Dragon Boat Festival, said that Dragon Boat Festival, the dragon boat festivals, heavy five, fifth day of the fifth lunar month, the date on every year 5 th day of the fifth lunar month, is the collection worships the ancestor worship, to pray to exorcise evil spirits and joyfully celebrate the entertainment and diet as one folk political integrity. 端午节,又称端阳节、龙舟节、重五节、天中节等,日期在每年农历五月初五,是集拜神祭祖、祈福辟邪、欢庆娱乐和饮食为一体的民俗大节。 Dragon Boat Festival eats the steamed rice dumpling, this is the custom that the people strike root in the hearts of the people. 端午节吃粽子,这已经是国人深入人心的习俗了。 But every year Dragon Boat Festival eats the steamed rice dumpling time, would a hot topic braving: The salty steamed rice dumpling and sweet steamed rice dumpling, who is the king of genuine steamed rice dumpling? 而每年端午节吃粽子的时候,总会有一个热门话题冒出来:咸粽子和甜粽子,谁才是真正的粽子之王？ Liked the southern netizen of salty steamed rice dumpling saying that the sweet steamed rice dumpling was the heresy, liked the northern netizen of sweet steamed rice dumpling saying that the salty steamed rice dumpling was difficult to eat dead, both sides online ripped are heavily engaged, you refused to accept my me also to refuse to accept you. 喜欢咸粽子的南方网友说甜粽子是异端,喜欢甜粽子的北方网友说咸粽子难吃到死,双方在网上撕得是不可开交,你不服我我也不服你。 Even if the big data statistics, the sales volume of salty steamed rice dumpling is 4 times of sweet steamed rice dumpling, supports the southern netizen of salty steamed rice dumpling to win is too many, but supports the northern netizen of sweet steamed rice dumpling to refuse to accept, they think that sweet steamed rice dumpling sell little has the reason, because the sweet steamed rice dumpling is good to wrap, everyone will wrap at home, the salty steamed rice dumpling is difficult to do, naturally can only online buy. 哪怕大数据统计,咸粽子的销量是甜粽子的四倍,支持咸粽子的南方网友胜出太多,但支持甜粽子的北方网友还是不服,他们认为甜粽子出售量少是有原因的,因为甜粽子好包,大家都会在家里包,咸粽子难搞,当然只能在网上买了。 The southern netizen will certainly not approve such view, therefore opens new round of battle. 南方网友当然不会认可这样的说法,于是又开启新一轮battle。 What is strange, the steamed rice dumpling is south Xianbei is sweet, but changes into the soft bean curd it, actually turned in turn south sweet north salty, the same thing, the taste differences of north-south two places are very mysterious. 古怪的是,粽子是南咸北甜,而把它换成豆腐脑,却又反过来变成了南甜北咸,同样的东西,南北两地的口味差异是真的很神奇。 In some Guangxi province Yulin yard, strict Shuya is making the steamed rice dumpling with mother. 在桂省郁林市某个大院,严淑雅正跟母亲包着粽子。 strict Shuya or miss time, 1 meter 60 height, is only 84 jin (0.5 kg), at that time truly was too thin a point. Until under the Grandmaster river introduction, married history hero second generation of rich who is operating a high-end private club, after parallel intergrowth a son, her stature is plentiful. 严淑雅还是姑娘的时候,一米60的身高,却只有84斤,那个时候确实是太瘦了一点。直到在江大师的介绍下,嫁给了史英豪这个经营着一家高端私人会所的富二代,并生了一个儿子后,她的身材才丰腴起来。 Now, her body weight has risen 98 jin (0.5 kg), however this/should thin place is that thin, the meat basically was long this/should long place, the stature, when miss was better a lot, in any case her husband regarding her present stature, that is very satisfied. 如今,她的体重已经上升到了98斤,然而该瘦的地方还是那么瘦,肉基本都长到了该长的地方,身材比当姑娘的时候要好得多了,反正她老公对于她现在的身材,那是非常满意的。 At this time, mother and daughter package of steamed rice dumplings while is chatting the gossip. 此时,母女俩一边包粽子一边聊着家长里短。 Ms. Yan mainly inquired that the daughter crosses in the husband's family's home is good, although usually telephones a round of WeChat, the daughters said that she crosses very well, the husband loves her, the parents-in-law are also good to her, but Ms. Yan also feared that the daughter reports the good news and not the bad, must inquire over and over can feel relieved. 严母主要询问女儿在婆家过得好不好,虽然平时打电话发微信,女儿都说她过得很好,老公疼爱她,公公婆婆对她也非常好,但严母也怕女儿是报喜不报忧,总要再三询问才能放心。 Saying that strict Shuya is very happy: „ Mother, you felt relieved that I really cross now very well in the historian, mother -in-law is not that person who is difficult to be together, her thought is enlightened, basically does not interfere with our life. 严淑雅喜上眉梢的说道:“妈,你就放心吧,我现在在史家是真的过得很好,婆婆不是那种难相处的人,她的思想还是蛮开明的,基本不怎么干涉我们的生活。 Moreover, in child's educational problem, I am consistent with my mother-in-law's opinion, meets did not have the generation gap mother-in-law like this reasonably, is really my luck. ” 而且,在孩子的教育问题上,我跟我婆婆的意见是一致的,遇到这样通情达理还没有代沟的婆婆,真的是我的幸运。” Ms. Yan hears word then satisfied saying with a smile: „Like this I felt relieved, Grandmaster river is acting as a matchmaker this is really great, not only considered that your couples about do not compatible, considering that with can compatible with the parents-in-law, the intermediary that like this guarantees thinks that is unhappy difficultly.” 严母闻言这才满意的笑道:“这样我就放心了,江大师在做媒这一块真是没得说,不仅仅考虑到你们夫妻合不合得来,还考虑到跟跟公公婆婆能不能合得来,这样保出来的媒想不幸福都难。” strict Shuya nods to say with a smile: „Grandmaster river is truly fierce, initially he found my design office saying that must to me introduce object time, I also gave to reject him, he has not given up me luckily, turns head and looks for you, finally reconciled this marriage affinity.” 严淑雅笑着点头道:“江大师确实厉害,当初他找到我设计室说要给我介绍对象的时候,我还把他给拒绝了,幸好他没有放弃我,回过头来又找上了你,最终撮合了这桩姻缘。” Ms. Yan recalled that initially with the scene that Grandmaster river met, quite contented saying with a smile: „ Fact showed that I look at the vision of person am good, if I same rejected with you, you want to marry the historian such family, basically does not have the opportunity. 严母回想起当初跟江大师见面的情景,颇为自得的笑道:“事实证明我看人的眼光还是不错的,要是我跟你一样把人拒绝了,那你想嫁进史家这样的家庭,基本是没机会的。 Then, your father estimated that also stays in Bailiang District there, when his district leader, where has the opportunity to be promoted to become the leadership of city! ” 如此一来,你爸估计还留在百梁县那里当他的县领导,哪有机会升职成为市里的领导啊！” strict Shuya flattered mother several, asked: „Brother-in-law who mother, I remembers Grandmaster river also in some Bailiang District game of assignment?” 严淑雅奉承了母亲几句,才问道:“妈,我记得江大师的小叔也在百梁县某局任职？” Ms. Yan said: „Has this matter, I listen to your father to raise a mouth, how?” 严母道:“是有这回事,我听你爸提过一嘴,怎么了？” strict Shuya said: „It‘s nothing, is Grandmaster river the present human relations are unusual, you let the brother-in-law who my father takes care of Grandmaster river, maintains this relations, to my father, only then the advantage does not have the fault.” 严淑雅道:“没什么,就是江大师现在的人脉关系非同一般,你让我爸多照顾江大师的小叔,维护好这个关系,对我爸只有好处没有坏处。” Ms. Yan said with a smile: „This you felt relieved that adds in this aspect our mother and daughter, cannot compare your father, your father also asked the brother-in-law of Grandmaster river to have several food with this year to the family/home in last year, the relational place should be very good.” 严母笑道:“这个你就放心吧,在这方面我们母女俩加起来,都比不上你爸,你爸去年跟今年还请江大师的小叔到家里来吃过几次饭,关系处得应该还是很不错的。” strict Shuya smiles, then no longer talked about this topic, then chatted child's matter. 严淑雅笑了笑,便不再聊这个话题,转而聊起了孩子的事。 ...... …… „National richest place in Guangdong, poorest place also in Guangdong.” Although these words saying somewhat exaggeratingly, but can also see that the gap between rich and poor of Guangdong was much big. “全国最富的地方在广东,最穷的地方也在广东。”这句话虽然说得有些夸张,但也可以看出广东的贫富差距有多大了。 The richest place was needless saying that did the famous Pearl River Delta area understand? 最富的地方就不用说了,大名鼎鼎的珠三角地区了解一下？ But the poorest place, other cities did not say, Shanwei definitely qualifies. 而最穷的地方,其他城市不说,汕尾肯定是榜上有名的。 Yang Qing lian is a typical native of Shanwei, at present is the officer in a company of Shenzhen stock market, although the wages are not high, but from 9 to 5, does not need to work overtime every day, in the weekend can also double rest, this relaxed work regarding the girl is very appropriate. 杨青莲便是地地道道的汕尾人,目前在深市的一家公司当文员,工资虽然不高,但每天朝九晚五,不用加班,周末还可以双休,这种轻松的工作对于女孩子来说还是很合适的。 In any case, Yang Qing lian is very satisfied her present work. 反正,杨青莲就挺满意她现在的工作。 Yang Qing lian was born an ordinary household in Shanwei, when her several years old father died of illness, her mother person raises her laboriously, in that year that she starts the work, her mother also because of tired excessively fell ill. 杨青莲出生于汕尾的一个普通家庭,在她几岁的时候父亲就病逝了,她母亲一个人辛辛苦苦把她拉扯大,在她参加工作的那一年,她母亲也因为劳累过度而病倒了。 Therefore, filial Yang Qing lian then does not make mother stay in the native place to do again lives laboriously, but brings to recuperate the body mother to Shenzhen stock market slowly. 于是,孝顺的杨青莲便不让母亲再留在老家干辛苦活,而是把母亲带到深市去慢慢调养身体。 Has recuperated for more than one year, Ms. Yang gradually recovers. 一直调养了一年多,杨母的身体才逐渐恢复过来。 However, Yang Qing lian did not make mother do the heavy labor, although her officer wages are not high, but is saving a flower, enough supported their mother and child. 不过,杨青莲一直不让母亲干重活,她的文员工资虽然不高,但省着点花,也足够养活她们母子俩了。 Ms. Yang is only fifty years old, the retirement age, has not been willing to make the daughter raise, then insisted that must go out to have the odd-job. 只是杨母才五十几岁,还不到退休年龄,不愿意这么早就让女儿养,便坚持要出去打零工。 Yang Qing lian sees mother attitude to be firm, then makes a few rules for all concerned with mother, goes out to have the odd-job to be able, but can only make some relaxed living, even if the income is also little all right, cannot to make money again like before body destroying, then on gain does not equal the loss. 杨青莲见母亲态度坚决,便跟母亲约法三章,出去打零工可以,但只能做些轻松的活,哪怕收入少也没事,不能为了赚钱再像之前一样把身体给搞垮了,那就得不偿失了。 Regarding this Ms. Yang naturally does not have the opinion, she goes out to hit the goal of odd-job is to lighten daughter's burden, rather than must increase daughter's burden, she cannot certainly the body destroying. 对此杨母自然没有意见,她出去打零工的目的是减轻女儿的负担,而不是要增加女儿的负担,她当然不能把身体给搞垮了。 So, several years pass by, mother and daughter have lived in Shenzhen stock market this international metropolis, crosses is not needing to worry about food or clothing even Dan to live. 如此,几年过去,母女俩一直生活在深市这种国际大都市,过着衣食无忧的平澹生活。 Although works for several years not to accumulate how much money, but mother and daughter were also content. 尽管工作几年也没攒下多少钱,但母女俩也知足了。 Makes Ms. Yang anxious only, is daughter's matter of lifetime importance. 唯一让杨母揪心的,就是女儿的终身大事。 Her daughter this year was 28 years old, when except for university has made a boyfriend, after graduating bids good-bye, has not made the second boyfriend again. 她女儿今年已经28岁了,可除了大学时交过一个男朋友,毕业分手后就再也没交过第二个男朋友。 Ms. Yang was clear, depending on her daughter's stature look, wants to ask the favorable marriage partner is not actually difficult, but her daughter to let her crosses to live, then stubbornly card two conditions: 杨母心里清楚,凭她女儿的身材相貌,想找个条件不错的结婚对象其实并不难,只是她女儿为了让她过上好生活,便死死卡着两个条件: First, the request groom's family has the house. 一,要求男方有房子。 Second, must live with her mother after marriage together, takes care of parents to her mother. 二,婚后要跟她母亲一起住,给她母亲养老送终。 Suspends on these two conditions, making her daughter nobody will ask to the present. 就这两个条件摆出来,让她女儿一直到现在都无人问津。 The first condition is not strange, now this age marriage requirements groom's family had the room to have the car(riage) is the elementary operation eo, the issue was main in the second condition. 第一个条件倒不奇怪,现在这个年代结婚要求男方有房有车已经是基本操作了,问题主要出在第二个条件。 As the only child, mother takes care of parents to the bride's side is the duty, don't even go there, what the groom's family could not accept was mother -in-law must live with them together. 身为独生子女,给女方母亲养老送终原本就是义务,没什么好说的,男方接受不了的是丈母娘要一直跟他们一起生活。 After all, now is an only child, can't only lead mother of bride's side to live not to lead own parents together? 毕竟,现在很多都是独生子女,总不能只带着女方的母亲一起生活而不带自己的父母吧？ If brings to live together, that scene light is thinks to feel big, was too constrained, moreover lives is together easy to produce the contradiction. 要是都带着一起生活,那场面光是想想都觉得头大,实在太拘束了,而且住一起容易产生矛盾。 Marriage that for does not affect the daughter, Ms. Yang has chatted this matter with the daughter, when the daughter married, that side her returning to one's old home lives. 为了不影响女儿的婚姻,杨母跟女儿聊过这个事,等女儿结婚了,她就回老家那边生活。 Her daughter is filial, is not willing to let this , when mother has returned to one's old home that hard times, insisted that must live with her after marriage together, leading her to enjoy happiness. 只是她女儿孝顺,不愿意让她这个当母亲的回老家过那种苦日子,坚持婚后要跟她一起生活,带她享福。 Ms. Yang both gratified and helpless, can only let matters drift. 杨母既欣慰又无奈,只能听之任之。 Today, Ms. Yang met a work that distributes the circular, to a restaurant that does the tenth anniversary feedback new and old customer distributes the circular, worked she not to know that similarly for these years made many, the experience enriched very much. 今天,杨母接了一份发传单的工作,是给一家搞十周年回馈新老客户的餐厅发传单,类似的工作她这几年不知道做了多少,经验丰富得很。 Distributed 2-3 hours of circular continuously, after Ms. Yang issues a makings aloof youth handsome fellow the last circular, relaxes slightly. 连续发了2-3个小时的传单,当杨母把最后一张传单发给一个气质超然的青年帅哥后,才微微松了口气。 Now this age, distributing the circular is not an easy matter, now business's request is also higher and higher, before distributed the circular, was the person is the ghost passed by fort one, so long as sent to draw cash the circular completely. 如今这个年代,发传单也不是一件容易的事情,现在商家的要求也是越来越高,以前发传单,是人是鬼路过都要塞一张,只要把传单全部发出去就可以拿钱。 But now was different, the circular must issue the potential customer, that set of child has not worked to the old person the circular stopper. 而现在不一样了,传单要发给潜在客户,把传单塞给老人小孩的那一套已经行不通了。 When Ms. Yang is about to go home to have the lunch, the youth handsome fellow who last attains the circular has the sound said suddenly: „Aunt, you and other.” 就在杨母准备回家吃午饭的时候,最后一个拿到传单的青年帅哥忽然出声道:“阿姨,你等一下。” Ms. Yang is hanging the smile: „Handsome fellow, has anything unclear to the activity, although asked me.” 杨母挂着笑容道:“帅哥,对活动有什么不清楚的,尽管问我。” „Aunt, I do not want to ask the matter of activity.” “阿姨,我不是想问活动的事。” „Handsome fellow, are you?” “帅哥,那你是？” Youth handsome guy dao: „Aunt, I want to inquire to you, in the circle that you live has the nubile attractive miss?” 青年帅哥道:“阿姨,我是想向你打听一下,你生活的圈子里有没有适婚的漂亮姑娘？” Ms. Yang hears word is startled: „Did handsome fellow, you ask this doing? Is you wants to look for the marriage partner?” 杨母闻言一怔:“帅哥,你问这个干嘛？难道是你想找结婚对象？” Youth handsome guy shakes the head to say with a smile: „Aunt, I have married, I am helping others look for the partner.” 青年帅哥摇头笑道:“阿姨,我已经结婚了,我是在帮别人找对象。” „Helps others look for the partner?” “帮别人找对象？” In Ms. Yang mind the miraculous glow flashes, blurted out: „Handsome fellow, are you a matchmaker?” 杨母脑海中灵光一闪,脱口而出道:“帅哥,你是媒人？” Youth handsome guy nods to say with a smile: „Good, I called Jiang Feng, was the matchmaker in happy matrimonial agency.” 青年帅哥点头笑道:“不错,我叫江枫,是幸福婚介所的媒人。” Ms. Yang said with amazement: „You are really a matchmaker, generally acts as a matchmaker is middle-aged people and old people, works as the matchmaker like you young is really very rare.” 杨母惊讶道:“你还真是媒人啊,一般做媒的都是中老年人,像你这么年轻就当媒人的还真是挺少见的。” Jiang Feng said with a smile: „Matchmaker is actually similar to the doctor, is on an age, seemingly had the rich experience, can trust.” 江枫笑道:“媒人其实跟医生差不多,都是上点年纪,看起来有了丰富的经验,才能让人信任。” Nod of Ms. Yang approves, then somewhat curious asking: „River matchmaker, does not know that what situation invited you that person who helped look for the partner is? You tell me, has a look in my life circle, suits his miss.” 杨母认可的点了点头,然后有些好奇的问道:“江媒人,不知道请你帮忙找对象的那个人是什么情况？你跟我说一说,看看我的生活圈子里,有没有适合他的姑娘。” Jiang Feng shows a faint smile, introduced: „ My this customer this year is 34 years old, 1.74 meters in height, the native place is bead, in childhood followed the parents to move to Shenzhen stock market together, the family condition was good. 江枫微微一笑,介绍道:“我这位客户今年34岁,身高1米74,老家是珠市的,小时候跟随父母一起搬到深市定居,家庭条件不错。 What a pity the person has the imminent fortune and misfortune, he has not reached 18 -year-old, his parents then had/left the accident/surprise, both leaves the world, making him an orphan. ” 可惜人有旦夕祸福,他还没满十八岁,他的父母便出了意外,双双离世,让他成为了一位孤儿。” Hears here, Ms. Yang were many a sympathy to this child and being intimate with, because she is also an orphan, the parents are also walk accidentally/surprisingly, moreover her husband also when the daughter is little died of illness. 听到这里,杨母对这孩子便多了一份同情与亲近,因为她也是孤儿,父母也是出意外走的,而且她老公也在女儿还小的时候就病死了。 Jiang Feng continues saying: „ Parents' accident/surprise leaves the world, although makes him greatly disappointed, but he does not have to be therefore deliberately bad, but chose going abroad to study. Ten years ago, he studies abroad to return from the US, then sold out the parents to leave his house, started an undertaking. 江枫继续说道:“父母的意外离世,虽然让他大受打击,但他没有因此而自暴自弃,而是选择了出国留学。就在十年前,他从米国留学归来,然后卖掉了父母留给他的那套房子,开始创业。 Now ten years pass by, his company also makes money, the house that in the past sold out also bought, but also had one to develop the good company, the current economic condition could be said as very good. ” 如今十年过去,他公司也赚了些钱,当年卖掉的房子也买回来了,还拥有了一家发展良好的公司,经济条件可以说是非常不错的了。” Ms. Yang is only because curious inquired that the situation of Jiang Feng this customer, listens to listen finally, some of her suddenly heart movements, this is a very outstanding man, is very appropriate with her daughter. 原本杨母只是因为好奇才询问江枫这位客户的情况,结果听着听着,她忽然有些心动了,这是一个非常优秀的男人,配她女儿还挺合适的。 Thinks of here, Ms. Yang impatient asking of: „River matchmaker, does not know that your customer regarding the marriage partner, what does have to request?” 想到这里,杨母迫不及待的问道:“江媒人,不知道你这位客户对于结婚对象,有什么要求？” Heard this question, Jiang Feng knows Ms. Yang heart movement, then saying with a laugh: „ My this customer's request is very simple, did not seek the family circumstances of bride's side well, did not ask her school record high, did not ask her to grow attractively, similarly did not seek her working ability strongly. 听到这个问话,江枫就知道杨母心动了,便笑呵呵的说道:“我这位客户的要求很简单,不求女方的家境有多好,不求她学历有多高,也不求她长得有多漂亮,同样不求她工作能力有多强。 He only wants to look for a gentle virtuous woman, tired what wanted tired to go home to wait for itself outside was a gentle harbor, rather than for some petty minor matters noisily continuous. ” 他只想找个温柔贤惠的女人,希望在外面累了倦了回家等待自己的是个温柔的港湾,而不是为了一些鸡毛蒜皮的小事吵闹不休。” Thinks own daughter's personality, Ms. Yang somewhat cannot help but excited, said: „River matchmaker, this was actually skillful, my side also really has a miss who conforms to your customer to request.” 想到自家女儿的性格,杨母不由得有些激动了,说道:“江媒人,这倒是巧了,我身边还真有个符合你这位客户要求的姑娘。” Jiang Feng naturally knows that she refers to anyone, but saying of coordination: „That was too good, now the time, the aunt I do not ask you to eat meal early, turn head you this miss introduced that knows to me?” 江枫自然知道她指的是谁,但还是配合的说道:“那就太好了,现在时间也不早了,阿姨我请你吃饭,回头你把这位姑娘介绍给我认识可以吗？” Ms. Yang embarrassed saying of: „River matchmaker, must please eat meal is also I asks you to be right, the miss who because I just said is not others, is my daughter Yang Qing lian.” 杨母不好意思的说道:“江媒人,要请吃饭也是我请你才对,因为我刚刚说的这位姑娘不是别人,正是我的女儿杨青莲。” „That was really skillful!” “那还真是太巧了！” Saying that Jiang Feng smiles: „Aunt, front has the family/home chain fast-food, how do we pass to want a fast-food to chat while eating?” 江枫满脸笑容的说道:“阿姨,前面有家连锁快餐,咱们过去要份快餐边吃边聊怎么样？” Ms. Yang naturally does not have the opinion, then two people then move toward that chain fast-food restaurant directly. 杨母自然是没意见,然后两人便径直走向那家连锁快餐店。 After the respective point a fast-food, very thrifty Ms. Yang this time is to usually rush to pay, more than 20 dollars, Jiang Feng has not then snatched with her. 在各自点了一份快餐后,平时非常节俭的杨母这次是抢着买单,左右不过二十多块钱,江枫便没有跟她抢。 When looks after the good respective fast-food the seat sits, Ms. Yang then sighs: „River matchmaker, be honest with you, my miss was 28 years old, I have been having a headache for her matter of lifetime importance this year recently!” 等拿好各自的快餐找座位坐好后,杨母便感叹道:“江媒人,不瞒你说,我姑娘今年已经28岁了,我最近一直在为她的终身大事而头痛呢！” Jiang Feng said with a smile: „Aunt, I look at you are young the time is also a beautiful woman, has your such mother to think that your miss is also beautiful woman one, but also feared that she couldn't find the object?” 江枫笑道:“阿姨,我看你年轻的时候也是一位美女,有你这样的母亲想必你姑娘也是美女一个,还怕她找不到对象啊？” „River matchmakers you may really speak.” “江媒人你可真会说话。” Ms. Yang praised one, sighs with emotion: „If the goal is only marrying, my miss does not worry to marry actually, the key is my miss is filial, she must lead me to get married, making me follow she to enjoy happiness, therefore has towed unable to find the right object to the present.” 杨母夸了一句,才感慨道:“如果目标只是嫁出去的话,我这姑娘倒是不愁嫁,关键是我这姑娘孝顺,她要带着我嫁人,让我跟着她享福,所以才一直拖到现在都没能找到合适的对象。”