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第1175章居然有人在造谣我离婚了,这里对个人生活做第一次也是唯一的一次谈论。Todayhad the reader saying that in the book reviewareaheardmeto divorce, ranto care aboutme, Ierased the suchboredbook reviewconveniently, afterwarddiscoveredsomepeoplefabricated a rumorinotherplaces, moreoverunexpectedly many people believed that thisdiscovered that oneselfreallybecomessomepublic figure.
今天有读者在书评区说听到我离婚了,跑来关心我,我顺手删掉了这么无聊的书评,后来才发现有人在其他的地方造谣,而且居然有很多人信,这才发现自己果然成为了某种公众人物。First, the marriagegood——myactuallyby no means is still willingto discussthismatterwithanybodyin the way of confession, because ofregardless of the good intentionsor the evil intention, myby no meansthinks that anybystanderhas the qualificationsto care aboutmypersonallife. Howeverfirstdid not saythis point, the follow-upspeech does not seem ablealsoto launch, thereforeherealsosaidthis for the first time for the last time.
首先,婚姻尚好——我其实并不愿意跟任何人以交代的方式谈论这件事,因为无论善意或恶意,我个人并不认为任何外人有资格来关心我的私人生活。但是不先说一下这一点,后续的说话似乎又无法随之展开,所以这里第一次也最后一次说说这个。In the past several years, Ias far as possiblehonestdiscussionownininformal essayin the pastand understanding of life, but iflookedtruly the reader who maydiscover, Ialwaysshared, after wasthesereallife, to some summaries of life, Ithinks that theselife experiencesmaybe usefultosomefriends, thereforeshared, butmyby no means the ownlife, beside the personsharetoreal worldrelatives and friends, thismiddlewill have the explicitboundaryto exist.
在过去的几年里,我会在随笔里尽量坦诚的谈论自己的过去和对人生的理解,但如果是真正看进去的读者或许会发现,我从来分享的,是这些真实的生活之后,对人生的一些总结,我认为这些人生经验或许会对一些朋友有用,因此分享出来,但我并不会将自己的人生本身,对现实世界亲朋好友之外的人分享,这中间会有明确的界限存在。InIdo not writeabsolutelyinprocess, particularly after this year the influencestartsto increase, somepeoplewill runto fabricate a rumorfor various reasons, willfullybroadcast sowingownto be despicable, thisby no meansiswhat not unimaginablematter, even, thisisuntil nowIcan the oneincorrigbility of profoundcognition, Iregardingtheirlives, the interest that anddoes not have anydutyalsohas nopay attention. Butinplace that thesefabricated a rumor, moreover the kind of well-meaningbookfriend, theysaid,Ithinkin the past the life of bananawas very happy, unexpectedlydivorced, I the fantasyto the lovewas shattered, Iactuallywantto speaksomewordstothesebookfriends.
在我写作不断断更的过程里,尤其是今年影响力开始变大之后,有人会因为各种的原因跑来造谣,恣意地撒播自己的卑劣,这并不是什么无法想象的事情,甚至于,这是一直以来我都能深刻认知的一种劣根性,我对于他们的人生,并没有任何义务也没有任何的兴趣予以关注。而在这些造谣的地方,另外也有一类善意的书友,他们说,我过去以为香蕉的生活很幸福美满,居然离婚了,我对爱情的幻想破灭了,我其实是想对这些书友说一些话。Inhumanpitifulsociety, despicablephenomena, are called the idolcurrently, whenitpasses throughsomeassembly lines the workto arrive at the present, thisalmostalreadyis the volume of entiresocialincorrigbilityinaccomplishmentonemonster. Youlooked,people'slifeis deficient, will therefore reposeto the expectation of lifeinotherperson, youanticipated that others handsomeandcharming, profoundandsensible, anticipatedhewill sing, dance, make a movieandwill not marry, thereforemakes the starcompanyto holdsome20years old overeven less than 20years old of young personto reposeyourimagination, at the same time received exchange for the large amount ofmoney, thisessentiallyregarding the onedestruction of person. Naturally, peoplepin the ownimaginationonothers'bodyfrivolously, whenthisimaginationis unable to be reposed, peoplecraveinruining others, gains the superiority feeling of spare time......, butthisbehaviorstartsto expand, peoplestartto reposetheseimaginationon the doctor, pinson the attorney, pinson the writer, in the futurewill even pinon the scientist, peoplethink that thisis the happymatter, butpleaseremember, no onecan the carrying/sustainingmost people'ssustenance, likeLuoXiang, likeZhang Wenhong, whentheyfacingtens of thousands ofpeople, no mattertheyletgentle and humble, whilelettingtens of thousands ofpeoplefeelscomfortable. Will havetens of thousands ofpeopleto wantthroughdestroyingthemmanifestsownto exist. Butregardless to the pro and con, LuoXiangandZhang Wenhong'slife, does not livefortheseobservers.
在人类这可怜的社会上,目前有一种卑劣的现象,叫做偶像,当它经过一些流水线的作业走到现在,这几乎已经是集整个社会劣根性于大成的一种怪物。你们看,人们自身的生活贫乏,于是将对生活的憧憬寄托于别的人身上,你期待他人英俊、帅气、渊博、懂事,期待他唱歌、跳舞、会拍戏而且不结婚,于是一些造星的公司捧出些二十岁出头甚至二十岁不到的年轻人来寄托你们的想象,与此同时换取巨额的金钱,这本质上就是对于人的一种毁灭。当然,人们轻佻地将自己的想象寄托在别人的身上,当这种想象无法被寄托,人们又热衷于毁掉他人,来获取茶余饭后的优越感……而当这种行为开始扩大,人们开始将这些想象寄托在医生身上,寄托在律师身上,寄托在写手身上,未来甚至寄托在科学家身上,人们以为这是美好的事情,但请记住,没有人可以承载多数人的寄托,如同罗翔,如同张文宏,当他们面对成千上万的人,不管他们多么温良恭俭让,在让成千上万人觉得舒服的同时,也会有成千上万人想要通过毁灭他们来体现出自己的存在。但无论对正反两面,罗翔与张文宏的人生,都不是为这些旁观者而活的。Mylife is also, Iam a writer, takeswriting a bookasto live, mybody, Icantake the thing that is also willingto taketo change money only, butIwrite a book the handskill, occasionallyIalsoexchangewitheveryonethrough the shared experience and sensibility, but, mynon-carrying/sustaininganybody'simaginationtomylife, I do not expressanybody'slove, ortolifesustenancediligently, everyone, pleaseonanybody, not reposing the ownlifeto suppose, everyone, mustfacing the ownlife, whole-heartedly, butImerelyprovide the ownexperienceoccasionallyandsummarize. Reference.
我的人生也是,我是一个写手,以写书为生,我的身上,我唯一能够拿出来也唯一愿意拿出来换钱的东西,只是我写书的手艺,偶尔我也通过分享经验和感悟来与大家交流,但是,我不承载任何人对我人生的想象,我不寄托任何人的爱情,或是对人生努力的寄托,各位,请你们也不要在任何人身上,寄托自己的人生假设,每一个人,都要面对自己的人生,全力以赴,而我仅仅偶尔提供自己的经验和总结,予以参考。Has not adoptedseveral years ago of variousmeasuresin the country, for example19years, the data of nationaldivorceover40%, husband and wife of everyfivepairs of marriage, will once havetwopairsto divorce, facingsohighdata, peoplewill still whoopto the divorce of eachpair of star, as if the visithas never seensocialmiracle.
在国家还没有采取各种措施的前几年,譬如19年,全国离婚的数据一度超过百分之四十,每五对结婚的夫妻,会有两对离婚,面对如此高的数据,人们仍旧会对每一对明星的离婚议论纷纷,仿佛参观从未见过的社会奇迹。Inmylife, withoutseeing the perfectperson, eachfriend, has hadthis and thatslight defect, but a quiteuniversalslight defectis, manypeoplecravein the standard of bysageappraise others 'slifein the network, was similar toeveryonespare timeto sayincourtyardin the pastothers'shameful secretwas ordinary, buttoday, wemakecarrying/sustainingourmaliciousexpendable items the stars and public figures.
在我的人生之中,没有见过完美的人,每一个朋友,都有这样那样的瑕疵,而一个比较普遍的瑕疵在于,很多人都热衷于以圣人的标准在网络上评价他人的生活,就如同过去大家茶余饭后在院子里说别人的阴私一般,只不过今天,我们将明星和公众人物做成承载我们恶意的易耗品。Inmylife, naturallyalsohaswellorbadthing, butmyalreadygraduallywas very difficultto mentionthese, Iwas the ordinaryperson, had the ordinarymarriage and life, ifmustshow off, naturallyalsohadmatter that canshow off, the person who whencared aboutwere gradually many, amongthiswill havevariousdistortions, suchtwistsdamagesmylife, samedamagedyour. Butwantsto have the good life, has the goodlove, orother, reposein others 'sbody, is pointless, the truthis, wealwaysoneselftremblingfacing, processeach time in lifeto joltdiscretely, Ienter the seventhyearwithwife'smarriage, has the overgroundto gather, has had the quarrel, sometimeswill also feel handy, buthusband and wife of the world'smostlovewill still haveover a hundredwishdivorceseven, wecouldarrivetremblingfinally, but, that are not related withyou, youfacing the ownlife. Even ifanybodyone daycannot walk, that is still onlysomesloppyordinarysocial phenomena.
我的人生之中,自然也有好的或是坏的东西,但我渐渐的已经很难说起这些了,我是普通的人,有普通的婚姻与生活,如果要炫耀,当然也有可以炫耀的事情,但是当关心的人渐渐多起来,这中间就会发生各种的扭曲,这样的扭曲既损毁我的人生,也同样损毁你们的。而想要有好的生活,有好的爱情,又或是其它,寄托于他人的身上,是没有意义的,道理在于,我们始终得自己战战兢兢的面对,谨慎地处理生活中的每一次颠簸,我跟妻子的婚姻进入第七年,有过磨合,有过争吵,有时候也会觉得得心应手起来,但是即便世界上最恩爱的夫妻也会有上百次的想要离婚,我们或许能战战兢兢地走到最后,但是,那跟你们没有关系,你们得面对自己的人生。而即便任何人有一天走不下去,那也只是一些稀松平常的社会现象。IfIam a so- calledidol, Iwill make the false appearance that Ilive, toldyoumeto haveperfectlyhowhowhigh-quality, at the same timeItook awayyourmoneythroughthisfraud, butthiswas the pitifulmatter, the experience of lifetoldme, will not havesuchto be perfect, thisperfectfalse appearance, was in itself cancreateto an extremedistortion of person, the fansthroughdestroying a personobtained the pleasant sensation, the idolthroughdestroyingoneselfobtain the wealth. Thisperhapsis an equivalent exchange, butIdo not betrayanypersonaloneselfto anticipateorimagineforeveryone. Invitedeveryonealsowhole-heartedlyfacing the ownlife.
如果我是一个所谓的偶像,我会制造我生活的假象,告诉你们我有多么的完美多么的优质,与此同时我通过这种骗局拿走你们的钱,但这是可怜的事情,人生的经验告诉我,不会有这样的完美,这种完美的假象,本身就是对一个人的极度扭曲才能造成的,粉丝们通过毁灭一个人获得快感,偶像通过毁灭自己获得财富。这或许是一种等价交换,但我不出卖任何私人的自己供大家期待或想象。请大家也都全力以赴地面对自己的人生。ThisisIdiscussesthismatterfor the last time, in the futureIwill still record the ownlife, butthatinevitablyinhavingsensed the latershare, Ionlyguarantee the sincerity of thisshare. If there is friend'stomylifeor the loveis interested, askingeveryoneto respondbythisarticle. Ifsome dayIrun up to the articleto sell...... Umpurelymiserably, thataskedeveryoneto hitto enjoymymoney, at that time, Iwas short of moneymostlyvery much......:
这是我最后一次谈论这件事情,未来我仍会记录自己的人生,但那必然是在有了感悟之后的分享,我仅保证这种分享的真诚。而若是有朋友对我的人生或是爱情感兴趣,请大家以这篇文章予以回应。而若是有一天我跑到文章里纯粹卖惨……嗯,那就请大家打赏我一点钱罢,那个时候,我多半是很缺钱了……:-DDo not repose the ownlifeon others, naturallyallspiritless, lazyanddespicablemanifestations, thatwill expedite the monster of distortion.
不要将自己的人生寄托于他人身上,那是一切懦弱、懒惰与卑劣的体现,那会催生出扭曲的怪物。
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