the goods that the new family must use, afterward also appeared so-called „4 gather 1 project” is the table, stool, cabinet, bed and closet. 大多数情况下,他们所购买的物品都是新家庭必须要用的物品,后来也就出现了所谓的“四合一工程”即桌子、凳子、柜子、床和衣柜。 By the 70's, the bridegroom's gift to bride's family appeared famously „a three revolutions of sound”, is the watch, bicycle, sewing machine and radio. 到了七十年代,彩礼出现了大名鼎鼎的“三转一响”,也就是手表、自行车、缝纫机、收音机。 This bridegroom's gift to bride's family it can be said that affected one generation. 这彩礼可以说是影响了一代人。 In the 80's, three revolutions of loud bridegroom's gifts to bride's family transformed four big-ticket items, these four big-ticket items referred to the refrigerator, television, washer and tape recorder. 八十年代,三转一响的彩礼又转变成了四大件,这四大件指的是冰箱、电视机、洗衣机和录音机。 The bridegroom's gifts to bride's family of four big-ticket items are also of far-reaching influence. 四大件的彩礼同样影响深远。 Because to the 90's, the bridegroom's gift to bride's family as before is four big-ticket items, but these four big-ticket items turned into the color television, refrigerator, washer and air conditioning. 因为到了九十年代,彩礼依旧是四大件,只不过这四大件变成了彩电、冰箱、洗衣机和空调。 After the 21 st century, the economy of our country starts to develop rapidly, the bridegroom's gift to bride's family disbursement starts to present a rocket -type rise, the bridegroom's gift to bride's family also gradually transits from „quantitative change” to „qualitative change”. 等到进入二十一世纪后,我国的经济开始飞速发展,彩礼支出开始呈现一种火箭式的上升,彩礼也从“量变”逐渐过渡到“质变”。 Then, all kinds of nouns came out. 然后,各种各样的名词就出来了。 For example „three gold/metal belch smoke”, what again high first-level is „three gold/metal three sounds belches smoke”. 比如“三金一冒烟”,再高一级的是“三金三响一冒烟”。 Three gold/metal belch smoke refers to the gold ring, gold necklace and gold/metal earring, belches smoke to refer to the compact car. 三金一冒烟是指金戒指、金项链、金耳环,一冒烟指的是小汽车。 „Three jin (0.5 kg) hundred Yuan bill that if „ three gold/metal three sounds belch smoke” increase three sounds that refers to makes a sound( approximately 130,000) ”, is really the edition of promotion. 如果是“三金三响一冒烟”增加的三响指的是“哗哗响的三斤百元钞票(约13万)”,真可谓是升级的版本。 Is „a profusion of color green”, the profusion of color refers to 10,000 5 Yuan, 1000 100 Yuan, a piece refers to 50 Yuan green certain. 还有就是“万紫千红一片绿”,万紫千红指的是一万张五元,一千张100元,一片绿指的是50元若干。 Estimating slightly calculates probably is 15- among 200,000 Yuan. 估略算一下大概是15—20万元之间。 Also along with has „three jin (0.5 kg) that a profusion of color piece appears green 32”, refers to with calling to call three jin (0.5 kg) 32 one hundred dollar bill, according to current hundred Yuan new paper money 1.15 grams one calculates, three jin (0.5 kg) 32 are more than 140,000 is less than 150,000. 伴随着万紫千红一片绿出现的还有“三斤三两”,指的是用称来称三斤三两的百元大钞,按目前的百元新钞1.15克一张来算,三斤三两就是十四万多不到十五万。 Again is „motionless”, do not despise this motionlessly, this may be more flamboyant than the front these, „moves” refers to the automobile, minimum 100,000 starts. 再就是“一动不动”,千万别小看这一动不动,这可比前面的那些都要牛逼,“一动”指的是汽车,起码十万起步。 „Motionless” refers to the commodity apartment in city, if the first-tier city, is only pays a downpayment is hundreds of thousands, the entire that was needless to say. “不动”指的是城里的商品房,要是一线城市的话,光是付个首付都是好几十万,全款那就更加不用说了。 Then what rare and beautiful flowers is „two flings trilateral four wheels”, if this thing did not explain, you were unintelligible. 接下来更加奇葩的是“两甩三边四个轮”,这玩意要是不解释的话,你都不知所云。 „Two fling” the parents who refer to throwing off the groom's family, catches up with by far the parents of groom's family, is raises a son you to leave the prospect provides for old age again anything, when you cannot move, you run its own course. “两甩”指的是甩掉男方的父母,把男方的父母赶得远远的,也就是养个儿子你就别再指望防老什么的了,等你不能动了,你就自生自灭吧。 „Trilateral” first refers to the house of groom's family being probable in the street, is the typical house facing the street, even if oneself do not do business, the following house facing the street can hire. “三边”的第一边是指男方的房子要在马路边,是地地道道的门面房,即使自己不做生意,下面的门面房可以出租。 Second refers to the groom's family being probable to be the only son, the family property no one divides, is own. 第二边指男方必须是独生子,家产没有人去分,都是自己的。 Third wants the groom's family parents' health, and best is the working couples, after retiring, has the retirement pension, because only then such parents will not become the burden of young people, moreover having a child , the parents can also lend a hand, are helping attendance. 第三边是要男方父母的身体健康,并且最好是双职工,退休后有退休金,因为只有这样父母才不会成为年轻人的累赘,而且生了孩子后,父母还能搭把手,帮着照顾照顾。 „Four wheels” are good to understand, refers to the automobile, when three gold/metal belch smoke, the automobile became the standard configuration in bridegroom's gift to bride's family. “四个轮”好理解,指的是汽车,早在三金一冒烟的时候,汽车都成了彩礼中的标配了。 May in numerous views, river Xue actually not hear what „681 sounds”, bridegroom's gift to bride's family noun that this comes out newly? 可在众多说法中,江雪却从来没听说过什么“六八一响”的,这难道是新出来的彩礼名词？ Does not understand asked, river Xue has not beaten around the bush, asked directly: „Ms. upright, I am please friendless and unlearned, does not know that this ‚681 sounds’ what do refer to?” 不懂就问,江雪也没有转弯抹角,直接问道:“耿女士,请恕我孤陋寡闻,不知道这‘六八一响’指的是什么？” Ms. upright shot a look at river Xue one eyes, said confidently: „68 in 681 sound refer to 18 y, 18......, 18......, 180 cm and 180, 180 W, a sound refers to the car(riage).” 耿女士瞥了江雪一眼,坦然说道:“六八一响中的六八指的是18y、18……、18……、180cm、180、180W,一响指的是车。” river Xue hears to be a little ignorant, but she has gotten married after all, slowly ponders over, finally understands 68 that the opposite party said were what meanings. 江雪听得还是有点懵,不过她毕竟是嫁过人的,慢慢一琢磨,终于明白对方所说的六八到底是什么意思了。 While sighing with emotion opposite party bold, river Xue also has to decline saying: „Ms. upright, is really embarrassed, your request, our matrimonial agency cannot achieve.” 在感慨对方大胆的同时,江雪也不得不拒绝道:“耿女士,真是不好意思,你的这个要求,我们婚介所做不到。” Ms. upright frowns saying: „River matchmaker, my request is very low.” 耿女士蹙眉道:“江媒人,我这要求已经很低了。” Helpless river Xue said: „Ms. upright, if 681 sounds change to 481 sounds, 18...... with 18...... removes, I can take responsibility to help you actually look for a right object.” 江雪无奈道:“耿女士,如果六八一响改成四八一响,把18……跟18……去掉,那我倒是可以作主帮你物色个合适的对象。” Ms. upright looks that river Xue said with a smile: „ River matchmaker, you were intertwining this, I know that this little forces someone to do something against his will, these two points that therefore you proposed had room for certain fluctuation, does not need to be decided. 耿女士看着江雪笑道:“江媒人,原来你是在纠结这个啊,我知道这个有点强人所难,所以你提出的这两点有一定的浮动空间,没必要定死。 I integrate in which these two points ; first, for of pleasant to hear ; second, really has certain request to these two points, the river matchmakers you are also a seasoned person, should understand. ” 我之所以把这两点纳入其中,一是为了好听,二是对这两点也确实有一定的要求,江媒人你也是过来人,应该懂的。” River snow complexion slightly red saying: „Ms. upright, I understands your meaning, this, you, if really has the request to these two points, you to the main office in our happy matrimonial agency, there should be able to meet your request directly.” 江雪脸色微红的说道:“耿女士,我明白你的意思,这样吧,你要是真对这两点有要求,那你就直接到我们幸福婚介所的总店去,那里应该能满足你的要求。” Ms. upright said with amazement: „Your branch store with the information of main office is not sharing?” 耿女士惊讶道:“你们分店跟总店的信息不是共享的吗？” River trail: „The information of two shops are sharing, but Grandmaster river in main office is my younger brother, Ms. upright you set such request, when my elder sister discussed this with own younger brother, was that awkward?” 江雪道:“两家店的信息是共享的,但总店的江大师是我弟,耿女士你提出这样的要求,我一个当姐姐的跟自己的弟弟谈这个,那多尴尬啊？” Ms. upright said suddenly: „Good, I understood, for my natural luck, runs one toward the Guangxi province provincial capital that I can only go to the trouble of traveling a long distance.” 耿女士恍然道:“好吧,我明白了,为了我的性福,我只能不远千里的往桂省省城跑一趟了。” Saying of some river snow apologies: „Ms. upright, my here entertains inconsiderately, was really sorry.” 江雪有些歉意的说道:“耿女士,我这边招待不周,真是抱歉。” Ms. upright stands saying: „river Meiren was polite, I did not disturb you, bye!” 耿女士站起来道:“江媒人客气了,那我就不打扰你了,再见！” „Un, bye!” “嗯,再见！” Gazes after Ms. upright to leave, river Xue cannot bear the feeling, acted as a matchmaker to do for a long time, was really what rare and beautiful flowers customer can meet. 目送耿女士离开,江雪忍不住感慨,做媒做得久了,真是什么样的奇葩客户都能遇到。 ...... …… Next afternoon. 次日下午。 The Guangxi province provincial capital, that pretty Ms. upright then appears in the happy matrimonial agency main office, and saw charming Grandmaster river in the office. 桂省省城,那位漂亮的耿女士便出现在幸福婚介所总店,并在办公室里见到了帅气的江大师。 The both sides smalltalk, then started to discuss the proper business, then Ms. upright her „681 sounds” marriage seeker requirements saying. 双方客套了一番,便开始谈正事,然后耿女士就把她那“六八一响”的征婚要求给说了出来。 „681 sounds” are Ms. upright the homemade noun. “六八一响”是耿女士自创的名词。 Requests to raise naturally after this marriage seeker, does not need Grandmaster river to inquire, Ms. upright then explained one by one: „Grandmaster river, this in 68 18 y, refers to the young people. 18......, you understand. 18......, understand. 180 cm, refers to the height. 180, refer to the house area. 180 W, refers to the deposit. A sound, did not need to explain.” 把这个征婚要求大大方方的提出来后,不待江大师询问,耿女士便逐一解释道:“江大师,这六八中的18y,指的是年轻人。18……,你懂的。18……,都懂得哈。180cm,指的是身高。180,指的是房子面积。180W,指的是存款。一响,想必就不用多解释了。” Jiang Feng hear of her 11 explanations, was opened mind, he said: „Ms. upright, your request I remembered, other aspects said that but 18...... with 18...... were compares the privacy the thing, me did not have the means to vouch to you.” 江枫听她一一解释,也算是开了眼界了,他说道:“耿女士,你的要求我记下了,其他方面好说,但18……跟18……是比较隐私的东西,我这边也没办法给你打包票。” Ms. upright took attractive madam wrapping to stand, put out a hand toward Jiang Feng, says with a smile: „Grandmaster river, I believes that you are acting as a matchmaker this strength, anticipates your good news.” 耿女士提着一个漂亮的女士包站了起来,朝江枫伸出手,笑道:“江大师,我相信您在做媒这一块的实力,期待您的好消息。” Jiang Feng put out a hand to grasp with her, said with a smile: „Many thanks the trust, I can only say that does everything possible.” 江枫伸手跟她握了一下,笑道:“多谢信任,我只能说尽力而为。” Then, Jiang Feng helps Ms. upright photograph, both sides exchanged the contact method again, Ms. upright then said goodbye to depart. 接下来,江枫帮耿女士拍了张照片,双方再交换了联系方式,耿女士便告辞离去。 ...... …… In the evening, on lying down bed time, Jiang Feng then demanded with the wife the marriage seeker of Ms. upright, then sighed with emotion: „The present female is extraordinary, coming to the matrimonial agency to seek marriage, dares to raise including the request of such privacy, really cannot but is convinced.” 晚上,躺床上的时候,江枫便把耿女士的征婚要求跟老婆说了一遍,然后感慨道:“现在的女性了不得啊,来婚介所征婚,连这么隐私的要求都敢提出来,真是不服都不行。” yellow Lingwei said: „Height deposit house vehicle is the quite normal request, but in addition that two privacy request a little rare and beautiful flowers, this female customer what background?” 黄灵薇道:“身高存款房子车子都算是比较正常的要求,但加上那两个隐私要求就有点奇葩了,这女客户啥来头啊？” Jiang Feng said: „Her parents do medical beautiful, the family is well-off, possibly was the living conditions created this quite open character!” 江枫道:“她父母是搞医美的,家境还算不错,可能是生活环境造成了她这种比较开放的性格吧！” yellow Lingwei asked: „Does husband, how you prepare to do? Does the real plan go to look for the object according to this standard to her?” 黄灵薇问道:“老公,那你准备怎么做？真打算照着她这个标准去给她物色对象啊？” Jiang Feng said with a smile: „I do not need to manage what standard, so long as gives her to calculate the marriage affinity, then discovered her son of heaven to be OK.” 江枫笑道:“我不用理什么标准,只要给她推算一下姻缘,然后找出她的真命天子就可以了。” yellow Lingwei nods saying: „Also right, since is the son of heaven, definitely is the person who she likes, that aspects should meet her request.” 黄灵薇点头道:“也对,既然是真命天子,肯定就是她喜欢的人,那方方面面应该都会满足她的要求。” „Did not say her, today how do you feel? What has not comfortably?” “不说她,你今天感觉怎么样？有什么不舒服的吗？” „I eat well rest well, the woman most tossed about morning sickness has not looked for me, it seems like in the belly this little fellow loves dearly mother.” “我吃得好睡得好,女人最受折腾的孕吐没有找上我,看来肚子里这个小家伙还是心疼母亲的。” „Un, he in the future definitely is a filial son......” “嗯,他将来肯定是个孝顺的儿子……” The couple lay on the bed is speaking the heart-to-heart talk, supported to rest to around 9 : 00 pm. 夫妻俩躺在床上说着知心话,一直到晚上 9 点多才相拥而睡。 ...... …… In an instant to July. 转眼到了7月。 The female student bedroom in Lu Shengmou university, is longer much the female student to lie on the bed, two lost looks at a mosquito on mosquito net, the mind is not knowing where early fluttered. 鲁省某大学的女生寝室,一个长得娇小玲珑的女生躺在床上,两眼怔怔出神的望着蚊帐上的一只蚊子,心神早不知道飘到哪里去了。 The female students are called neatly, will be the graduating students. 女生名叫楚楚,是即将毕业的大四学生。 Is introverted neatly, usually always lowers the head, is a society fears, because does not like speaking, the university four years in the class like the invisible man, having the feeling are extremely low. 楚楚性格内向,平时总是低着头,是一名社恐,因为不爱说话,大学四年在班里就像个隐形人一样,存在感极低。 Also with the bedroom sisters, the neat words slightly are many. 也就跟寝室里的姐妹,楚楚的话才稍微多一点。 Just went to college neatly, was not clear the male student who her personality has pursued her, moreover incessantly, after all neat face value, that delicate and exquisite stature, compared with asking for happily, having the male student likes being normal. 楚楚刚上大学的时候,还有不清楚她性格的男生追求过她,而且还不止一个,毕竟楚楚的颜值还是可以的,那娇小玲珑的身材,也比较讨喜,有男生喜欢是正常的。 However, cannot make stuffy fart facing three sticks the neatness, these male students were repulsed. 不过,面对三棍子打不出一个闷屁的楚楚,那些男生都败退了。 Four years of university professions, the bedroom sisters take off/escape the list one after another, is only left over neatly is only the single dog, several other sisters were also once helping bringing both sides together, what a pity neat does not catch cold to others, after the male students suffered several cold receptions, finally gave up. 四年的大学生涯,寝室里的姐妹都相继脱单,就只剩下楚楚还是只单身狗,其他几个姐妹也曾帮着牵线搭桥,可惜楚楚对人家不感冒,人家男生遭受了几次冷遇后,最后都放弃了。 Now, saw that the university life must end, had the concern neatly. 如今,眼看大学生活就要结束了,楚楚却有了心事。 No one knows, she has actually liked a male schoolmate, but spiritless she does not dare to vindicate, even does not dare to know that she likes him, but silently is unrequited loving the opposite party. 没有人知道,她其实早就喜欢上一个男同学了,只是性格懦弱的她不敢表白,甚至不敢让人知道她喜欢他,只是默默的在暗恋着对方。 Unrequited loves unrequited loves, she thought that likes the opposite party being also good on this silently, particularly the university four years of opposite party same has not been in love with her, she is very happy. 暗恋就暗恋吧,她觉得就这样默默喜欢着对方也挺好的,尤其是大学四年对方跟她一样没有谈恋爱,她还挺开心的。 But must graduate shortly, henceforth two place great distances, want to meet again only then and other gatherings, thought of here, in the neat heart feels very uncomfortable. 可眼看就要毕业了,从此两地相隔,再想见面就只有等同学聚会了,一想到这里,楚楚心中就觉得非常难受。 She knows, once leaves the campus, she with him really not possibly. 她知道,一旦离开校园,她跟他就真的没有可能了。 She wants to have the courage to vindicate to him innumerable, but edited each time the vindicating information, did not have the courage to transmit. 她无数次想鼓起勇气向他表白,可每次把表白信息都编辑好了,就是没有勇气发送出去。 She hates oneself spiritless, does not have the ability to change. 她痛恨自己的懦弱,却又没能力做出改变。 Immediately everyone must drift apart, the bedroom sisters went out to accompany the boyfriend, stared at that only to eat the heavy-jowled and potbellied big mosquito to look at half sound neatly, does not know at heart after many time struggled, put out the cell phone again, unrequited loving WeChat of object moved. 马上大家就要各奔东西,寝室里的姐妹都出去陪男朋友了,楚楚盯着那只吃得脑满肠肥的大蚊子看了半响,心里不知道经过多少次挣扎,才再次拿出手机,把暗恋对象的微信调了出来。